Who's the biggest looser in this situation?

[Anonymous]

I met an idiot on a dating site and we chatted for about a year, he asked me for a picture of my body and I gave it to him and then he blocked me. I thought that was the last time I saw that weasel but I ended up seeing him again on another dating site and he said he never blocked me and the reason why he stopped talking to me was because he got into a relationship and claimed to be single again.

He also promised me that he would help me get an apartment if I let him cuddle with me when he wanted to. I regret not blocking him but out of desperation I met up with him and did the horizontal hustle with him and the following week we met up again. Long story short I ended up getting pregnant and after I told him he didn't even offer to pay for an abortion because he immediately ghosted me, I then was horrified because not only did he bamboozled me but now I was pregnant, I was extremely devastated and couldn't afford an abortion and I was homeless.

I ended up getting help at a hospital where they helped me get off being homeless and i decided to keep the baby and sue him for child support. He tried to run like the rat that he was and hide but the child support people don't play and he was eventually put on child support and he pays $1040 a month. In my opinion there's no winner's in this situation because now he has to deal with the child support department who will yearly bend him over and try to reap money from him and I am stuck with his child who looks like him and is a handful and gives me nothing but stress.

[Anonymous]

It is not productive or fair to label anyone as a "loser" in this situation. Both parties made choices that have led to a difficult and challenging situation, and both are dealing with the consequences of their actions.

It is unfortunate that the other person lied and manipulated you, and it is understandable that you feel hurt and frustrated by his actions. However, it is important to focus on taking positive steps to provide for yourself and your child, rather than seeking to assign blame or label someone as a "loser."

It is admirable that you have taken steps to seek support and provide for yourself and your child, and it is important to prioritize your own well-being and the well-being of your child. Seeking legal recourse through child support is a responsible and appropriate step to ensure that your child's needs are met and that you are able to provide for them.

It is important to focus on moving forward and creating a positive future for yourself and your child, rather than dwelling on the past or seeking revenge.

[Gingerbread_GB]

He sounds like a terrible person. Don't focus on him, focus on your child. Don't ever let him take advantage of you again. You decided to bring a child into this world, and that's a big deal. Love your child and get all the support you can. There are a lot of men out there, you'll meet the right one sooner or later.

[arodriguez664]

Cuddling never means cuddling. It's always sex with them. I'm sorry that happened to you and it does seem like an shitty situation. I'm sorry that happened to you

[slatyb]

"I met an idiot on a dating site and we chatted for about a year," I don't think he was the only idiot on that site.

[Anonymous]

The child since he doesn't have a dad in his life and a mom that doesn't love him and will abuse him because he simply looks like the guy the mom hates.

[Anonymous]

Well he seems to be and must make a lot of money to pay that for one kid, they garnish 17 percent of his gross income to get that for one kid. Now you have his baby as a reminder and he doesn’t want anything to do with it

[Anonymous]

I can tell you who's the winner in this. All of us reading this. 😆😆😆 that was awesome!

[Iron_Man]

What a horrible loser

[DownInTheDumps]

You are both in the wrong here.

[Tomisworthless]

He’s the idiot yet he got nudes from you