I've always been of the opinion, no matter what his girl-friends or her boy-friends say or do, it is ultimately his or hers decision as to whether they take it any further.
So worry less about the friends and more about the person you are with. If he/she's given you nothing to be alarmed about, then trust him. I find it helps to even tell the person you are with...
"Honey, one thing I really like/love about you is that I trust you."
It psychologically plants the bug in their brain they should be good when you're not around. It's like positive reinforcement. If you always give negative feedback/ reinforcement by being jealous, etc. and saying you take issue with on of their friends, you automatically become the "bad guy" and it suggests you don't trust him or her when it comes to other people.
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Trust you gut.
It isn't healthy for a monogamous relationship if one party starts spending lots of alone time with the opposite sex.
Him saying "I'm with someone" is not a good sign. I'd expect "I'm with my girlfriend" or "I am with Becca (your name goes here)".
Trust your gut. Is he secretive with his phone? Does he keep it locked? What would he do if you picked it up? Just keep your eyes open and trust you gut. If something feels off it probably is.
I would say no don’t be worried and try to trust him BUT him saying “I’m with SOMEONE” is weird to me. Especially since it was another woman on the phone. He could have said “i’m with my girlfriend”. I think that would have been a more appropriate response. Especially if these women are his friends so they should know who you are. Not just a “someone”.
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Yes , you have a right to be worried , the truth is when a guy really likes a girl
He distances himself from other girls’ out of respect for his relationship , so It also depends on how long you both been seeing each other and if you both made it official that you are committed? If you are committed then you have a right to be worried and have a talk with him , Tell him how would he feel if you had guy friends that you were spending time with? So for relationship to work it has to go both ways , it can’t be one sided , if he doesn’t start distancing himself from these other girls’ after you talk to him then he is clearly cheating on you or planning to cheat on you , so watch his reactions after you talk to him about it , if he gets all defensive and tells you that you are being insecure , and you don’t trust him , that’s your answer to kick him to the curbhere's what I observed on this site and real life about the topic of friends. When it comes to attractive or valuable men. and women.
When a man befriends an attractive woman it's usually to sleep with her so its more of a orbiter behavior for sex and not actually wanting to be friendzoned
When a woman befriends a valuable man its usually to use that man for his resources while keeping the man in the friendzone, not wanting him as a lover.
Obviously this isn't always true but initially this is mostly the case.
He should be more worried about men being friends with you than you of his female friendsI am friends with girls more than I am guys, not sure of the reson but it just started out if no where so I just accept it. I started liking this girl and she keeps asking me if I like someone else other than her, now we're both in highschool abd not dating at the miment because we would like to get through highschool first. I would always tell her that I dont like anyone else but her. So to answer your question, I would say to pay attention to his body language if it looks flirty it probably is. If it looks like he is genuinly having a conversation then i wouldn't be worried. He probably just easy to come up too like I am. Hope this helps.
Yes, be worried.
I never got so much sexual attention from women until I got one. Then, they all were just waiting in the wings.
Tell him how you feel about it or leave him if he doesn't get it.
I only see female friends as backup lovers later on.
Also, all of your male friends want to f*** you.You are giving him too much slack. How do I know this? It's because I'm reading the comments and you are defending his every move. Now you claimed that y'all are at the talking stage, why would you have sex with him during the talking stage? That lowered your worth to him.
Maybe. I've known my best friend since I was 4 and she calls me at random times. We are like brother and sister and both throw up a little when people suggest we should date. If it's like that, no. But without more info, there is no way to know is your guy's girl is a friend or a friends with benefits.
Yes. But not in the jealous way. Just make sure he wants to spend time with you. If he does not, DROP THE M******F*****.
If he is trying to hide it you should. But if he doesn't hide it from you I don't think you have anything to fear to be honest
If you’re asking this question, that’s your intuition speaking, so I’d think yes.
Most men will cheat. Expect it to happen eventually.
That was a genius move having sex with him right after he chatted with a other girl. He’s not into you like that
If he has girl friends then yes I would be worried especially if they are childhood friends.
He might not have interest in them, I can't say the same for them.
I am also talking with girls but I tell my girlfriend with who I talked. She trusts me. But for my opinion talk before its to late.
I'm not saying he's cheating but keep your eyes open
Get over it bc that will not change. Or move on if you're that insecure.
This fucked up ti say that 😂
No I don't worry about anyone
Seems like you need to talk to him about it
You wanted sex and you got it. That's all
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