After my last relationship with a cis woman, I'm ready to be honest with myself and open up to dating other men and/or nonbinary masculine presenting. I've only ever been with cis women so I don't know how to go about this and, to be honest, it's stressing me out quite a bit. I'm not sure what I can do with my appearance or personality to better represent this when I'm out in the open (because let's be real dating apps don't work anymore). Can anyone share some advice on what I could do? I'm including photos as a point of reference because as it stands I don't think I give off gay/queer vibes.
I'm a 27 year old bisexual/asexual man who wants to start dating other men and masculine presenting... where to start?
I’m demisexual, so I look for a heart-to-heart or soul-to-soul connection above all else, no matter what someone’s gender is.
If I was single and a guy wanted to date me, we’d first need to get acquainted, become friends, and the natural chemistry would lead the rest of the way.
All of my long term relationships started off as friendships without expectations, which then naturally led to something more because of the chemistry.
So, based on my personal experience, I wouldn’t stress out too much about it. I’d just go out and connect with people, meet with people, hangout, have fun, and I know I’d inevitably feel a spark eventually when I find the right person.
I’m a very intuitive dater though. So I’m not sure how much of this dating advice is useful, lol. All I can say is to connect with people, have fun, and you’ll bump into someone where the chemistry is right, and you can follow your intuition. 🧭
Your top picture with the grass is nice by the way. You look friendly and approachable!
If you're looking for guys to have a sexual relationship with, I think you'll find it very easy, unless you live in a small town. Just start advertising in your local personals and I think you'll do very well.
