This is my girlfriend. I want to ask her but I’ll probably offend her. I’ve only been with her for 7 months.
That push-up bra, low neck, tight skirt, mmm, she is showing those goods off. I mean, her clothes are the same as when you met her 7 months ago, she wants that attention, you got with her then, why would she suddenly change? You saw that's what she likes to wear when it isn't a night at the club, regardless of intention, it's the package you wanted and bought.
You could try telling her something about it, maybe she'd switch it up when going out on her own or something, but that's just a part of her. Seems kind of hypocritical to realize it's something to worry about now after so much time has passed...
So you're bothered by your girlfriend showing skin in a park and that lead you to post a pic of that very skin on the INTERNET for the whole planet to see 🤔
To answer the question it's their way to spark things up and let you know not to take them for granted.
Yes the idea is attention. But not necessarily to cheat.
It's to send a message that they are still desirable and you have to keep earning the exclusivity
If you're that bothered by her top, you're better off dating an Amish girl or the Middle Eastern woman with all but their eyes covered. Majority of women out there wear tops like this nowadays.
This is 2023, not 1723. Most women in my opinion wear it for confidence, something I myself definitely don't have.
I won't even bother responding to you seeing the responses you wrote, especially to the female Anon. Arguing with you would be like talking to a brick wall.
Why did you make her your girlfriend if yoh have objection with the way she dresses and don't respect her? You called her a whore under another user's comment. That's a horrible thing to say to someone who's your girlfriend and likes you/loves you while completely being in the dark how badly you judge her.
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u Why are YOU showing off your girlfriend's boobs?
Because they can!
I, basically, asked two variations of the exact same question last week, I'm still waiting for a single answer! Except for that Brand guy (can't recall his first name), I NEVER see men wearing tops that show that much chest! And, why do they wear stuff like this if they don't like men looking at their tits? They're, basically, presenting them on a silver platter!! Baby, if you wanna show them off, I'll look at them!!
"My eyes are up here!!"
"Yeah, but, your tits are down here, OBVIOUSLY!!"
Because they want to look good. I don't think what she's wearing goes over the line.
Also, maybe it's a hot day, probably gets really hot in there.
If you trust her to be loyal to you then wouldn't you want your girl to show off a little for you?
Thats just cleavage. Yea we have boobs. There not all out there for everyone to see. there's just cleavage. there's nothing wrong with that picture. Im from hamilton. So if its cold i wear a sweater. If its hot out i wear a skirt or tank top. Dont be so insecure about her unless she's showing her boobs all off dont get worried👍🏻
Aren't you a nice good creeper, sharing your girlfriend's photos without consent on a site full of strangers.
She shouldn't just dump you, but also probably report you to the authoritities.
How is that really bad though? Her face isn't in it, so she is anonymous, and isn't this the view that everyone else sees in public if she's wearing that top?
If it's warm out, it's one of the only ways to keep the girls cool on a hot summer day. I also said she wants male attention... yours.
Girls dress that way to look good for her guy when they go out. Not sure why your girl doesn't dress like that around home. Most of the girls I've been with wore similar kinds of outfits at home. They would sometimes wear sweats and jeans but that was around the campfire.
Why is the Human female the only mammal to have prominent breast before first pregnancy? It has been attributed to the fact that we have attained the ability to walk bipedal. When walking on all fours there were other things that were prominent to signal esterus.
I love when they post half naked pictures of themselves with their boobs hanging out on the Internet for the world to see and then fake indignance when man make sexual comments as if that isn't exactly what they were hoping for. It's an inferiority complex. They feel unattractive and need the validation. It's kind of sad really.
How is dressing like that considered a slut? I dress like this at home. It's literally a tank top. Yes girls with bigger boobs would be showing more boobs than girls with smaller boobs when wearing a tank top obviously because they are bigger. What's wrong with that? We're born with it. Is a women wearing bikinis also considered a slut? Seriously..
If you are telling your girlfriend is exposing her boob's, they why are posting and objecting to her in here to the people, if you don't like her, leave her and find someone who will suit you without telling this to public. you don't get any reward by posting it here and telling it to people.
Maybe because she wants your attention? Girls have lots of different reasons to show off their boobs. I like to show off for my partner, but sometimes I just do it because I like my body and looking sexy just feels good.
The same reason a thug has a glock tucked in his waist
Letting people know what type of artillery they got but not to act funny because anyone can get it, Cept for a woman and her tits, not many will
Can't speak for other girls, but for me, it just makes me feel pretty/sexy. It's not about male attention, I don't care if men find me with my tits out attractive or not, because it's just not about that. It's about me being able to catch a glimpse of myself in a mirror and think "Fuck, I'm adorable".
So why don’t you wear it to bed/at home?
Because it’s for validation.
