Do you think it was okay for me to reject a player and put them in the friendzone?

[TheSimFans]

Yes, I rejected a player when I met him first and I saw him in a relationship on Facebook after he got in a relationship. Today I sent you a text saying let's just be friends. Now that I've rejected my first guy, I'm happy that I started communicating with a new guy that I found on dating websites called freedating. co. uk. I was the first to send him a message, and he responded back to me with a contract on Whatapps. I contracted and sent a message on what apps. he was seeing a girl but the girl broke if off because she said he was going to slow. I prefer that the guy be honest about it. What are your thoughts about the Two guys

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm a slut and I love banging different girls. I find it's better to just be honest though and avoid having to make shit up all the time.

And sure, a lot of girls out there are going to just say no to a guy that says, "Look, I'm married, but I'd like to bang you on the side." That should be a choice they get to make... Most of them are either gold diggers or what I'd call "relationship diggers" to begin with... I just want some vagina.

With all that said, here is what I've found by just being honest. I was surprised there are a lot of women that want that "No Strings Attached" fling or mutually agreed terminal short-term relationship. We all have sexual needs. Some women avoid guys that might start pushing for commitment or a relationship. It could be for all sorts of reasons... School, work, they're cheating themselves, or they just don't want to deal with relationship bullshit.

I give you a gold star for rejecting a dude that is actively using deception against you. There usually isn't a need for that level of manipulation... because if the girl is down, she's going to be down. But if she was only down under false pretense... that's just going to piss her off, possibly hurt her, and it's going to all blow up in the guy's face. Not worth it, just be honest. Let women go that don't want what I want... let them walk away... with a way to contact me 😂 They always change their mind later. 🤣

[TheSimFans]

that is ok but i not the all girls can be a bit different. which guy the first guy that or second guy is ok? yep i did met first men off the dating app called badoo did start saying about being together and did said the word girlfriends and boyfriend before we meetup but after metup and felt something wrong and did saw post that got int a relationship. has multiple account on Facebook. so i just give up on him and move on to my second guy that is honest and has ok.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Oh dang... You should just write in your native language and let me google translate it. I can't figure out what you're saying.

[TheSimFans]

English is my native language.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Oh Dang. I'm sorry.

[OfMiceandMen]

Once the player knows he's been put in the friendzone, he'll likely never contact you again. Which is typical.

[WhitneySnow]

You did the right thing rejecting the player. The second guy sounds cool. Going slow in the beginning is a good thing.

[DaveJord]

Honestly, whenever a woman says Freind zone I absolutely assume it's wrong. If he is a player and you don't want to play, then don't play. Freind zoning him sounds like playing to me.

[anon1903]

It sounds like the premise of every heterosexual wattpad book with the player trope haha

[coachTanthony]

Let's just be friends? Do you really want to be friends with him? lol

[TheSimFans]

no but is good way to let them know that I'm not interested in any relationship with him

[coachTanthony]

Not sure why people lie and not just say sorry I am not interested.

[anon1903]

Just tell him you're not interested. I once rejected someone that bluntly, and he was and had a lot of girls who were in love with him or something — IT WAS A TOTAL BLOW TO HIS EGO!!

would recommend it 10/10

[TheSimFans]

@anon1903 why does that matter i still rejected him anyway and put in frienzone since where people feel fade away.

[TheSimFans]

feel

[anon1903]

That's not how men interpret it. Not at least the players, no.

[anon1903]

Say what you will, but "not interested" hurts more than anything. Because then he won't know how to flatter himself with the "she's just playing hard to get lmao"

[TheSimFans]

@anon1903 i will reject if even ask to boyfriend and sitll put him in the friendzone over and over again

[anon1903]

Sounds exhausting.

[anon1903]

You're trying in vain. Only women understand the meaning of "let's just be friends"

[TheSimFans]

So what I already moved on from him and should learn is a very hard lesson I am a better player than he will be. You don't get it for you.

[anon1903]

It's not a competition.

[anon1903]

But clearly I'm too virgin and straightforward to get this, so I'll exit this conversation.

[TheSimFans]

I know but I know I'm better. Nothing else. Then.

[anon1903]

Good luck.

[TheThingALing]

Do you think a actual player would allow himself to be put in said friendzone? Perhaps you've miscalculated who and what he is

[TheSimFans]

so what is a player they can intelligent player and they be dumb player. texting multiple girls and was also in relationship at same and didn't commutation proper who he was seeing at time that after meetup with him then I saw on Facebook that he was in relationship with women

[anon1903]

I'm sorry to quote every bad heterosexual romances but "it begins with friendship" so you should be weary. He shant give up. And if that flatters you, you've got issues.

@TheThingALing is right.

[TheSimFans]

@anon1903 that what i didn't say. i let just be friends sent by a text . that all i sent . not that begins with friendship.

[anon1903]

It doesn't matter. Players have the moon sized egos.

[TheSimFans]

@anon1903 i got even more bigger then ego them all the players

[anon1903]

Like it or not, he's gonna see this as a challenge.

[TheSimFans]

@anon1903 nope i kept rejecting him over and over and over and never give in. do you not understand anything they be dumb player and intelligent player. my player was dumb ass player.

[DextroShade]

If he's really a player I doubt he will be your friend.