Do men take it personally when you don’t text back fast enough?

[Anonymous]

I’m on a dating app, trying to find a relationship, I have been texting different men, I’m very busy and overwhelmed with my life, I’m also a mother and I usually take between an hour or longer to text back, most of the men I never meet in person, because they stop answering.

[Hulk_kitty]

You should say to that them, its just courtesy. Also why are you texting so many different guys, if you haven't got the time as you are a mother as well.

You should just focus one guy at a time, and make sure he is suited for you, If not move on to the next. Just don't get too emotionally invested too soon.

I wonder why you are overwhelmed, putting to much on yourself.

[In_Trance]

I think the expectation generally speaking would be to text back as fast as you would expect a text back.
Again that's generally speaking.

Rhetorical question; if you feel you're too busy with everyday life to even respond to a text why on Earth are you on a dating app?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I don't think so unless some guys are very different from me. I don't even notice. I figure I want something from a girl and that's when I send her message to meet me somewhere.

[RealMarek]

Some do. You know, the guys who fall into the “not the right guy for you” category. Try not to let it get to you. They’re showing themselves to not be good matches.

[Jedadiah]

If you’re too busy to respond then apparently you are too busy to be in a relationship

[noohair]

I don't have a timer on texts.