Tbh, this behaviour is enough to make me want to leave her. She should only want to show herself to me not other people. I find it a bit upsetting. Like women look. Great fully clothed.
That's your choice, dude. I'd personally argue you should work on your own insecurity in that department, but if it's such a massive deal breaker for you, then yeah, I guess break up with her and go find a more modest girl.
As it happens, for me personally, I do still wear clothes that make me feel sexy/cute at home. Tiny nightgowns and the like.
If I’m insecure, then you’re both whores.
I like women with class, not trashy girls that need validation by flaunting all they really have to offer
I'd love to talk you out of that mindset, but I know it's going to take much more than a circular conversation with me to change your mind.
Break up with your girl. It's clear you're incompatible with each other, and you both deserve someone who brings you happiness and accepts you as you are.
Please share why I’m wrong. Maybe I am, prove me. But calling me insecure is just dumb. Men are evolutionarily wired to not want to date promiscuous looking women.
Are they? I dunno, a lot of guys date women who wear far more revealing clothing than your girlfriend does, and they're just fine with it.
The fact that you assume your girlfriend must be a whore, desperate for attention is what makes me think you're insecure. That you can't fathom that a woman would just dress up for herself, so it's gotta be for somebody else. Why is it so unimaginable that girls just want to look in the mirror and feel pretty? Especially when it's hammered into women by society that they need to look good, it puts even more pressure on women, and therefore more joy when they succeed, to dress up in a nice way.
Furthermore, why does it really even matter? If she's happy with you and loyal to you, why does it matter what she's wearing? Are you afraid she'll leave you for another guy, or cheat on you? If you are afraid of that, then either you're insecure and need to work on your own confidence, or there's more than just your girlfriend's choice of clothes that makes you believe she's untrustworthy. If/when another guy approaches her and flirts with her, does she flirt back? If she does, I'd say you have a reason to be mad. But if she's not reciprocating that kind of attention, then it really doesn't seem like she's just whoring herself out to any man that'll look at her.
No I said that to show how ridiculous you are for calling me an insecure. It’s like me calling her a whore for wearing that. It’s not true. I don’t see men come up to her.
Her clothing makes me look bad. If I let my girl do all these things, clubbing and wearing revealing clothing it makes me look bad. Shows she doesn’t respect me.
Your opinion I just find ridiculous. This is not a woman dressing up for herself. She doesn’t dress like this at home. Because it’s for ATTENTION.
A woman can look amazing in a nice dress without showing herself sexually.
This is provocative dressing. Even my mother agrees with me. She managed to hold a marriage for almost 30 years so I’ll listen to her.
I was hoping to be convinced and persuaded but you failed.
Women love to call men insecure just because you’re not good enough and don’t match OUR standards.
A man with options won’t date these women, they just settle for them because they can’t get better, they can’t get a woman that respects them enough to listen to them.
No man wants their partner doing this shit. They want her to be sexy only for him.
Yeah, well I told you I alone wasn't about to change your mind. I get the impression you have Christian, or at least conservative values. Perhaps among those people, they would, for some reason, judge you based on the dress and actions of your girlfriend. I don't surround myself with those kinds of people, and I'm not one myself. I find the mindset ridiculous. But you and I are living in completely different worlds right now.
I don’t even believe in God.
Men treat women the way they deserve to be treated. Women that dress promiscuous will only attract men lusting over them. They tolerate the garbage that comes out of their mouth because they want her body nothing else.
With all the liberalism and degenerate bullshit from this society. All I see is evil. God can’t exist
I live a freer life than that, and I'm happy to.
Go for it. You will suffer the consequences of it. Women that have multiple partners, non virgins just get divorced and can’t hold relationships.
It’s very proven.
My mom wasn't a virgin when she married and she's still very married?
But go off my friend. Go off.
Sorry your dad couldn’t get any better
My parents were virgins when they met. They’re the dream couple and my family is very well known for success
That's okay. He's got bigger things to worry about in life than the man my mother slept with twenty years ago.
Women don’t get it.
Because to women a man that’s slept with other women is attractive because it shows he’s experienced.
Men and women think very different.
If your dad was desirable he would’ve been able to select the perfect woman. Sounds like he just had to settle. That’s not to say he doesn’t love her
Oh, so now my dad's undesirable?
This is an extremely entertaining discussion, honestly.
No im saying he’s probably just an average man. An average man doesn’t get what he wants. Women select the ‘best man’ so being average is not an option.
A woman’s ability to pair bond is literally destroyed by sleeping with other men.
Men can sleep withwomen and find one that’s perfect for him and literally be in awe of her and give his life to her.
Women can’t. Sex is way more emotional to women, if she shares it with other men that’s a huge red flag.
Why should I be the idiot that marrys here when others got it for free
Disagree.
