Do you kiss the girl on the first date?

[Anonymous]

Gentlemen!!!

Do you prefer to kiss the girl after your first date , or wait until the second date?

Why , or why not?

[Anonymous]

It just depends on the chemistry. I’m not opposed to it. I mean if she’s feeling me as much as I’m feeling her and it happens than great. If not it’s not a big deal either. If I’m really into her I don’t want to rush her into something she’s not comfortable w in fear that I may push her away. So we can take our time, I’m ok w that. I’m more interested in having fun, making sure she has fun and is comfortable being w me. In time all those things will come if she feels safe w me, if she feels she won’t be judged by me.

[Leapfrog00]

I prefer to kiss on the first date. This might sound silly, but kissing on the first date sometimes tells me if there's going to be a second one. If she enjoys the kiss and doesn't pull away right away, I know I have a chance at a second date, but if our lips are only together for a second or two, she's probably not interested in another date.

I'm not sure how accurate this is, but it has worked for me a great deal

[Avicenna]

If the date goes well and there's a vibe, I'll kiss her. But I don't force it if it's not there.

[Summeroflove]

Eh. Depends how I feel about her

[BarryLiverstone]

When I started dating I never would kiss on the first date as I thought that’s respectful, but then I got feedback that’s confusing to girls. So now I will kiss if I feel it.


Do you like a guy kissing on the first date or would you worry if he never touched you at all?

[MrCommodore]

Personally I prefer 2nd date these days, as I use the first date as an interview to suss out what she is like and if she is worthy of a shot at dating me.

[mommymommymommy]

The general rule is that sex is the third date. So, if that means you kiss on the first, or wait till the second for the kiss, and go right into sex the next, then so be it

[Asker]

Would you typically kiss her on the first date if it were casual?

[slatyb]

If it went well and she wants to be kissed. In my experience women let me know by making it easy to kiss them.

[Anonymous]

Wait. I can't possibly imagine feeling that close to her after only 1 date. And intimacy takes time. If she not OK with that that's ok, she's just not the woman for me.

[Opinion Owner]

If I like her though I will do my best to communicate that.

[Anonymous]

Kissing on hands or cheeks on first date is good. Kissing on lips on second date would be my choice, kind lady 😉

[Asker]

and why’s that?

[Opinion Owner]

To give positive impression. Some guys are different they might give you lip kissing and some won't even kiss you for few dates because they are very shy

[shades777]

Sooner the better on all fronts, there's absolutely no benefit to wait for anything sexual, of course that excludes getting her pregnant

[exitseven]

sometimes if things are going good.

[zagor]

Have, but not the norm.

[Asker]

Why is that?

[zagor]

If there is no chemistry and I don't plan on seeing her again, what is the point?

[Asker]

What is there is?

[zagor]

Huh?

[Snedger____]

I would like to fuck her on the first date

[Anonymous]

Id go for the hug after a first date.