What’s a good guy in the dating world?

[Anonymous]

[Xoxocutekitty]

A good guy is one who dates with a certain level of decisiveness and communicates his impression/decisions as they change in real time.

Maybe he's looking for a wife, or maybe he is looking for something casual. A good guy will communicate to a girl if she suddenly switches molds or out of his "ideal." He also has a reasonable sense of when he should make those decisions based on the level of commitment he's offering upfront. Wife searching? Decide in 3 months if she's your girlfriend first. Want a girlfriend, decide in 6 months. Want something casual (check in every 4 months to make sure no one is getting feels and ruining the situation).

This good guy communicates and has a strong sense of his value and her time.

A funny example: this guy does not go to the library, check out 12 books, ignore ten of them, all while also forgetting bring any of them back in two months or whatever his loan period is. While accruing late fees, he's also keeping anyone else from checking out that book. Don't be that guy. Be a good guy instead. If it's not for you, put it back 😂

[jennifer_bloom]

Two qualities I look for in a guy are grace in his inner circle and the ability to observe things with objective analysis. Over 90% of people fail the second standard and over 80% fail the first.

[EpicSnail]

Character means nothing to women. The only things that matter are how attractive you are physically and how powerful you are socially (job, finances, popularity). Beyond that they couldn't give a shit.

[Asker]

I think finances are more important than looks but look’s definitely play a factor. Many woman are saying they want a man that makes at least 6 figures. Some even say 600k

[EpicSnail]

Don't get too hung up on finances, popularity matters more. Fame is the ultimate aphrodisiac. In Denmark, where I live, we used to have this public intellectual who was a natural with women. He literally once spent months homeless just picking up women every night to sleep at their place.

[Asker]

Yeah it does play a factor I know a guy at work who rumored to went to the HR girl at works house. He’s so short and not attractive. When I flirted she got uncomfortable, ignored me and tries to avoid me. She was giving me fake smiles this whole time.

[Asker]

It won’t surprise me if she does let guys come to her house even if he ain’t attractive. He claimed he was banging her

[Asker]

She left Los Angeles because she said she couldn’t make it. I’m sure she wants a man who makes well over 6 figures

[OfMiceandMen]

I think these days, a good guy is one that is willing to put himself out there, be honest about who he is and not be shy about it.

Just have some balls and take some risks.

[gerald5466]

I think a good guy is someone who is nice and attentive and always there for his girlfriend when she needs him. and its always nice to be funny cause you know what they say if you can make them laugh and giggle you can make them cheeks clap and jiggle

[asphaltrhymes]

I'd like to think my approachable looks and easy personality would make me a catch to most pleasant women 🤗

[Anonymous]

For me a good guy is a guy with morals and values. He isn't dating multiple girls at the same time, isn't entertaining multiple girls. Loyal and faithful. Respects your time and boundaries.

[Jazzy54]

To me, a good guy is kind, funny, intelligent, and compassionate. 😊

[Anonymous]

Same as the real world. A guy who has integrity and is a man of his word. A guy who stands for something but can still compromise. Don't let trashy women convince you of different.

[Anonymous]

Well, don't listen to most men on here, that is for sure. Man, are they clueless. 🤦‍♀️

[Rockstarrrrr]

Boring and a people pleaser lol

[Asker]

What if he treats a woman worse after she rejects him? Is he a good guy?

[Rockstarrrrr]

No lol that would be a desperate and immature guy...

[zetareticuli]

You won't get an honest answer from young women.

[Heolurt]

A good guy is the guy they say they are looking for but will never choose.

[Anonymous]

Getting laid and only having to pay for a cup of coffee.

[Chthou95]

The invisible ones that women dont want

[Anonymous]

Tall, muscular, has a beard, hung, and wealthy.