Since men complain about women rejecting them.. women why did you decline your latest offer in a potential mate and why?

[Spongebobssocks]

Mine would be from my last job. I will tell more about it later

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So last time I decline someone was my teamleader from my previous sales job. He was extremely rude to people. He would curse people out esspecially if they were shy and he would have 1 hour long morning meeting only talking about himself and how great he is.

He wanted to take me out for dinner but I declined. Because of his personality. But his looks were within my type but I can't be with someone like that.. I'm very conservative in dating and won't date for fun

[Rei13]

The last guy I rejected was because I’m already in a relationship (and he knew it!). If I was single I probably would have went for it however knowing that he would try to breach another relationship is a huge dealbreaker and I wouldn’t even introduce him to my single friends. Not the qualities of a trustworthy person

[Spongebobssocks]

Thankyou!!! I appreciate this. I agree. Its disgusting when someone hits on you if they know you are dating someone or if he is himself.

[marrk]

I had communicated that I did not like these things and gave him a chance to fix it and he didn’t:

gossipy and arrogant. (which meant I couldn’t trust him)

constantly contacted me (once sent me 11 messages in a row without me responding-it was overwhelming!)

moved too fast (made a pinterest board for us after date 1)

[Spongebobssocks]

I see. Very understanding why you dont wanna move forward with him

[marrk]

Thank you for MHO!

[Pinay_ako]

• I’m not available
• he ain’t my type
• I want to vomit 🤮 with his disgusting arrogance and he’s a narcissist
• He’s married
• i don’t like to mix business with pleasure

[Summeroflove]

Some people feel entitled to another person. Yeah it hurts being rejected. But at least they told the truth. If she’s a bitch you dodged a bullet if she was nice then it’s not meant to be.

[jennifer_bloom]

I rejected the last guy that I talked to face to face cause I felt his interests in life and in people had a highly superficial element and that he was too tangential and lacking concreteness in his goals in life.

[Adaeva]

The problem most young women have is they reject guys in their league because they can date hotter guys. However, if they don't put out the hotter guys will move on and, if they put out, the hotter guys will not marry them because for marriage they can do better.

Dating guys above their league is why girls reach age 30, are unmarried and asking "Where have all the good men gone? because at age 30, their sexual market value is much less.

The fact is girls don't have much time to find the best husband because after age 23 their sexual market drops and after age 26, it drops a lot.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright so why did you decline last time?

[Adaeva]

He was too old for me.

[Spongebobssocks]

👍🏻👍🏻

[DarkLegacy]

Lol, good to see a woman saying this and it is so very true

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He was 28, successful, had a Ferrari, nice house, told me he loved me and wanted to have a serious relationship with me possibly ending with marriage, was tall at 6’2 and quite stylish and nice looking.

But when he took off his top, his arms were very thin and shoulders not so broad and I felt like he wouldn’t be able to attract me as much as I like to be attracted to my partner. So I told him it would be better if we ended things.

Of I tagged him along, that would mean I’d use him, I think it’s better I ended things and didn’t give him false hopes. For me attraction is very important, I must be so attracted to ypu that forget the existence of everyone and everything else and all the other males for me must be like they don’t even exist. I couldn’t see it happening with him in future.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yeah and it wouldn’t be fair for him to be with a woman who only likes him with his clothes on.
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[Spongebobssocks]

Why didn't you wanna marry him?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I didn’t. He wanted to marry and wanted serious dating. I wanted dating as well but mostly to recover from my break up with my ex fiancé, who was the type of man, who was so sexy, that I only had eyes for him and he was the epitome of masculinity for me.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright I see

[Anonymous]

Translation: they want someone well out of there league. Yet being the below to average females that is not any different than the next female. That’s all that rejection means when they don’t like a man. It’s fine if you don’t like an ugly guy (in your opinion) but that guy can get his shit together and become the guy he wants to be in 5 to 10 years and get younger females and be much happier. A lot of guys these days aren’t ambitious these days (especially the younger generation), I’ll give that, love to be on the devices and what not. However, his value will go up if he decides to get himself together, the girl that rejected him 2 to 5 years later, you will probably still pull some dick, but not one will wife you up and commit to you at the end of it.
Most guys don’t really want to commit either. It’s not a great business decision for guys in general. But the occasional pussy is cool. Me personally, that would be my method of living. Waste my time in a bag rather than a female.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah I agree. I put different options it doesn't mean I agree with them. And the last guy I rejected was from my previous job I can update the question soon and you can read it there.

