Is it hard/easy for you to express your feelings to someone? When you like them romantically?

[Pinay_ako]

Or you’d rather keep it to yourself and hope it will go away?

[RavVid]

I think sneak it in but be fairly open. My reasoning is that inherently you are asking for those feelings to be reciprocated and whenever people are asked for something unexpectedly people are inclined to say NO automatically. Expressing feelings is close to a demand to return those same feelings.

One girl said to me 'I'm starting to fall for you'. She snuck it in.

[CallmeTheKnight]

It’s not. Some people just need time and expertise while others are able to do so without being afraid

[Little_Bumblebee]

Very difficult for me. I usually keep it to myself, locked up.
In my head I feel like it's embarrassing or that it's embarrassing for the receiver for me to like them.

It's some issues I've acquired from my childhood.

And even in a relationship I've always struggled to say the 3 big words.

[KateDemee]

Do you mean if you're in a relationship already or not yet?

[Pinay_ako]

Not yet in the process of getting there

[KateDemee]

Oh then. Yes hard to express it

[catiecatie]

So currently I have a big crush on this one guy! We haven’t seen each other in almost 2 months and haven’t texted each other in 3 weeks. I do need to go and interview him as he is an instructor and I do need to get my hours in. It seems like he’s interested in me but it’s hard to tell. I think im just going to ask him out for drinks to see what he says. If he says no then we’ll im done no hard feelings. But I have been known to shoot my shot with some guys and I have been rejected but that’s what makes me stronger and eventually I feel better about doing it. I just need to do it with my crush here as soon as possible. He starts classes again next week and I should probably call on Friday or Monday to ask this questions. Im sure he will be the one I talk to anyways.

[exitseven]

It is really hard. It used to be so hard I could not do it. Even if I knew that girl liked me I could never make a move. I sort of got over it a little but it was still hard. To make things worse I told a girl that I loved her and she told me that I was crazy. That soured me on the whole process for a while.

[Ciel7889]

It's not that easy anymore feelings keep changing as you know more about that person, someday you feel that they are just the right person and someday you feel whether it's ok to like them. Though i will observe more before i consider them as my future prospects.

[McKellar]

The amount of rejections which I have gone through, I called it quits a long time ago. Now I just don't talk to any of the ladies at all because I know what the repetitive type of results are going to be. It's going to be the same damn thing, so now there's just no point.

[Bonsoire]

Bro, this was depressing to read.. just because you haven't recieved a yes yet, doesn't mean you won't. Try 100 times you're bound to get 1 positive response.

[McKellar]

100 times? Do you realize how desperate that looks?

[JesseP1nk]

It depends. If im in love with someone who i know is single, i have no problem express my feelings. If she is in relationship then im more cautious. Im not worried about me, i dont wanna put her in weird situation. So then i need more signs that she is interested in me also.

[Selliebeanz]

It depends on how the other person is treating me. If they are reciprocating my energy I will be open with them. If they are inconsistent or make me feel unsafe I will shove it down and try to move on.

[SpyderMurpph]

@Selliebeanz Would you mind answering a question and giving advice on a neighbor girl issue? dm me if its okay?

[Sparkie460]

I tell my wife all the time. When I feel like she's being a bitch, I tell her. When I'm annoyed by her , I tell her. When I feel she's over reacting, I'll tell her. Don't worry, I tell her when I love her too. Lol

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s the best strategy, I always told my ex - if I was ever mad at him just come, grab and kiss me or tell me he loves me. Would work like a magic.

[Sparkie460]

That doesn't work with my wife. If she's really mad at me she tells me don't touch her. She hasn't been that mad in a long time

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Wow, I have never been that mad.

[Sparkie460]

Luckily it doesn't last that long, maybe a day or two.

[UniquelyBasic]

I'm pretty open about myself to basically anyone. Over the years I've tried to reel it back a little and not over share some more personal parts of my life with people I've known for a little.

[ShesRad80]

i would rather keep them to myself but i dont, i put it out there throwing caution to the wind, so i guess its rather easy for me

[Hithere4567]

I've been hurt, so I do find it hard to share intimate feelings. Makes me feel vulnerable when I trust someone with deep emotions.

[ObscuredBeyond]

I test the waters. If nothing tries to bite me, I get a little bolder.

[strateguy632]

the best question i have seen all week! hard to reveal.

[whatdouwant]

It's hard... not for the fear of rejection... I'd rather write a note

[Pinay_ako]

You like writing love letters?

[whatdouwant]

Love letters? LoL well sure... Erotica too even... I just ment that i, myself, seem to express my thoughts through paper

[whatdouwant]

More easily... sorry

[Pinay_ako]

Sounds interesting.

[DermalPunch]

No, but I don't because I usually get screwed over.

[Jazzy54]

Easy, but since it’s never been mutual, I just keep my mouth shut now.

[soe11]

All depending on your willingness and eagerness.

[soe11]

Correction
eagerness

[Nikki1989]

I find it so easy, it sometimes gets me into trouble.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Personally for me it's easy. I don't know why neither.

I just tell her how I feel about her usually giggling.

[Christoff92]

Depending on the person I want to really attract. It's a 50/50 😐

[Iron_Man]

It all comes from my heart. I let it flow out.