Should I let my girl go to the club?

[Anonymous]

She wants to go to the club with her friends. So basically get drunk in a short dress with her friends with men around who will no doubt approach her as she’s stunning.

My response - hell NO. I told her if she goes not to come back. We’re both 24. we should be past this clubbing garbage.

Am I worried about her loyalty? I have zero reason to not trust her, but I just feel uncomfortable about it.

Good call

Let her go

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+1 y

I am not a cuck so she stays home or leaves me. It’s her choice.

[DextroShade]

Why does she need to go to a place where she will get drunk and have guys hit on her? The only reason those dudes are there is to get laid. If she wants to do that she can be single. You definitely made the right call. LOL at all the thots voting for you to let her go, this is why relationships are in the sorry state they are.

[AviatorTom]

You can tell her you don't want her to go but ultimately it's her decision. You have trust issues. Let her go and build that trust.

[smashleyy]

It’s not your decision, your her boyfriend not her keeper. You said yourself you have no reason to not trust her. controlling behaviour is coming from your own insecurities and trust issues, why should she have to adjust her life around your problems cause you refuse to work through those emotions.

[smashleyy]

no it doesn’t make him a bitch it means he’s secure within himself and the relationship. Im sorry you only have one functioning brain cell and can’t comprehend that people go to the club for different reasons. some want to go just to have a fun time out drinking and dancing. If you can’t trust your partner to remain faithful around promiscuous people then why are you even with them if you think they’d fold that easily.

[DextroShade]

No, he's very fucking secure because he enforces boundaries. It's the pathetic simps who let their girls go to the club who are insecure because they worry about losing her and not being able to find someone else.

[smashleyy]

having to control where your partner can and can’t go to give yourself a false sense of security isn’t being secure nor is sitting around overthinking, jumping to conclusions when your partner is out. There’s a difference between healthy boundaries and controlling your partner to avoid sitting with your own uncomfortable emotions. If the club was a absolute no for him then that should have been something he expressed prior to a committed relationship instead of giving ultimatums when the situation arose

[BrookeAZ90]

You again. I hope she goes although I'm fairly sure you're making her up anyway.

[TheUniqueOne96]

I think she needs to know the reality that guys will try to pursue.

She's free to go, but you're free to decide whether to break up with her if she goes or you could go with her.

The reality is, basically what you've described it in the first line.

[Billlewis]

I think you should absolutely encourage her to go to the club, and be proud of yourself for having such a gorgeous girlfriend that other guys are jealous of you for.

[SnowedIn]

She goes.

What is this, your five year old who wants to go play at the park?

Not up to you.

Who are you to tell her what she should and shouldn't do?

[JustinTheGreat]

if you trust her then there shouldn’t be any issues tbh. Yeah guys might approach her but if you know she’s loyal then she’d reject them anyways.
people are allowed to go out and have fun with their friends

[Miristheiss]

Agree. If she wants to act single, do disrespectful acts, advertise herself to other men then she is a lousy girlfriend and you should set her loose and move on.

[humanearth]

You a fool, you have trust issues

If you trust her, you would let her get caught cheating. If she is going to cheat. She is going to cheat, she don't need a club to cheat.

Thats when you can dump her and you look like the good guy

[Anonymous]

Exactly, she is 24. She can do what she wants.

[Asker]

Not if she’s my girlfriend. She can F off away from me if she does those things.

[Spade_01]

A man with self respect wouldn't allow his girl to go to a club and a self respecting woman wouldn't even think of going to one either.

[Iron_Man]

Is that a healthy boyfriend and girlfriend relationship? Going to a nightclub by herself with her friends, wearing a short dress.

[Anpu23]

She wants to go dancing and hang with her friends. You really should check that jealousy man.

[OddBeMe]

Break up. You don’t trust her or you have so little self confidence she’d be better off with someone else.

What’s her number?

[humanearth]

You said it right there. He don't trust her

[OddBeMe]

@humanearth still trying to get her bruh, stop cockblocking me! Lol

[KrakenAttackin]

The purpose of the club is to get sexually excited by attention and usually hookup with a random Chad. Tell your girlfriend to fuck off.

[najekim]

Let her go. If nothing else, you'll get the benefits of her getting hot & horny with her girlfriends.

[Avicenna]

Hell no

[inhua]

it's time to get a new girlfriend

[Twalli]

You don't trust her, if you did you'd let her go.

[shades777]

just go with her and see what she says