Men say we have the pick of the litter on dating apps but do they realize these are the options?

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I can't 🤡

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I still don’t understand what exactly his problem with O+ blood group is. It just seems so random. It would make more sense if he didn’t want to date a girl with a negative blood group (if he is positive) since the second pregnancy (if they go on to have more than one kid) could result in erythroblastosis foetalis if the mother is not administered anti Rh antibodies. +ve blood group is almost always dominant, so the chances are the first baby might also inherit the Rh+ve blood type. If the blood of the foetus mixes with that of the mother’s during child birth, the mother’s body might develop antibodies against the +ve type. This makes more sense, right?

His bio is also extremely cringey and seems to be full of stuff he doesn’t like in a woman as opposed to what he does like. I get bad vibes from him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I found that when I was on tinderbox online dating was not the way to go.

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

I would laugh if it wasn´t so sad that some guys obviously don´t take dating seriously. Something in me can´t believe that those profiles are not some bots but are real.
I actually didn´t know the options don´t look that bad. I would change the dating app because I can´t believe that´s all the options you got.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

It's not unusual to see women's profiles on dating apps that are similar to that one. But, yes, it's not a secret that there is quantity but not much quality for women on dating apps.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Some of the females online are not realy delightful, either. Just as IRL, you must sort through the chaff to find the wheat.

Steelcore5280 · Answer

On dating apps, about 80-90% of the women are going after the top 5-10% of men. The majority of women on these apps could very well easily find and get a decent guy off of something like Bumble, Tinder, Upward, etc., but they're tpp busy fighting each other over the top 5-10% of the men that are available.

What if I also told you that on Bumble, approximately 89% of women use the height filter and place 6'0 and above as a filter? Do you know how low a percentage of men in the United States are that are 6'0 and taller? It's less than 15%.

Here's a video on what it's like for even guys who are considered average on a site like Tinder:

Women could definitely snag a really decent guy off any of these dating apps, but y'all let hypergamy get 100% in the way, instead.

Anonymous · Answer

His standards are pretty on point…
-Girls with red/blue/green hair are 100% insane
-Single moms are only datable to single dads.
-impoverished are leeches
-hookup female are valueless
-females seeing therapists are mentally fucked
-potheads are trashy and usually slutty
-corpulent (obese) is not valuable
-“choke me” types are fucked in the head
-girls with weird piercings are always trashy as hell
-feminist are a flaming cancer
-“bi” females are always slutty and can’t be trusted.

But his approach is definitely in need of some tuning.

RealMarek · Answer

The problem is that economic and social circumstances have, on average, degraded the attractiveness of the population and reduced the odds of forming stable male-female relationships. There is reason for frustration on the part of men and women alike.

Redstang88 · Answer

Well I think we can all agree there’s a lot of trash from both sexes on dating apps. But yes women do have the luxury of just having to pick through their options, whereas we have to do the chasing and put in all the work done usually only to find out later how batshit she is

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Those guys may be undesirable, but at least they're actually people. The only "women" ever interested in me are Bots. Or if they turn out to be women, they want me to pay to see their "cam shows". So I tell each of them the same thing every time: If you were just a tad hotter, you'd be on OnlyFans instead. 😂

So here's to us. 🍻 👍

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Honestly, that looks exactly what men see when it comes to women on those dating apps too. So it is more of a quality of individual you will probably find on them.

This looks like an unironic meme more than anything.

inhua · Answer

statistics show women on dating apps do have the pick of the litter. you may not like the litter for whatever reason but it's still more than most men who have no litter to pick from and those men will pick up the litter if there is any.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I didn't read the whole thing, so forgive me if I give the wrong answer, but...

This is what I've stated before on here a few times - women's 'options' consist of men they don't really want and they therefore aren't really 'options'.

HighValue · Answer

The second one, if they removed the stuff about blood type and dry jumping, the rest of it is reasonable.

Levin · Answer

Well to be fair, I'm sure you have chad swiping for you, too... First guy obviously has had a life of rejection and is trying to empower himself by cutting women down.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Most females online dating are total trash. So are ones in real life. Let's be honest. Fat. Slut. Feminist. 30+ Yuck yuck yuck now weed out those women and there are like 10% left at best.

RavVid · Answer

Some women like a fix'er upper. You might laugh but I know a nurse who took on a homeless man. And I know an instance where a man put down how useless he was and woman snapped him up.

MysticDevice · Answer

The best analogy i've heard about that is: Men get maybe one or two cakes a month Women get 35 cakes a day, but 33 of them are baked with laxitives. Online dating just sucks overall.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

I bet the guy that wrote that is a virgin😂 that made me laugh... Well there are crazy people in every corner.. both men and women.

Andres77 · Answer

If you’re not interested in the entire historical background of the lord of the rings then I can’t help you.

slatyb · Answer

And of course you don't. I was on dating apps and turned down many invitations for various reasons. I was only interested in maybe 2% of the women.

aoihewgf · Answer

I've gottent away on multiple apps just posting one picture, with no summary, and would get numberous likes. The summaries are pointless, you just need to look good and take a proper pic

Jersey2 · Answer

So what the deal with O Positive blood type I wonder. That is the most unreasonable disqualifer.

AydenHazor · Answer

There's definitely a lot of crap guys online. There's also a lot of crap girls and fake girls as well. I gave up on the online dating scene very quickly

MementoMori777 · Answer

It's not just dating apps, I've gotten weirdos like this on instagram

Snakeyes7 · Answer

If you don't want them just swipe left. If those dudes end up alone because of that that's their problem.

zagor · Answer

One obnoxious post does not a dating site make. How about the women whose whole ad is a list of deal-breakers?

AngryCarl2 · Answer

That's hilarious, but unfortunately it has to be fake.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know why your complaining. I wish women on dating sites listed thier craziness like that. It'd make it so much easier to weed them out. 😆😆😆

Anonymous · Answer

I think this is the case for both, sometimes I guess it feels just pointless when you see what's out there.

I can't really decide which of those not interested in is more ridiculous. I think the blood type one might be the case.

shortster · Answer

It isn't much better from the guy side. I get writing bios about yourself isn't easy; but a little editing can go a long way.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I found online dating to be, well...

Chthou95 · Answer

The dude actually makes some solid points in the first part. And at least he's being honest about it

Anonymous · Answer

if he thinks the women on dating apps are bad he should try this piece of shit site his jaw would really drop then with all the scumbag whores on here

Rangers · Answer

You're in China, what did you expect?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Omg this guy is a legend. 🤩

PointTaken · Answer

Wt actual f? Seriously people put all that?

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Sounds like someone who will die alone 👍

Charliefretz329 · Answer

There are weirdos everywhere love! 🤣

Anonymous · Answer

Some people are hellbent on dying alone.

Anonymous · Answer

Exactly, we get options like this

osoli · Answer

I often wish I was a lesbian.

Still-alive · Answer

Is this one of them ‘pick me’ chicks? Lol

Degenerate · Answer

Yeah lol those are all great options

OddBeMe · Answer

That’s Patrick Bateman’s profile.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

What's wrong with having a preference?

Agape93 · Answer

Pffft xD

Keishio · Answer

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