Should I be concerned about his female friend?

[Anonymous]

So I've been speaking with this guy for a couple of months. We usually talk 24/7, the other day he ignored me for hours. He then told me that night he had been at a female friends house they were just chilling and then he started talking about how his ex wouldn't let him have female friends. Tonight he has ignored me for hours so I checked his Snapchat map and he is at hers again I recognised it from last time. He still goes on and off Facebook so I don't understand why he's ignoring me if they're just friends like he says. How can I ask him about this without looking like a psycho?

[Anonymous]

I’d say you’re entitled to ask him, it’s a simple question as long as you don’t accuse him and he doesn’t get all defensive. I was strung along by a guy for 3 years and he started dating someone else without telling me. Flat out ask him if you and him have a thing going or not so you can grieve and move on or be his girlfriend and be entitled to ask a few questions 😁

[Asker]

I am worried I am being strung along. He never ignores me when out unless with her. So it's really playing on my mind, why he's doing it. I don't think we are ready for the thing going question as still getting to know eachother but I don't know how to ask him without accusing 😅

[Staximus]

Leave him, it's not right that a guy would want to spend more time with a female friend than his girlfriend. He's probably screwing her. If not, tell him to go screw her instead and fuck off.

[jahaims]

If you have to worry about someone cheating they aren't worth the time

[In_Trance]

100% yes. Him & her: we're friends...

[PeterSmith1983]

Nope he can have friends

[Asker]

I know he is allowed friends. However when I am with friends and don't reply to him I get double, sometimes even triple texted until I text him back yet he can ignore me for hours on his terms. It's politeness to at least say he's out and will message me later instead.

[PeterSmith1983]

Yeah guys don't always message back straight away

[Asker]

He usually does though, it's only when at hers he doesn't which is why I am concerned.

[PeterSmith1983]

He is just having a good time doesn't mean he is having naughty fun