Guys: As a girl, how much should I pay a random guy to be my boyfriend for a month?

[Anonymous]

I’m still not having any luck on dating apps. But my social skills haven’t been bad either and I was wondering how much to pay a guy to be my boyfriend for a month.

(I’ve also been looking at escorts online and to be honest, they aren’t exactly the best physical quality I’ve seen. Even though the going rate they charge is $500-1,000)

So I was wondering, guys: if a random girl approached you and asked you to be her boyfriend for month and she’s willing to pay…what would you say and how much would you charge her?

[Rosexøxø]

I suggest you think of some girl you admire or is really pretty and guess what she would pay and then pay that amount.

Don’t pay extra because they are rude bastards, unless you’re some millionaire than make it a one time thing and don’t tell them you’re a millionaire.

Try making him think you have money and ask him if he’d do some small job. Seduce him, and make him think he’s tricking you. He’ll fuck you in hopes for monetary gain and after the month you can say the truth or dump the sneaky snake. 🐍 🤑

I would say whatever you buy as a dinner at a restaurant like close to to 80-140 range take that amount and whatever you tip: 20% 15%

let that be the payment you give to him. Any fuck boi who would fuck for free only deserves a tip price for what would be offered at some dinner place. Seems reasonable. It would be more than the 20 or lower tip given to pizza delivery drivers lol

Keep your dignity and self respect. Sex is just human nature and if you’re healthy.. I wouldn’t pay any man to do that, if I were in your shoes.

They can fake being a boyfriend if sex or money is involved (mostly sex), because that’s what many do when they try to trick girls or “court” them from social medias.

So keep your worth and try to make it a good time. Try some alternatives.

Best to you sis!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

So you basically want to rent a boyfriend for a month?

Girl! I love the attitude!

That’s the sickest thing I’ve read today haha

Best of luck.

[razelove]

Really it would depend on what your expectations are. What I expect a boyfriend to deliver and what you do may greatly vary. Attitude, so on and so forth. If you're buying an experience, it should be the best experience if I'm looking to get paid and charge the most that I can for it.

If it's just to sleep with you and talk for a little while, I'd say a clean STD test, per diem, travel costs, and 30k for the month (make-up for missing work and 2 months to find a new job). The per diem we'll calculate based on your area, travel costs can either come out of your pocket i. e. I show mileage for driving, or plane ticket and a vehicle when I get there.

It makes sense as well, for a clean escort on a daily rate available 24/hr, you won't get 30 days out of them, or be sure they're d&d free.

[Billlewis]

I hope this isn't too kinky, but if I lived near you, and you had a guy whom you were having a casual sexual relationship with, I'd gladly pay for the privilege of listening to you having sex with him, and you'd be able to have your cake and eat it, too... maybe if I was really lucky, you'd consider granting me the honor of providing 'after date cleanup service' for you:)

Just as an aside, I think you should use reverse psychology here -- if you act like guys should be lining up to be seen in public with you, there will probably be a line stretching around the block... lol:)

[Avicenna]

First of all, no guy would take a woman seriously who offered to pay him to be her bf- it would have to be a prank. Second of all, you are in your early- to mid-30s, you are still pretty young and can get a guy. Get off those useless dating apps and meet guys with similar interests.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'd charge her by the hour... add extra if it's a certain time like nights or mornings. I think $60/hour is about right. If it includes sex then I expect to get paid for that... Just give me tips for the good time so I don't have to ask. I wouldn't expect it to be a constant thing, because I have other ladies and my wife to keep happy as well. It sounds pricy... but...

If you just need a guy to show up at your work party with you and bang you on the office printer just loud enough that everybody at your work knows... I'm your man. I'll even put the used condom in your boss's favorite coffee mug... no extra charge. That's only like 3 hours or so. It's reasonable if you think about it.

It's the price some are willing to pay just so they don't get texted about it later... even I roll my eyes every time someone texts me, "I really had a great time."

[Christoff92]

I'll be look can't pay a girl just to be a girlfriend figure. Why should I accept this proposal to a girl trying to pay me to be a boyfriend figure. It's going to work both ways.

Strange but why are you not getting anywhere in online dating? Wouldn't dozens of guys want to be interested in connecting with you?

[Sunssong]

Well, assuming I didn't like her, I would make her pay for all events we went to including food. Plus for the service in general. Depends on the person and how much money they are already earning. If they are a average earner then a few hundred.

Honestly you can just find some guy who wants experience and you both can pretend to date for a month or 2.

[Lynx122]

In Japan I think there is a guy who just hangs out with people and listens to them and stuff and gets paid for it. I think he's not that expensive. I don't know how expensive it would be to rent a boyfriend it probably depends how often you want to talk to him and text him etc. I have a girlfriend now, but I was single for 32 years before. I'm sure you'll find a guy, just make sure he won't make you miserable.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Are you ugly or super fat or something? If not, it can't be that hard to find a guy... Especially when you're on dating apps as well... The whole rent a boyfriend thing could be the plot of some romantic comedy lol but I don't think it can work irl... Probably only weirdos gonna accept this situation or guys who are so broke.. You're too young to be a sugar mommy lol...

[Venymal]

Actually, I think that’s a good idea for single people to have someone as an on-call escort when you want to go out to a particular venue or whatever. As for asking price, I’d do it for free if you paid for me to eat good food and go with you to cool events!

[Ruthy61]

If you can approach men with that same level of confidence and simply ask them on a date, I bet you’ll find plenty of people willing to date you.
No fee involved.
I’m not a man myself, but I can only imagine men would be put off by such a question.
I definitely would.
It’s kind of insulting to both parties involved. Unless of course you are using the escort service.


Girl, there are so many people in the world. You’ll find someone. You don’t need to pay.

[Leapfrog00]

Hmm, $300 for the day. That includes my intellect, hugging and kissing, Unlimited "I love yous, sex, and displays of public affection.
Then I'd worry I'd fall in love with her, then I'd probably end up giving her money back to her. ::Sighs::

[Adam1978]

Nothing, no man would ever take money for that kind of service. They either want you or not. You will not buy a boyfriend you will buy an escort that lives on your expenses. Ie not the right experience.

[BoopBoopBeep]

She'd have to cover all costs of our dates +10% to me with a minimum of $100/date. That said, if she was actually really fun to be around I'd cut it in half.

[Curious_teen07]

If you want to pay someone to be with you, that means you're trying to sort of prove a point of not being single. You won't get anything out of it.

[abc3643]

What's the job description beyond just "being the boyfriend"? What are the specifics?

[Spongebobssocks]

This gotta be top 2 of the saddest things I've read..

Maybe work on what prevents you from dating? Try to find the cause and go from there

[glennos89]

Honestly I wouldn't know how to respond to such a request. It's kinda weird to ask pay some random guy money to be your boyfriend for a month?

What would you expect exactly from me then?

[clampfan101]

You shouldn’t have to pay anything for simply being in a relationship. You don’t tell someone you love they can be with you for a price. Love is dedication, not a subscription.

[hbg84]

I'd probably do it for free. You buy dinner and pay for the entertainment. That's all I'd want. Unless you want sex then I'd have to charge a small service charge. Lmao

[Daddy_Satoru]

Use that money somewhere else ffs. Get yourself the newest iPhone or smtg.

[Twalli]

I wouldn't want just a month if the girl is attractive. I'd want to see if we actually have chemistry. If we don't, I won't date regardless of monetary gain.

[Reorx]

I'd say no thanks, not interested. I wouldn't care how much you're paying. I'd feel really disgusted after & if i liked you before a proposition like this would kill ANY spark.