He’s a helpful man, very caring and reliable. So I understand why his character attracts a lot of people. One example, I caught him with a girl at the gym, but he already mentioned he’s training someone so it wasn’t a surprise. He tells me she’s just a family friend and have been ever since high school and has a man. In his own words he told me, "No I do not like her and won’t ever try and get at her.” Another example, we were on the bed making out and suddenly his phone rang. He looks at me and said oops, then picks up. It was a girl, I can hear her a little bit, but it was muffling most of the conversation. She said what are you doing and he said I’m with someone. The call ended, he was like that was my friend and I said okay. After, we had sex and obviously it was on my mind still. Should I believe him, is he lying about these woman?
I've always been of the opinion, no matter what his girl-friends or her boy-friends say or do, it is ultimately his or hers decision as to whether they take it any further.
So worry less about the friends and more about the person you are with. If he/she's given you nothing to be alarmed about, then trust him. I find it helps to even tell the person you are with...
"Honey, one thing I really like/love about you is that I trust you."
It psychologically plants the bug in their brain they should be good when you're not around. It's like positive reinforcement. If you always give negative feedback/ reinforcement by being jealous, etc. and saying you take issue with on of their friends, you automatically become the "bad guy" and it suggests you don't trust him or her when it comes to other people.
It isn't healthy for a monogamous relationship if one party starts spending lots of alone time with the opposite sex.
Him saying "I'm with someone" is not a good sign. I'd expect "I'm with my girlfriend" or "I am with Becca (your name goes here)".
Trust your gut. Is he secretive with his phone? Does he keep it locked? What would he do if you picked it up? Just keep your eyes open and trust you gut. If something feels off it probably is.
I would say no don’t be worried and try to trust him BUT him saying “I’m with SOMEONE” is weird to me. Especially since it was another woman on the phone. He could have said “i’m with my girlfriend”. I think that would have been a more appropriate response. Especially if these women are his friends so they should know who you are. Not just a “someone”.
I understand. I’ve been in a similar situation. What I would honestly do, and this is just me, just flat out ask him. Like ask him if he’s seeing anyone else or if he sees a future with you etc. Especially since it’s your time he’s wasting if he doesn’t.
That's so not true! I know lots of guys who would never cheat in their relationship but woman put those guys in their friendzone usually.
Instead of blaming all men for the fact that some of them cheat... Woman should ask themselves what kind of guys they are attracted to because it's often a womans own decision to choose for the bad boy types who treats them had but you blame it on every men in society.
I dont think you have any idea how much guys actually are loyal but your choices are the problem not all men on this planet!
That's quite an insult. Not only do I doubt it's true, it's a very cynical view to have. Same for a guy I know who said he can't trust women after he was cheated on, too negative.
Yes , you have a right to be worried , the truth is when a guy really likes a girl He distances himself from other girls’ out of respect for his relationship , so It also depends on how long you both been seeing each other and if you both made it official that you are committed? If you are committed then you have a right to be worried and have a talk with him , Tell him how would he feel if you had guy friends that you were spending time with? So for relationship to work it has to go both ways , it can’t be one sided , if he doesn’t start distancing himself from these other girls’ after you talk to him then he is clearly cheating on you or planning to cheat on you , so watch his reactions after you talk to him about it , if he gets all defensive and tells you that you are being insecure , and you don’t trust him , that’s your answer to kick him to the curb
Good to know thanks, no he wasn’t being defensive at all when I confronted him. He didn’t say none about my character, just told me it wasn’t like that.
Just be careful is all I am saying , His intentions might not be to cheat on you , but you don’t know what those girls’ intentions are , There were times I was just being friendly with girls’ when I was in a relationship already and those girls I was just being friendly with , took it the wrong way and didn’t care that I was in a relationship and still tried getting with me , also causing conflict in my current relationship by sending me text messages and secretly flirting with me and trying to get me to choose them over my partner , pretty much why I distance myself from girls’ when I am in a committed relationship out of respect for my relationship , I will be still be friendly with a girl but I don’t allow it to go any further than that , the same way I want her to do for me. It’s a respect thing , if your boyfriend can’t respect your feelings and understand why you are concerned then that’s usually a red flag that he is playing you. When you start feeling like you have Sucker written on your head , trust your gut instincts , your gut instincts will help you catch a lying piece of shit. I caught my ex wife cheating on me because my gut instincts knew something was off , She started talking highly about a co worker and acting like he was just a friend to find out it was more then just friendship , he was meeting her at a hotel to fuck her and that’s how I busted her , So me personally wouldn’t date a girl that has a bunch of guy friends , because I don’t care what anyone says, opposite sex friends is not a good thing when it comes to getting into a relationship with someone , they can try to sugarcoat it all they want , but the truth is those opposite sex friends usually want more than just friendships. Most people on this planet are selfish and only really care about themselves , They don’t know how to wear their partners shoes like they expect their partner to do for them. So watch for selfish actions with your boyfriend , selfishness is a clear indication
That someone is up to no good or going to be up to no good , If a partner doesn’t make you their number 1 priority be prepared to be shit on , The only way a relationship can survive these days is both partners have to make each other their top priority , when you start to realize you aren’t your partners top priority that’s pretty much when they are up to no good , A cheater is good at lying remember that , they will do what they have to do to cover their tracks , don’t fall for that shit
When he starts making plans without you , doesn’t consider your feelings when making decisions , makes excuses for his actions , isn’t that excited to hear from you , etc. You will know
here's what I observed on this site and real life about the topic of friends. When it comes to attractive or valuable men. and women.
When a man befriends an attractive woman it's usually to sleep with her so its more of a orbiter behavior for sex and not actually wanting to be friendzoned
When a woman befriends a valuable man its usually to use that man for his resources while keeping the man in the friendzone, not wanting him as a lover.
Obviously this isn't always true but initially this is mostly the case.
He should be more worried about men being friends with you than you of his female friends
I am friends with girls more than I am guys, not sure of the reson but it just started out if no where so I just accept it. I started liking this girl and she keeps asking me if I like someone else other than her, now we're both in highschool abd not dating at the miment because we would like to get through highschool first. I would always tell her that I dont like anyone else but her. So to answer your question, I would say to pay attention to his body language if it looks flirty it probably is. If it looks like he is genuinly having a conversation then i wouldn't be worried. He probably just easy to come up too like I am. Hope this helps.
You are giving him too much slack. How do I know this? It's because I'm reading the comments and you are defending his every move. Now you claimed that y'all are at the talking stage, why would you have sex with him during the talking stage? That lowered your worth to him.
Maybe. I've known my best friend since I was 4 and she calls me at random times. We are like brother and sister and both throw up a little when people suggest we should date. If it's like that, no. But without more info, there is no way to know is your guy's girl is a friend or a friends with benefits.
I don't know. According to her ex boyfriends, wild is what happens when she's tired or drunk. So when she's has full energy and isn't impaired, you just hold on and try to enjoy it. I didn't mean this in a sexual sense.
If that’s the case then why would he let me hang around with his friends and continue taking me on dates? For fuck sakes, I even met his parents and sister lmao
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