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You would have to get to know me first.
Pros: I am kindhearted, helpful, loves to have fun, artistic, unique, goofy, hardworking, honest, doesn't put up with BS and an art lover. I love art like painting, drawing, doing crafts. I also love theater and nature. I love camping which is my favorite outdoor activity.
Cons: I am autistic. I get anxiety at times, sometimes I miss social cues (I'm autistic) and that is difficult sometimes. I sometimes, get angry and can be ill-tempered, but not around people. I also tend to bottle in my feelings at times and self injure myself, but it isn't extreme. Just like hitting myself. I have trust issues because when I was younger, i was so naive to tryst people and call most people my friend and had to learn the hard way. I am stubborn sometimes.
That's all I gotta say.
Pros of dating me: I’m kind and caring, I will always be there for you, I’m helpful and hardworking, I will include you in everything I do, I will give you cuddles and kisses, I will always make you feel wanted. I have mild Autism so I can teach you knew things, I would love a baby and would never walk out on a pregnant woman I would look after her and our child.
Cons of dating me: I have depression and it can suck me under sometimes I don’t have any self esteem or confidence, I’m a bit weird, I’m stubborn, I will go off in a huff, I hate fighting as it frightens me (think that’s a good thing (that I hate fighting) 🤔) I ramble when I’m nervous, I tend to people please to much and over share due to my abusive past, but apart from that I’m a pretty good guy.
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter, no ('Cause I got you, babe)
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter, no ('Cause I got you, babe)
'Cause we gon' fight, oh yes, we gon' fight (We gon' fight)
Believe we gon' fight (We gon' fight)
Fight for our right to love, yeah (Right to love, yeah)
Nobody wanna see us together
But it don't matter, no ('Cause I got you)
It's simple, pros are something closer to what qualities you ideally want to have in a partner and you too resiprocate, and cons are something that is way out of the norm for you and not something you would appreciate. Now if pros>cons it's considerable, if otherwise, then it's a deal breaker.
I won't directly answer this ask, but try to see if you can compensate the other person's shortcomings with your pros and the other person can do the same in return.
It's not a price match or commodities on a scale of comparison. Digging out the value beliefs of the other person and how much our words turn into action should iron out questions like these popping in our head.
The positive = out going, cheerful, good listener, no dramas, willing to try anything, and non-judgmental
The negative part= nervous about not knowing what else to talk about, drinking red wine makes me sleepy, bailing out on a date early bc of emergency reasons for my 2 teenagers.
Pros - faithful to no end
Cons - I am not going to have a full conversation by text. I only text when it is important, like we are meeting somewhere, etc. I prefer to use the phone and talk to her if it requires a full conversation about something. I've found texts can often get you into trouble if the text is taken out of context.
Great question. I think everyone has flaws. I would guess that you would have to get to know me on a personal level first. Then you will be able to truly tell if I am a good catch or not, but seriously, I think everyone isn't perfect, they have their things/cons. Love is also loving the cons in my opnion, so long as the cons aren't on purpose, if you get what I am trying to say.
Pro: I'm honest, direct, don't judge people based on their appearance (with the exception of tattoos - I can't stand them), am willing to listen, learn, and evolve if I have to.
Con: I'm a real freak, a weirdo who never takes much seriously. Slightly unbalanced, prone to anger.
Do you hit partner in anger?
@cyclingkmi I haven't hit anyone since I was about seven.
My cons are that I’m not necessarily liking to go out on the town and don’t need a lot of “fun” things aka pop culture trends as the world sees it. Rather, I love serious conversations on theology and deep topics or ideas. So many girls might consider me boring.
On the other hand, my pros are that I’m very romantic and know how to treat a woman respectful and in a caring way. I still believe in chivalry.
You'll be treated like a queen by an adoring little pig who literally worships the ground you walk on, pays all your bills, pays for your dates with other men, serves you as the perfect male maid and still goes to work every day to keep you in the lap of luxury -- all without ever being allowed to get his little tiny dicklet inside you:)
Pros: I'm honest, not willing to cheat, have no interest in arguing or causing drama, I'll happily listen to your problems and very encouraging, easy to please and I'm a happy drunk when I drink
Cons: none lol jk I can procrastinate things, I'm always anxious at new things I won't always know the right thing to say, I do like routine so some days just feel the same as other days and some days I just feel kinda down on myself
Pros: Caring, I can cook, loyal, likes to cuddle, simple, I'm creative, I'm cute, smart in certain subjects and I am funny 🥰
Cons: Insecure, jealous, depressed, anxious, takes for ever to make up my mind, I tend to worry a lot, you need to explain something to me multiple times, I complain a lot and I need a lot of resurance 😕
Cons: I'm practically incapable of self love so good luck trying to get me to accept a complement without entirely delfecting at it back at you.
I'm kinda neurotic about schedules so I don't particularly like spontaneous plans, especially if I already had something else in mind to do.
I tend to make mean jokes about myself
Pros: I can cook really damn well and you will taste cuisines from around the world
Bro can u cook for me
That was spontaneous I'm sorry
@siseñor WTF
@Joker_ will u cook for me then
@siseñor i gotchu sis, what are you craving
@AdithyaR i am craving British cuisine my brother 😈
let me get in on some of that British cuisine too my nigga
Fish and chips sound good?
@AdithyaR yes please thank u bossman 🤝
Pros: well the very relationships I’ve been in even if it was long distance that was one of my #1 priorities, I don’t smoke (I don’t like it, I despise it, I hate it) it’s bad enough I gotta be around my family that smokes. My anger doesn’t lead to actions. Blah blah blah basic pros yeah sure I’m loyal, sense of humor, whatever else
Cons: I take a lot of things seriously and I don’t care about my sense of humor
We gotta work on that sense of humor :)
Fr I have to
+ + + I cook food. I like to eat food- except fish or mushrooms. I build. I fix. I'm creative. I play music. My humor is very punny (pun intended). I like dogs. I think that (the original) McGyver is a good role model.
- - - Do things my way and no one dies. I'm poor at tolerating people who have no sense of logic, family, or ability to manage their day-to-day living (including having a job if they are able).
Cons:
Pros:
Pros- Great listener. Pretty funny and goofy. Will always be your number one fan. Likes exercising and having fun no matter if it’s at home or out in public. Also enjoys watching sports and can bake.
Cons- I quote way too much Disney and talks about clouds. I overthink and have adhd. I will try to fight you no matter the situation.
Pro's:
I cook great food
I am submissive in bed and neutral in relationship
My bodycount is 1 and am looking for long term relationship
I am open minded
I am introverted so I NEVER go out to clubs/parties.
Con's
I have hard time expressing my feelings.
I lie when I'm nervous about dumb stuff.
Pros:
- kind and easy going
- rudely honest
- open emotionally and sexually
- can agree on boundaries and status as long as it’s honest
Cons:
- takes the boundaries agreed on annoyingly
- won't move forward if the other part doesn’t
- emphasis on sex as the main source of connection
- never forget nor forgive
Pros:
Im passionate, caring sometimes i act like mother which can be annoying, protective. A good friend as well.
Cons:
Over emotional. Mothering but it gets annoying because i get controlling sometimes. Jealous and gets possessive as well.
You Scorpio or Pisces?
Scorpio
I know scopios are like that but please dont judge , i m not a toxic typical scorpion.
Nope, don't worry, my childhood sweetheart is a Scorpio.
What's your zodiac sign?
I am a Leo.