I haven't but I would lol
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+1 yYes. I was broken up with my girlfriend for a while, and I started talking to this other girl. She lived out of state and was still with another dude, but knew she was breaking up and moving back where I’m at as soon as the holidays were over, she just didn’t want to do it to him right before Christmas.
Anyway, it developed slowly, and my girlfriend and I got back together, and right on cue, she texted me that she had just moved back to the area. Devastating, lmao. Worst timing😖 And I actually did the new girl kind of dirty and ghosted her, more because I was unsure if getting back together would stick, and I wanted the option to be there, because I did really like her. I felt bad but she was super hot, I knew she’d be a little disappointed but would also be just fine.
Sure enough, I bumped into her a little over a year later, and she was with her new guy who she actually is married to and had kids with by now. So good for her…. and I’m not really looking to be a father, so maybe it wouldn’t have worked out anyway. That was a bit of a consolation to me, haha. But anyway, I was able to pull her aside and talk to her, because I owed her a conversation and an explanation. That went very smoothly, and I think it was good closure for both of us.
Quick side story, and actually second submission, another really hot girl whose number I took at the bar I worked at but never called because she went home for the summer the next day, and I figured it would be weird if I called while she was unavailable or if I called months later when she came back….. she said the same thing that first girl I was talking to said, which kind of resonated with me….
They both said the exact same thing. The first girl, it came up in our conversation. The second girl came walking over to me the next time I saw her and was like “so…. I gave you my number and you never called me.” And I was like “oh yeah, sorry, nothing personal, you just left the next day, so I figured it wouldn’t be appropriate.” Both of these girls looked at me with this kind of incredulous look on their faces, and both said the exact same thing: “It’s just….. that’s never happened to me before.” I can’t lie, I felt a little bit cool, lmao, like every other dude they showed interest in started going crazy, and I was “cool…. mayyyybe, I’ll hit you up sometime.” That’s not my game, lmao, I wouldn’t do that intentionally, but I was laughing that I had unintentionally thrown these very desirable women off with my seemingly lukewarm interest. I did kind of like being the one guy in their history that kept their cool. Buuutttttttt, better would’ve been actually dating these girls, so it’s ultimately an L😂
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+1 yYeah, when they act like a psycho and can't get over me. Had this happen with an attractive girl in high school, she honestly looked like a model and was very indirectly flirty with her friend's help for about a year and a half right after I got out of a relationship with her friend. However, she was convinced she was ugly and no matter how much I said to the contrary she claimed I thought she was ugly, and that I only liked blondes with big tits (which was based on my past crushes and former girlfriend, I guess). After that "claim" I just told her it's her personality - I probably should have said her lack of self esteem, that was a mistake - that was the only thing I really didn't like about her. She was mopey for a few days and tried to rectify the situation, but I was so annoyed with her passive aggresiveness I just refused to talk to her. I still kind of regret doing that, probably shouldn't have been as mean when I could have talked her down calmly.
Confidence issues affect attractive people too, and they can be killers if you're trying to attract a confused person like I was back then.
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+1 yYes, often.
Because I didn’t feel the chemistry, we weren’t compatible, or weren’t looking for the same things, or because I was taken , or because they were ass*les to other people and I don’t like to date them, or because I wasn’t ready to date or we weren’t on the same page. Many reasons.
One of the main one was I didn’t feel like dating them.
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+1 yYes I have. Usually because of some of their core beliefs such as racism or homophobia. I have no problem with having different views on many issues but blatant antisemitism for example i have zero tolerance for. Some people become very ugly as soon as they open their mouths.
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2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes, for the following reasons.
1. She had kids already.
2. She smokes marijuana.
3. Has liberal morals/views.
4. Has small tattoos, but plans to get more.
5. Her age.
6. Had a promiscuous past.
7. Doesn't like the idea of a prenuptial agreement.
8. Doesn't have any common interests.
11 Reply313 opinions shared on Dating topic. I've rejected plenty of attractive men when I was in a relationship. Now I do it because I'm just not interested lol..
