Men, why don’t you text women back?

[Anonymous]

So this guy I had a crush on for a while started texting me. Although we would text each other at different times it was good I guess. We agreed to hang out next week and go bowling. When I asked him if this date was okay with him he ignored my message. He viewed my story but ignored my message. I’m starting to think maybe I sounded a little condescending considering I didn’t say “good morning.” And I didn’t ask until 2 days after the fact.

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

I don't think you sounded condescending. I've had it happen before where a girl opens my snap and forgets to message me back since she was busy.

How long has it been since you messaged him or he has messaged you? Try one more time.

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Sometimes I get side tracked due to my ADHD

[Asker]

It’s been a day. The last time he replied I only liked his message I couldn’t acknowledge it because I didn’t know what my work schedule was like so I texted him 2 days afterwards.

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Gotcha. Did he leave you on read? Read receipts on?

[Asker]

No he didn’t leave me on read. But he viewed my story.

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Gotcha. Try texting him one more time to ask if he is still up for bowling.

[Asker]

I just think I offended him.

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Why do you think that?

[Asker]

For not saying a greeting and not engaging in his past message.

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Ooof. What was his past message.

[Asker]

“Yes sure, I haven’t been bowling in forever lol.”

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Dm me. I'm not getting notifications

[Asker]

You didn’t see my comment?

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Just saw it

[PatriceONeal]

Guys are learning girls like to waste our time and get validation through texting woth zero intention of ever meeting up or hanging out etc. Tldr men are tired of the games

[Asker]

So he thinks I’m playing him

[PatriceONeal]

I dont know your situation I can't say for sure

[jshm2]

Because not every man is interested in you.