I have been dating this man for 2 months. I have a pretty busy schedule and generally he is respectful of that. But now today I noticed because there will go some time
without seeing each other, I sent a message about that and then when I can see him and he just replied ok. I know it is because he is dissapointed that he can’t see me before. But it is not like I cancelled a date.
I don’t know though if this behaviour is a red flag and I should be hard on him or if it is a normal response and I should give him a call instead of all of this texting.
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My advice? Make texting as minimal as you can. You are only 2 months in so I get if you’re working up to that; but the goal is to get the relationship off the phone and in-person. If something is bothering you then tell him to his face. I’ve been in a relationship almost 2 years now, we’re engaged and even at this point bringing up certain topics can still feels scary lol.
It’s just the fear of the unknown, concern over what he will say or how he’ll feel. But communication is key when you’re building the foundation. At this time you set the stage for what you will both expect from one another as you grow together; so it’s very important to communicate whether it’s big or small.
o k.