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yYep. She was absolutely adorable but she wanted different things in a relationship than I did. We were very close friends and I knew getting into a romantic relationship would damage our friendship much more than if I just rejected her. We've since drifted apart, but for unrelated reasons.
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+1 yYes, quite a few times and when I looked at the most common reasons. It was often related to promiscuity.
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+1 yI did today. The guy is hella attractive... and this smile... but I don't know him. So sorry...
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@Tim2nice I don't date random people lol...
The people I created relationships with I met through the common environment or friends. Every other guy was invited to hang out with the group of my friends so I could have a chance to know him better at my pace. But only one decided to do that. After some time, we decided we didn't match romantically but wanted to stay friends. And we are friends until today - the best friends.
I don't align with the expectations of other people. I'm autistic and have my own way of meeting and getting to know people. If a guy is interested and wants to do it at my pace, we have a chance. If not, I don't care. We are free to make our own choices.
Asker+1 yDon't tell him you don't date random men. He dislikes when some women choose being loved.
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@marish01 like I care what he likes... :D
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+1 yYes. At that time she had a kid and I didn't want to deal with that.
I thought about regret because she was definitely gorgeous from head to toe.10 Reply
+1 yI think so, but I had self worth issues back then. It also depends on what I am trying to get from the man.
00 Reply18.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. I reject attractive men all the time.
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Asker+1 yBecause you're in a loving monoganous relationship?
Asker+1 y@Tim2nice that doesn't contradict monogamy
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+1 yYes I have. He seemed way too cocky. He had the whole bodybuilder type body going on. Not my type of guy at all.
00 Reply Yes, of course. Being attractive doesn't eliminate your ability to 🚩. In some ways, it even increases the chances that you will.
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Why would it increase? I don't get that. Prejudge much?
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@TenderFantasy yes. That’s a strange statement
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@TenderFantasy People in general exhibit toxic behavior because they have no motivation not to (i. e. they're able to avoid consequences & accountability). Who gets away with more? Pretty people or ugly people?
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m +1 yyes
simply put, I didn't feel the same way they did11 Reply- +1 y
also... most of the times I had a girlfriend too, lol
+1 yHmmm…I wouldn’t say so. But I’ve deliberately chosen not to make an effort to pursue and attractive person because I sensed that they lacked character.
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+1 yYes she was just too vapid to even spend the evening with
00 Reply 4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Um, Of Course!!! Just Maybe a Player Type. xxoo
00 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I did the opposite. I rejected a fantastic girl who loved me deeply, for a pretty bitch who played with my heart.
One of the biggest regret of my life.
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+1 yYes. If they have a crap personality or poor physique. On the net, that makes them unattractive.
00 Reply 6K opinions shared on Dating topic. I have and it was merely because I wasn't interested in what they were selling.
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+1 yI got a court order against a girl w 100k Instagram followers. Class A nut job
00 Reply 321 opinions shared on Dating topic. Yeah many times for many different reasons lol.. looking back I definitely regret some of them 🤷♂️..
00 ReplyI find attractive people who behave like they know they are attractive a huge turn off.
00 ReplyNo, but if his attitude was bad then I would
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYes, because of hidden disabilities that were too much for me to take on. A few times.
00 ReplyYes, she wanted £250 for an hour, I couldn't afford it,,,
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+1 yno. No very attractive woman has ever come on to me.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yNo not yet... but I don't really get the the chance to reject anyone lol
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+1 yYes I have she had a shitty attitude like the world owed her something and that made her very unattractive to me
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yYeah. Because I knew she was just playing games with me. She came completely unglued and started raging at me afterwards because of it.
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+1 yYes because there was too much crazy attached.
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yNope, and I would probably never reject an attractive girl.
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+1 yYes. She had been married before.
10 Reply 999 opinions shared on Dating topic. I have, because she had different morals than me
10 ReplyLots, but they gave weird vibes
00 Reply417 opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes.
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+1 yNot yet
00 Reply 398 opinions shared on Dating topic. Not really..
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI won't!
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