Do you find it easy/hard to confess your feelings to someone you like? When and how do you tell them? Or not?

[Pinay_ako]

[mattthefatbat]

I heard there was this saying among guys that being mysterious about your feelings to your crush makes the woman like you more, although it is kinda fun if she is into you. But frankly I'd find it easier and prefer just being honest and open with my feelings to her when I realized she also was ready to confess to me that she liked me

[Pinay_ako]

Sometimes being too mysterious turns people off. You gotta show if the feeling is mutual or it’s useless wasting time. Time is gold

[mattthefatbat]

@Pinay_ako Exactly

[bobby_bush_eater]

I greatly struggled with this as a kid. Now I'm not wasting time I don't care so much anymore. If I do confess my feelings intentions are serious so what's there to lose 🤷‍♂️. Hasn't feel for someone since I was 20 tho

[Pinay_ako]

What caused it?

[bobby_bush_eater]

What caused what? If you mean as a kid, I was terrified of rejection. I was insanely competitive and always had to be the best at everything so a rejection was something I couldn't handle

[mandyfire98]

Not really Because I don't fall for people easily. It takes a lot, like a whole lot. I take relationships super seriously. I don't even go official until I'm definitely in love. So by that point I'm 100 percent sure and have no issues telling the other person.

[NathanDavis]

exactly this... 💯

[RMSTitanic]

How do you take relationships seriously if you're polyamorous?

[mandyfire98]

I take both Of my relationships serious because I'm madly in love with both of them.

[RMSTitanic]

So why not be in love with one? Is this some African harem where it's common to have multiple wives? Lol

[mandyfire98]

I'm not from Africa.

Because I can love more than one person. I'm bisexual and there are things a guy can't give me that a woman can. There are things a woman can't give me that a man can. So I'm not going to go without one or the other. That's why I have a girlfriend and a boyfriend.

[Peridot25]

I never confess.

[Pinay_ako]

So they confess?

[MatureSexyClassy]

It can be very daunting and scary to take this risk. The way it is supposed to work, the guy would be the one to take the risk and make the first move of asking you to spend some time together and see where things go. If he won't do that you may need to tell him that you like him and would like to know his feelings about it as well. Again this takes risk but if you want to move the relationship forward to potential romance it is worth it. Try to do it when nobody else is around and in person. I would not recommend doing this by phone or text. Being able to see each other completely is both scarier and makes the adrenaline rise faster too. But that is good if you channel it in a positive direction and let the other person know you think they are special.

It is not easy at all. But it IS super satisfying when you are both being very honest no matter what the outcome.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I found it easy but I always did with some tact.

For example, instead of telling a woman I liked her, I casually asked her out on a date. Communicates the same thing and more but in a way that's more comfortable for the woman, especially if she wants to reject the offer.

I also prefer show, not tell when possible. So instead of telling a woman I love her, I might give her a hug. Same idea but I think it's more genuine and deep.

[IslaTheWitch]

It takes me a sick amount of time to get to know him enough to be sure of my and his feelings... but then it's not a problem at all... it comes naturally...

[Decoded93]

It’s hard to explain deep emotions if you already have a connection, if you just met them and are interested it’s not so hard

[thatshydork]

Hard. Very very hard. Not sure why, that’s just how I’ve always been.

[spartan55]

Such a risky, awkward process that has to be timed right.

[Apple1996]

Easy if I like someone I'll tell them right away.

[RavVid]

I think I'm pretty obvious in my non-verbals and not at all subtle.

[Sevenpointfive]

i think that depends on my mood and whether there is an empathetic ear

[TaureanBull81]

I can't say that I confess my feelings for a woman unless I can see that she's feeling the same and reciprocating.

[Plugs]

It’s a man’s duty and is he even one if he can’t propose

[dolemite58]

You don’t do that as a guy that’s like showing your hand to the dealer in a poker game. Always keep it a mystery how u feel about her.

[dragoblack]

Hard... mainly due to anxiety and overthinking, but also due to past experiences.

[Bobby88t]

Just be yourself! This is the most important

[Fuentes]

I do cause it's always wrong to have feelings in the first place lol

[Tomisworthless]

My heart is of stone

[Pinay_ako]

What happened for it to turn into one

[Violet_78]

Currently finding it impossible…

[Whitey_Johnson]

Oh, to have feelings again.

[douride2]

I have a difficult time with my emotions.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

I don't say anything.