Do girls like skinny or chubby guys more?

Question

Hey, I was just wondering if girls like skinny or chubby guys more, to be more specific let's say that we have a 180cm (+-6ft) man, average weird for a guy like that is 70kg (+-155lbs). And let's say the difference is 10kg (+-22lbs) would you prefer a 80kg (+-176lbs) man with some extra fat or would you prefer a skinny guy 60kg (+-132lbs) that's well... skinny... (I don't know if it's relevant but let's say the age is 18)

Thank you for your time.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

I have no preference for the looks, weight and height of a person. I don't date and therefore, those measures don't matter to me. However, if I was forced to date or if I had no other choice but to date a person, then my preference would go to a person that does not care about those futile measurements.

Of what good is that to me if the person is 6 ft and weighs 155 lbs but has a despicable character and personality? I would much rather settle for a short and chubby person that is 5'3, weights 200 lbs but that has all the assets a partner should have in terms of personality and character.

When people ask about the trivial assets such as size, height and/or weight, they always fail to address the real important aspect of that person. The outer shell is only cosmetic while the inner qualities are the ones that stay a lifelong.

You can gain or lose weight but you cannot change who you are. If you are a toxic person, you will always be like that despite your 6 feet and 155 pounds.

So, what is more important in life?

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

Healthy is what I prefer. If he is not in perfect shape, that is okay. That is something that can be worked on. So long as he eats healthy and has healthy habits, I am okay with that. I myself am in good shape, eat healthy and value my health.

I want a partner that has those same values. It would be awfully hard to have a serious relationship with someone that didn't have similar health values as it relates to food. What am I going to do? Make myself a healthy dinner while he orders pizza all the time? That just wouldn't work for me.

My husband is about 6' tall (slightly shorter) and used to play rugby. He went for all bulk and muscle mass out of necessity for that sport. Now that he no longer plays, he has changed his exercise habits to slim down and tone more than gain mass. So, he has dropped weight in the process. I still love him all the same no matter if he was big or thinner. It is about the person he is.

AaronKrieger · Accepted Answer

Dude, just be you and don't care about your body in terms of trying to attract women. You should only care about it in terms of health and functionality like strength/stamina. Also, I think most girls don't give a shit about it and mainly about you putting effort in your appearance like having nice outfits/hair along with good hygiene (smell nice).

Biggest thing outside of that is just find a girl you got chemistry with, as they care about that the most like most people. You can be the most boring ass dude, yet make a girl laugh like hell because you two just click.

BungusHighFivePizza · Accepted Answer

I think you gotta go for an image. Sounds fake but I don't know what's fake since I don't know what's real.

If you're really short you go for muscle and power usually. You get wide in a good way and not from fat. If you're tall you got more options like you can be very graceful or fast with powerful quads or you can even be super strong.

Most girls love a strong image. It doesn't have to be exact. It just has to be strong.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I don’t care if a guy is ugly but I do care if he is so fat that it shortens his life or makes him unable to be productive in society. I want the guy to make me happy but I also want him to make himself happy.

Genie23 · Answer

I like somewhere between.

Funkymonkey005 · Answer

I think your weight to hight ratio is a bit out. Unless here in South Africa the guys is just better build.

My friend is 172cm and weight is 80kg. Yes he play rugby. Faf de Klerk.

So i would say n little more meat cause my boyfriend same high and weight 87kg.

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

A lot of women are attracted to the “Dad Bod” because it takes the pressure off of them to stay fit. The more attractive a man is, the harder a woman must work to keep other hotties from lusting after her man.

That is why when some women enter into a marriage, she cooks for him a lot by feeding him a lot of comfort food full of carbs.

Anonymous · Answer

when I was 18ish I preferred tall and skinny/thin
as I got older I prefer tall broad big like bear so if it's between skinny and chunky as long as it's not excessive the Chunky one would be more attractive it seems but ideally I prefer BEAR like big hugs and fit

Anonymous · Answer

I actually really like guys with muscle. Not too much muscle, but a fit guy is super hot. I'm not going to lie, while my boyfriend's muscles aren't even close to the main reason why I am so attracted to him, they are a pretty big plus. Haha

Sour-rose · Answer

Skinny means they won't be trying to catch their breath when I'm walking at my normal pace. :1

Anemone978 · Answer

As long as your face is cute it just depends on the guy and who has the best personality...

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Either is fine, just as long he loves me and protects me.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Chubby is always more attractive than skin and bones.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

in my opinion your chubby isn't chubby enough, but for reasons I prefer a bit chubby over skinny.

JustBeingReal727 · Answer

Depends on how long they've known each other. Some are secret admirers who are denial about how they truly feel. Some people prefer looks over personality which normally doesn't last very long.

CreedOfIron · Answer

Skinny women are a lot more pleasant personality wise, chubby women are more physically attractive but their attitude and behaviour is just downright abhorrent... they get pumping and dumping treatment from me because of this 😂🤣😂🤣

Chthou95 · Answer

Most women in general like men in shape. If you're skinny, you could probably get by barely. But if you're chubby or fat, hit the gym. Most women dont like overweight guys

shades777 · Answer

I've heard some women like fluffy men, but more often the skinny guys get the attractive women

Katie1964 · Answer

Athletic and healthy please.

CarolineW · Answer

Overweight is unattractive

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

I stop at Dad bod.

Jazzy54 · Answer

I prefer an average guy. 😌

Avicenna · Answer

Normally skinny

siseñor · Answer

All depends on distribution

AsaKyo · Answer

I like either or lmao..

4ngelic · Answer

skinny by far

In_Trance · Answer

Skinny

Anonymous · Answer

Fit body

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