Yes, I believe so. Players often have many friends because people are selfish wether they want to admit it or not. People can see one of their best friends cheating on their partner and blatantly lie to her face but still remain his friend because he is good to them, at least to their knowledge, and then they blame allowing their friend to act like a douche on "not wanting to get involved".
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A player isn't good for anything except stirring up drama.
I'm sure they can be your friend, and even introduce you to some interesting people!
... just don't sleep with, or try to date a player, lol
I'm not a player but more importantly I think a better question is why are player and slut synonyms but gender specific and each term has obvious inconsistency in gender equality. Player sounds like it's a game and you excel at it. A slut is a female with the same attitude yet it's derogity and frowned upon to be one
Could be a friend yeah. They can be funny, perceptive, intuitive. They can have all the qualities of a good friend. What makes them a player is their desire to sleep around. But if you're friends you don't have to worry about that because friends shouldn't be fucking each other anyway. Sort of ruins the dynamic.
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yes... a player can be a good male friend. He avoids other players and prefers handsome boys as friends because they are a honey pot for girls.
I don't think a player can be friends with girls, at least the one who used to be my friend couldn't talk with women on casual levelNot really from my experience I’ve had a friend who was a player and tbh he never gave a shit about anyone else other then himself all he would talk about is how he was fucking all these girls and how he’s so great easy to say got repetitive fast so I left him behind
You seriously think a player would have time for a girl that just wants to be friends?
Lucy: Hey wanna come to the movies with me and Sarah?
Hannah, Bridget, Mel, Bianca: Hey I'm bored want to come over and fuck?
Who do you think will get to spend time with the player?
People that have abundance in their life only spend time with people that provide value to them. A platonic female friend only takes time away from a player that they cannot get back.Maybe. It could end up back firing if he’s a bad personality and no morals. They could manipulate you to keep you single so they can use you and make you do what they want to help their needs.
He can be a good friend. Just because you're bad in one type of relationship doesn't mean you're not good at different types. Just look at Joey from Friends
That depends on what you mean by good friend. A good friend in my opinion is someone you can trust. Someone who will not make you uncomfortable or put you in situations that do, excepting for your betterment of self. And someone who in the chips are down will help you out of a tight spot.
Can a player do these things? Yes they can. Is it likely for them to do so out of the goodness of their heart? Probably not.Of course they can still be good friends. As long as they are not trying to get into your pants and treat you like a friend instead of a girl they want to pick up.
Yes but I think a player is a bad personality to be , you need to be good and truthful and always be free from playing games
A player is a player. You could never trust that he isn't trying to seduce you, just waiting for the right weak moment, to get in your pants.
My best friend is a women that sleeps around but to me she is a great friend. We have never had sex nor do we want to. We've talked about it. Lol
My best friend in college was the biggest player but he was a really great friend and one of the only to defend me against bully.
Hahah I liked the "either" part. I guess no, usually players see most girls as prey, not really friendship material, and if they flirt with you from the very beginning, chances are they won't change their mind just to be your friends.
My bestfriend is a Player for girls and he is a great friend because he teach me things to help me get out of my introverted side.
Loyalty defines friendship. Players know what loyalty looks like, but haven’t grown enough as people to embody it in principle.
I've never met a player who had good friendship with girls. The few that I know either only have them for booty calls or side pieces. Never have I ever seen them just "be friends"
When becoming friends with someone its about friendship if he's a player an ass what ever he might be or she might be they dont bring thst in with them if they do. They got to go or put them in there place
Most of my friends that so called player actually the one that most loyal for me. I dont know what the explanation behind that fr.
I don't see why not. His sexual habits have nothing to do with his friendships
If the guy is legit not into you at all in that way but is ok with being your friend?
A woman would greatly benefit from this cause she could pick his brain to be one step ahead of any guy she’s datingYeah he can be a good friend, if he is your friend then you learn the type of stuff guys do to pick up chicks and also if he doesn’t try to hit on you then it’s funny to see him work his magic
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