Yeah I know a lot of women have high standards which is both good and bad. I think women should be very collective but for the right reasons (if you'd ask me)

[kosmische]

My last one, he only wanted to fuck and I didn't. I want a genuine meaningful relationship wether it's long or shirt or "summer love" ... as long as its fun and genuine.

But I tend to reject guys if you're not in my league (whenever I gave an unattractive guy a change, it strokes his ego and he ends up treating me like I'm the ugly one lol).

*give off narcissistic vibes
*being nonchalant
*makes inappropriate, bad timing crude jokes.
*can't seem to take no for an answer.

[catiecatie]

So I’m not going to lie but there is this one guy I was interested in. Last time we hung out he didn’t really make a move and we watched a movie together. Nothing too crazy just something like an arm around the shoulders would’ve been nice. I can’t say this enough but he was very clingy. Like if I sent a Snapchat he would respond within a minute. I wasn’t ready for a guy like that. I then found this other guy. We met in person and we match each others energy pretty good. I don't know if he has a girlfriend or not but I will ask him for drinks. But this one guy that didn’t make a move keeps trying to come in I’ve told him like hey I like this one guy and I’m not going to lie but he keeps coming around trying to help, so I think it will be a good friendship in the end.

[CaptainOverthink]

Im not a woman but my last reject was an overweight girl standing behind me in a crowd at concert. It was only because she was overweight, not a little. No disrespect just not into wobbly stuff.

[DarkLegacy]

Wobbly stuff LMFAO

[Spongebobssocks]

@DarkLegacy 😅😂👍🏻

[4ngelic]

he was a cringy manchild who though shoplifting chips and beer would impress me at his age lol, he was a bit pathetic and angry at his ex all the time and loved complaining about how much of a bitch she was, he's not ugly but not my type physically or mentally at all, and dude has no life

[Anonymous]

Same thing with most women. They don't want a partner, they want a fan. They only want me to pay tribute to them. Then when they find what they really want they move on to him. I'm not committing to a woman who's unwilling to commit to me, plain and simple. I have too much respect for myself to accept anything else.

[Spongebobssocks]

Any woman that tell you that you should stay away from.. I never heard of that

[Opinion Owner]

I agree. But most women DON'T tell you that. Anymore than the guys who just want to f*** you and nothing more tell women that. These women women just play the part until what she really want comes around. Sorry your eyes are closed to this. Your gender is rife with it I'm sorry to say.

[Spongebobssocks]

I know some women are like that. And a lot of them are highlighted in media but I know plenty of women including myself who is nothing like that

[8393udjejdj]

I get rejected always 😃 apparently ladies prefer a guy that always lies to them instead of a guy just being honest. Kinda makes sense though, that's why women say all men are liars, because liars are the only type of people seem to like. But when you feed a lady honesty she crys because every guy has always fed her boolshit she's always wanted to hear

[Unit1]

I have made that very same observation!

[Spongebobssocks]

I think its more women want a man she can look up to and respect. What do two mean by honesty? What situations does she want you to lie?

[Unit1]

Everything.
From boasting and words/promises they won't keep to cheating.
I asked other guys how they get women often.

The ones with a girlfriend/wife kept it simple: it just spontaneously happened and they don't know how it happened or what they did to make it happen.

The ones, who spend nights less often alone: they keep lying to women, overvalue themselves (or are full of themselves), making themselves "bigger" than they really are, tell her he has a hamster in his home she can come to and stroke (in his mind said hamster is his genital). And for some reason this method works reliably well. Don't ask me why. In fact the guy, who told me this got a woman and this woman told me to be simple, honest and straightforward towards girls. They are together.

Confused? I'm not.

[Spongebobssocks]

@Unit1 well I would NOT like that.. maybe some women do I guess

[Unit1]

Fair enough. It might work for the masses of dim-witted ditzes. This "bullshitting strategy" works even on women in their 30s.

The difference between honesty and dishonesty here is that one tells you they can't deliver and the other tells you they will deliver but you don't get it delivered.

