I miss this guy and thinking about visiting him at his work for one last attempt to get back in contact with him. Is this a good idea?

[Anonymous]

I’m not trying to freak him out, I just really miss him, and we were in contact until he became official with his on/off again g/f.

[Bricealan]

She dumped me, ... wanting to get married... and then 6 months later called and I guess wanting to get back... it did not work out, and her fucking other men in the between time did not bother me at all... I am not sure...

Just saying that it does not work out the second time around... all you can do is try.

[Bricealan]

I meant to say in that third sentence, ... I'm not sure what her motive was in calling me... if she wanted to get back or what... I never knew.

[Asker]

Not my concern but I don’t understand why people get back together with their exes. Is it because they think no one else will care for/ love them? I believe his ex somehow found out that he was moving on, and she couldn’t stand it.

[Bricealan]

I don't understand "Not my concern" ... when you said."I miss this guy and thinking about visiting him at his work for one last attempt to get back in contact with him... What, then, is your concern?

[Asker]

Well I referring to on/off again couples. My opinion is that they broke up for a reason, and it should stay that way. But yeah, this is my final attempt so in a way, it’s my business.

[Bricealan]

Understood/understand... Many of us have been in that boat... I too have been there.
Good luck.

[Asker]

Thank you, I miss him like crazy. I’m hoping me visiting will change things because in person interactions have more impact than texting usually.

[Anonymous]

Dont come uninvited.
Ask him if he accepts it then show up.
But doing it in a last attempt is not something most people would appreciate

[Opinion Owner]

You could come off the total opposite of your intentions. Just trying to help you be aware