A guy played me and hurt me deeply. He wants back in my life, but just as a friend. I'm over the hurt, but how can I trust him as a person now. Not sure if the nice side of him Is the real him or a fake persona
This is a tough question, with no definite answer.
It takes a lot of effort, reflection and self responsibility to become a better person. Maybe he has changed for the better, or maybe he has not? Who knows? I've known people like this that have either changed for the better or stayed the same. You can't live your life being overzealous, but you also can't live your life in paranoia over whether or not someone will betray you again or not.
The only person that can answer if he's genuinely changed is him, and that's if you let him back into your life. His actions and behavior will tell you what you need to know. Either way it's your choice. Personally if he's caused you that much hurt in the past, then don't reopen an already boarded up door.
Good luck and be careful.
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A player who wants back in your life after treating you badly and tries to get back in your life by being nice to you is just a manipulator and he will play you again.
A zebra doesn’t change its stripes.
Let him go and move on.
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He'll just play you again, that's my opinion.
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