[Spongebobssocks]

@Unit1 yeah truth is better

[Unit1]

Oh I forgot to mention.
The girls too said what you said when you said "well I would NOT like that". Not one girl has told me anything to the contrary. And yet this keeps happening.

[Spongebobssocks]

@Unit1 the only time I've liked a man is when I looked up to him (respected him). Otherwise he gets friend zoned lol..

[Unit1]

What's friend zoned?

[Unit1]

No, don't tell me. I don't want to know.

[pervertedjester]

In short Bullet points only...

-She couldn't start/carry a conversation.

-She's rebounding from a Divorce.

-She blew me off to hang out with her brother more then a few times.

-She wouldn't open up and connect on a deeper level.

-She is an Emotional Fort Knox.

-Lack of interest towards the end, on my part.

-I have other very distant Family and Friends that make me feel more needed/wanted than Her.

[Anemone978]

I rejected them because I was looking for the "love of my life"
I wanted someone to like all the same things as me, be sweet, kind and romantic.
Not just lust me..

[Quackthulu2]

Because I don’t date people I work with. Never worth it.

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay so your last option was from work? Make sense I dont blame you:)

[Biancam13]

Usually he just wasn’t my type either in looks or in personality. Or we don’t get along.

I recently rejected a guy because although I was interested initially, he didn’t make an effort and wanted his ego stroked. I also saw his name under almost every girl’s pictures on instagram, which is a turn off. He also tried to make me jealous with other girls and played silly games. He couldn’t understand why I lost interest.

[Smashingdoozy]

He spat in my ear as he was trying to ask me out.

[Spongebobssocks]

Daaamn😅

[Anonymous]

Because I just got out of a relationship, and I wanted a break from dating and I realized that I needed to work on my self a bit more. I want to wait until I’m a bit older to start dating again. say like a year or two. I’m 17 right now. if I got into a new relationship, I feel like it would be hurtful to my ex boyfriend.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Because he wanted a relationship right away and I didn't know who he was as a person.

[Spongebobssocks]

I see! He couldnt give you time?

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, me not being ready meant total rejection to him so he went looking for someone else.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright I see:)

[Jess_D]

The last guy I rejected came off as cocky, full of himself and quite angry with women in general. Has was basically a walking red flag.

[imawfulatusernames]

God many reasons. I’m in a happy relationship now but when I was single it was usually because I didn’t find them attractive or I got creepy/dangerous vibes off of them. There’s also that a lot of men make very inappropriate jokes, like no I don’t find it funny that you jokes about hurting me

[Nikki1989]

I have been rejecting men for years because I am married. It doesn't make it any easier.

[Anonymous]

No chemistry and he didn't seem genuinely interested in me, but rather just wanted a girl available to sleep with :cri:

[Anonymous]

Dunno.. What i do know is that women rarely face the kind of rejection men face. I guarantee they would not be able to deal with it if they did.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like he deserved rejection and was using his position of power inappropriately.

[ariadneR]

The last guy I rejected was because im already in a relationship.

[Francesca7]

He was married and thought I didn't know, really dude? There is such a thing as Google!

[Deserter]

Oh shut up with the gaslighting, you rejected him cause you're a 5 that thinks she deserves a 9, the guys you reject are in your league, 5s

[Spongebobssocks]

Who are you talking to? Seams like you are directed it to someone but you just posted a comment not an answer to someone's opinion

[Deserter]

You you goofy woman

[Spongebobssocks]

I haven't evan told about my story yet😂. But no his looks were actually great

[Spongebobssocks]

And also I rate myself a 4.5/10.. its not healthy to assume the worst in people. I bet you watch a lot of podcasts on Youtube. Youtube is not real life

[Deserter]

You just assumed yourself! And why you mad at me calling you a 5 if you rate yourself 4.5? I COMPLIMENTED YOU!!! AHHHHHHH!!!

[Spongebobssocks]

I'm not mad. Thats a bit high tho. Thank you for rating me a 5:)

However I meant you assumed I think ima a 9

[Raaj4you]

I am a good guy but I am not a perfect guy. I have both strengths and weaknesses. I don't know why girls rejected me?

[Degenerate]

Her dick was bigger than mine

[Spongebobssocks]

Damn..😂

[DizzyDesii]

Slacking in communication

[Sera10]

He was to girthy. Size of a coke can

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Distance. 🙁