I don't know what your mentality is. My boyfriend was the same like you at first. All I had was for him alone to see. Bruh no one else is touching your girl. Don't you want to show her off? What does cleavage matter it's just a sight of boobs being squished together. Like please it's not like you could see her nipples and that she's walking around naked. In the past women were able to walk around without a bra and a top just with their tits out and no males cared. It's just society. Break up with her dude.
Male attention... that is how they feel good about themselves. If men want to fuck them or check them out they feel good.
That's hardly showing off. There is barely anything there!
If anything, she's trying to give herself confidence that she's got some cleavage to show off, and she might not secretly be a man...
We all know its for validation and male attention. It is equivalent to me walking around with my balls hanging out of the zipper. I feel fantastic and everybody is looking.
so you don't want to ask her, but aren't afraid to post this pic without her consent? ? ? okay... do you ever just maybe think women do it for themselves because they like the shirt?
you mention that women don't dress like that at home. um. yes. we kinda do... that's literally a tank top...
How is that showing your boobs off?
And posting your girlfriends' pic on here is real creepy.
7 months yet you can't be honest with each other?
My girlfriend love to show off and great feeling, when she wear bra only quarter or half cup bra too, as well as bikini top small one too max exposure of boobs.
Girls saying they just do it for themselves is a way for them to get attention and to feel empowered by playing the victim if one just simply compliments it. It's like putting a cash on a trapdoor.
Bust out the guns, hit them push ups to get them pec poppin' that way you both got something to show off, then people will be like look at that hot couple, that will get the panties cloudly with a chance of rain
That is a good question and even I am not sure why they do this.
'Girls dress that way to look good for her guy when they go out.'
Because we have nice boobs and we like it lol. Literally.
Read the update and then realise how you’re all full of shit
You said you’re a Muslim in another post then condone this?
So haram
I wear lingerie when I’m home alone 😂😂
But yeah I’m Muslim…we’re allowed to have boobs you know
I’m not convinced.
Women don’t dress like sluts at home, they dress comfortable
This is all for attention etc…. Women act like they do it for themselves.
If you were a true Muslim you wouldn’t be doing this shit and pretending to be one.
Why can’t Muslims have boobs
Flaunt what you got! Shit, women will bear the twat and the brown eye because they know there will be no recourse. I'm just glad it's not dudes.
I show my boobs because i like them and proud of them...🤷🏻♀️
Do you give advice? Can we dm? :)
I notice your profile says we can, but I am not able to dm you?
@LovrUFFAllls sorry no dms
The reason they dress like that is because they want air to get between their boobs. It they cover up her boobs get all sweaty and cause rashes.
Some for attention, some because that is what is comfortable, some because, frankly, they need airflow to keep relatively cool.
I think it’s definitely sexual. Unless it’s like a really hot day. There is really no reason for it. Most clothes that show skin look uncomfortable AF
I feel too shy to show cleavage but I wear fitted clothes to show-off my silhouette. It feels feminine.
Because I like to wear this type of clothes. Not for male attention. This question is nonsense.
I think it makes them feel sexy.. They won't do it unless they like it lol
You are uncomfortable with this and yet been with her for 7 months?
Because she can, get used to it and be proud she's with you and not the next guy. Stop being jealous, unless you want to lose her!
Because they know how much guys love boobs, lol. So all of the above.
If she was my girlfriend I wouldn't be complaining or asking dumb questions.
If it's their best asset, they're likely dressing for it
don't know about her, .. we like to see... what is shown... can't complain for see beautiful in nature, isn't it...
like wise believe me it's not Men's fault... it's weakness... unless he wants to lie...
You've been with her for 7 months and you can't ask her a simple question? Does she let you fuck her?
Women expose themselves for cheap sexual attention regardless if what they tell others and themselves.
The 26 men voting all of the above 😂 men are delulu wake up boys world doesn't revolve around you
That’s actually a good question that is easy to answer.
To get attention of males, anyhow she has nice boobs
Clearly this is a man’s issue. If it don’t make sense then leave it be.
boys like them
She might just think the top is comfortable
Maybe. I think it’s disrespectful to me. She’s happy to show herself like this to other men.
Nothing wrong with a woman wearing a top like that in public
I know, but to me it’s wrong. She does it quite a bit I’ve noticed. I’ll either tell her or just leave. It’s promiscuousc she should only want to show herself to me if she truly loved me.
Dude, your girl has awesome boobs. Enjoy them.
Because we want to see them.
Why are you obsessed with me?
Boobs evolved for showing off.
Natural instinct. They want to attract a male to prolong a species.
She has me so I’m no longer good enough?
Both not all of the above.
She wants to get fucked.
Nice picture. You're a lucky man.
They want to attract a man
Attention.
She likes it
They can
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