Why does a guy flirt with me at one moment and acts like I don't exist at the other times and flirts again when I'm around him?

[Anonymous]

[BarryLiverstone]

He isn’t actually interested in a relationship with you. When you are around and he’s bored he will flirt. He is focused on other things tho overall.

[Asker]

Should I avoid these kind of guys?

[BarryLiverstone]

I mean that’s up to you. If you like the attention and you have time or are bored seems like girls spend time with them. But if you actually want to build a relationship with a guy then yes it’s a waste of your time to give to him.

Make sense?

[Asker]

Yes, I'm not interested in flirting when I'm bored. I wanna choose serious guys who are into a relationship

[BarryLiverstone]

So if that’s the case then have solid boundaries and help drive the conversion towards goals. Best to hold off on sexual action for awhile and instead get to know him with fun activities.

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you go on dates often?

[Asker]

No. He simply flirts with me when I'm around him. Speaks with me occasionally but those flirts seem deep but he still doesn't make any efforts to start a relationship. He simply flirts with me all the time I'm around him

[BarryLiverstone]

So if he’s not asking you out then it’s not going anywhere

[Asker]

But he teases me, flirts with me with words and actions, but all those seem not to be going anywhere. This is actually in the starting stage of his speaking stage. May be I'm expecting everything suddenly. He seems nervous even though he hasn't asked me about relationship yet but subtly gives hints which doesn't go anywhere and simply stay as hints. I'm confused why he does that

[BarryLiverstone]

Like I said he’s either bored or he’s hinting at something casual. But it’s not going anywhere so you can just block him

[Jessicasmidgen86]

I don't understand you girls. If you want to get the answer, ask him

[EVERYONEDIED]

Because stupid