Is it possible for a guy to change his player ways for you?

[Anonymous]

I don't know what to do I don't know whether I should stay or leave. My boyfriend is very well aware that I know he's a player. We even talked about the girls and he said "I was his girl and them are hoes" he told me things he did that I already knew. I always bring situations up to him. He's a good guy outside of his player ways but he keep saying that he's not going to be faithful anytime soon because of the girls in his past. He said every girl Cheated on him in his past so he wrather be a player so he won't get played anymore. He said he tired of hearing " I'm not like these other girls out here". He told me he heard that plenty of times. When I pick him up he be ready to go in 20 minutes. he said he wrather be who he is today so he won't get played anymore. when I hold a camera to his face he knocks it away and say "I don't like pictures" but he has a Facebook page. I never really had a deep discussion with him but I need to. I don't feel right being done wrong because of his past. Everybody ain't the same. What do I do? What can I say to him?

[shadowlegend]

Either you accept him as he is or you don't. It's unfair to want someone to change who they are because you don't feel that your needs are being met, and he would feel like you don't accept him the way he is. You can't force him to change or manipulate him (unless your an indecent person), you can only determine what you accept and what you don't. If you don't like his behaviour or his personality (some traits anyway) then he is not the right person for you to be in a relationship with.

[BCRanger10]

It is possible for someone to change, but it should not be expected. How long have you two been going out?

[Ihav2fart]

If we change for you then we're no longer the person you loved.

[ArabianPwincess197]

Hard to say. Most players don't change