Should I be worried if his female friend is a lot more beautiful / hotter than I am?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

A total of 31 votes were cast: 9 girls and 22 guys. See detailed results

[Anonymous]

It depends. Did they have something in the past? Maybe she’s not interested in him like that so other than lusting over her if he does like her that way she isn’t interested so nothing is going to happen. But things could change you never know.

[Summeroflove]

No. Not unless you have a bad feeling or notice suspicious things

[Venymal]

No.

1. Your opinion of more beautiful/hotter is not the same as his.

2. And even if she is more beautiful, it doesn’t mean she is more attractive. There are girls who I think look beautiful, but I am not attracted to them in that way. It’s not because they have a bad personality, or anything like that. It’s just that no matter what they look like, I simply don’t fancy them.

3. Also, he chose you, didn’t he?

[exitseven]

It depends on why he is not in a relationship with her. If she has a really hot boyfriend I guess there is your answer. Either way it is a tossup.

[stoicity]

No one cares. It's all just a choice.
Have an abundant mindset, be friends first then lovers. Nobody owes anybody.

[Asker]

I wish it were that easy, but irrational feelings do get in the way. A man I imagine would also not be comfortable about his partner's hot male best friend

[stoicity]

You're speaking purely based on appearance. If you're afraid of such a scenario you haven't connected with that other person spiritually. You see, it's not the appearance you bring to the table, but rather all other things that count and matter in life. You value appearance and that's why you're being insecure about it. Your value should be in your deeds, not in your appearance and if it is then it's just chemicals in our brains talking.

[Asker]

That's ideal, and I do care about other things. But we all know men are attractred first and foremost to appearance, and would cheat based on that alone or just for change etc..

[stoicity]

Then you're looking at the wrong set of men. I don't deny the fact that you brought up though.

[ItsZaman]

if he loves you deeply then no need to worry.
but tbh, men always want someone better and prettier and hotter

[Asker]

Meaning I need to worry haha

[ItsZaman]

I think so lol

[Greenbins]

No..

He's with you and not her... just relax and don't over think it

[boggboss]

No sounds like entertaining your insecurities

[itsaboutthyme]

In a healthy scenario, no.

[Danny_dan92]

Just pay close attention to their dynamic

[LiamJHayden]

Only if they are friends with benefits.

[Akam93]

Who cares

[Anonymous]

No, don't be vain.