If we are being specific, if you have rejected a date or an advance from someone who was attractive, what made you not willing to give a chance?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

If there is a reason, what is one that comes to mind, since I know there can be multiple reasons, and I'm wondering since a date would actually let you know if there is chemistry between you and the person or not

Obvious red flags (how they dress, talk, approach, etc)

Don't vibe with them at all/have a disconnect

Don't respect them, or think they are on my level

My heart was somewhere else

They lack social skills

Bad reputation, such as being known as a player

[SueShe]

I systematically reject any kind of approach by men (or women) because I am very well aware what the final goal, the ultimate aim of approaching you is. Ultimately, they all want to get into your pants at a point or another and that is something that I totally abhor because I am not interested in being in a relationship, flirting, dating or fornicating.

The only chemistry I would tolerate is a chemistry on an intellectual level but people that approach you are not interested in anything intellectual but only physical.

Nothing for me because I don't really see anything positive about it.

[Twodogs0525]

It was my girlfriend's sister. She was always very flirtatious with me but I just figured it was her personality. The problem is, eventually, she started getting more aggressive, grabbing my ass, rubbing her perky little breasts against me when we hugged. Then one night, she tried to kiss me and I almost gave in but I loved my girlfriend at the time. I didn't know if I should have told my girlfriend or not, because her sister begged me not to say anything, so I didn't. I was just glad that she didn't make up a story to try to make me look bad! I'll always respect and appreciate her for that.

[exitseven]

I knew a girl who was the best friend on a girl that dumped me in a very cruel way. They were both at a party that I also attended. She chased me around for the whole night and I know that she wanted to go out with me. I was still angry and hurt and I took it out on her. Later I regretted it. She really was a sweet kid and very hot.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[4ngelic]

bad vibes, them being older, they weren't my type in their behavior & style

[Nikki1989]

They opened their mouth and started talking.

[queenofcardio]

I just knew we were too different.