Is there any woman out there who can HONESTLY say they would not tell things that are said between their guy and her to their friends?

[Anonymous]

Women are naturally, tattle-tales. It's in their blood. Is there any woman out there, who wouldn't go and tell things to their friends, that her man told her in private/confidence

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Look, if someone asked to keep something secret, no one would say anything. If a guy trauma dumps out of nowhere, I’m going to need someone to talk to about all of that just to process all the horrible things that he just told me about.

[Asker]

If he's dumping stuff on you, it's likely implied it's secret. DO NOT ASSUME

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If I’m not told, how am I meant to know anything for certain?

[Asker]

Isn't that the point of secrets

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Secrets are things where you ask to keep it between the two of you

[Asker]

Exactly. So, if he's telling you something, he's likely expecting you NOT to tell others

[BoopBoopBeep]

Because a man shouldn't be "trauma dumping" if there's any way around it, so the fact that he still had to is indicative that he had no other routes to turn down. If it was hard for him to say, he wouldn't want it on facebook. if he doesn't want it on facebook, assume it's a secret. That's not hard. I know you understand that. You're better than that.

[IAmAzzurra]

It’s a betrayal, in a way. Things that are said in private should stay private

[Anonymous]

I'm guessing some do exist.