Bad texter or does not want to talk to me?

[mariess77765]

Hi guys, so me and this guy matched on tinder. We have been on 3 dates and it's been going well.

HOWEVER, his texting sucks and I hate it. It is so sporadic, it stresses me out. He posts but does not reply, but sees my stories 5 minutes after posting.

Am I wasting my time, what do I do? HELP

[Etoirty]

A topic that is brought up in the red pill/manosphere is that guys who are constantly texting and ready to reply are not attractive, while guys who are never on their phones are attractive because that means they are participating in life and getting that bread etc. The problem is that he clearly isn't so focused on life that he can't text you because because he looks at your stories immediately and probably doesn't even know that he can be caught doing that otherwise he would likely stay away. My understanding of the situation is that he is trying to seem more "manly and attractive" but really isn't genuine in this manliness. He probably wants to talk to you more than he lets on and tries to save it for dates.

[Anonymous]

Doesn’t matter because he’s not meeting your needs so you should be the one losing interest. If you want you can communicate what you want from him before you cut it off. If he likes you enough he will step up

[boggboss]

Sounds like he just don't enjoy texting people

[In_Trance]

Not interested