What are the PERKS of dating YOU?

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Are you funny? Are you loyal? You make a great Lasagne? Let me know below.

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

Since a guy asked this, I'm making it clear I'm only interested in women, but here is the list:

I can cook/prepare just about anything, I also know more than usual about nutrition and how nutrient metabolism effects bodily regeneration and what conditions are required for the food to even do it's job, So I could both give you delicious treats, and make you live longer.

I'm a clean and organized person who won't leave messes around the house.

I'm an illustrator, musician, and writer (artists prefer dating other artists).

I'm in the process of becoming a software developer.

I am the work from home type who doesn't take risky/dangerous jobs, so you won't be up late at night worrying about when or if I will come home.

I hate the smell of perfumes and makeup, and I like the natural look and smell, so no need to waste money or time trying to look or smell different (aside from you know, hygeine stuff).

I plan on building my own custom dream house with built in custom arcade, library, home theater, chef's kitchen, collectables room, terrarium room, bathouse, and several other additions.

I'm really good at difficult video games (anyone else who also is, is going to crave this kind of gaming buddy)

My hobbies are gaming, drawing, composing, studying extinct and extant wildlife and phylogeny, reading reference books, scholarly articles and web comics, watching anime/cartoons, sci fi and fantasy movies, as well as nature and tech documentaries. I also like building model kits of gundams, zoids, and other mechs.

When learning something new, I need very little practice.

I know where the clitoris is and how to get the job done to the point of you squirting multiple times in one go without my hand getting tired.

I have a larger than average penis.

I don't have any infections.

I'm an atheist, and am agnostic until informed about anything I'm unsure of, so I won't be trying to make you drink the koolaid of whatever flavor of unverifiable bs (I either have proof of something, Or I admit I don't know, and this makes a lot of things in life way easier)

I don't have any children, and don't want any for practical reasons, but in the case of accidental pregancy, I am both excellent with kids and will respect both the choice to keep them or have an abortion. (this is obviously a benefit only to those sharing my stance)

I still look like I did at 14 despite being 35, I have zero addictions or bad habits, and will probably outlive most people, so I'm far less likely to leave you widowed than most men.

I'm loyal, kind hearted, loving, considerate, empathetic, patient, logical, generous (within reason), I value wants (not just needs), I'm understanding, and I'm really good at problem solving and go out of my way to do so.

I'm ok with giving a girlfriend/wife constant attention, and you can bug me all you want for any reason, even at work or while I'm sleeping, and even if it's jist typing "psst" over and over to be a fucking goober or waking me out of a sound sleep because you want sex, your stomach hurts, or you had a bad dream.

I'm very laid back, It's really difficult to piss me off, and I'm not violent or argumentative.
I don't start shit for no reason, I don't cheat, I don't lie, I don't pretend to be something I'm not, nor do I pretend to like things I don't, and I don't get mad when proven wrong about something (which is the reason I know as much as I do, I care about evidence, not being right).

jmr2191 · Accepted Answer

1. Loyal- I have never cheated and never will. There is never a worry about me straying elsewhere.
2. I reply to texts promptly and answer phone calls. If I can't, I do so as soon as I'm able.
3. Reliability- I'm consistent and predictable on the important stuff. I don't make promises I can't keep.
4. I'm a good cook- you won't be lacking in tasty food.
5. Romantic- I like making romantic gestures and put in the time and effort to make them memorable.
6. Good communication- I'm upfront, honest and direct. No need to play 20 questions or guess what's going on. I know how to talk and I know how to listen.
7. Persistent- I enjoy the ups and work through the downs of a relationship. There's no giving up.
8. Fun- I like planning fun dates, never running out of things to talk about, traveling whenever I can. Let's not get bored.
9. Fiscally Responsible- Excellent credit score, I budget well, I save and keep the debt at bay.
10. Humble- I can and do apologize when I'm in the wrong. I learn from my mistakes.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Let me start off with a friendly disclaimer: I'm an "acquired taste." Meaning what I might consider a perk, might be a deterrent for some... and that's okay! I can't account for poor taste, LOL

With that being said-

I'm fiercely loyal and trustworthy. Meaning once we're in a committed relationship, unless you royally screw up or break up with me, you're stuck with me.
I'm honest... bluntly so.
Drama free.
Easy going and simple to please. Expensive gifts and items don't impress me as much as something thoughtful.
Stubborn and persistent. Now that sounds like a con right? Wrong. Being persistent drives me to accomplish my goals and better myself.
Introverted and a homebody. I'm happy spending a quiet night at home or eating in, than going out all the time.
Frugal with finances (unless it comes to food or fitness).
I love exercise! Meaning I'm going to stay fit and healthy. Need an exercise buddy, someone to motivate you, or someone to spot you? Right here!
I like to eat... LOTS. What? That's a perk! Who doesn't like good food?
Non-clingy. Meaning I'm going to give you your space and me time. Just as long as you respect my need for that as well. You want time to hang out with the guys or play video games? Cool. I got video games to play too; have fun!
Can hold intellectual conversations. If... big IF, it's a topic that piques my interest or I'm knowledgeable of. Otherwise-
I'm mostly a listener. So whatever you tell me, I'm going to pay attention to

And much more!!!

But I'm a limited edition lady that's only available for the right man~

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

* I think I'm funny- guess  it depends on others sense of humor if they agree of not... *loyal to those that are loyal to me * pretty good cook - haven't yet given anyone food poisoning so LOL * No birth control/condoms needed (only applies for committed monogomous relationship) * Hot flashes mean it don't take much to convince me to get undressed 😂 * A sweetheart to those that treat me right...*Will always be upfront and honestA sweetheart to those that treat me right... *Will never cheat on a partner

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I’m not rich but I’m generous - I do not get angry if somebody eats my pop corn chicken when they are hungry or their food is taking too long to cook. I am also forgiving with guys I like, even though I might hold grudges against acquaintances, I’m far more forgiving with people who are close to me and I do not hold previous sins against him. I am relaxing and understanding, I never ask a guy to do things for me if he is tired or sick. I’m also honest and never hurt or injure my men mentally or emotionally and I love to do good things for the guy I like like big birthday parties or photocopying my books so he can read them without paying for them or helping him with things he has to do like scrubbing or carrying groceries etc...

AmandaYVR · Answer

Focus, attention, listening, compassion, good food (and drinks), lots of stimulating conversation about life, art, communication, society, etc. And very affectionate. I like kissing faces as much as I loved kissing my animals' faces. Personal space is not something I abide by, lol.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am an attorney, I am a handyman, I cook, I am a decent landscape guy, I do some vehicle maintenance, I am respected by most of my peers, and I treat my partner like a queen. . . as long as she treats me like a king.

HawkPerception · Answer

Pretty goofy and don't take too much seriously... unless someone's dying or something lol (if that's what she's into)

Brutally honest (if she likes a unfiltered guy and can take both the good and the bad)

I'll cook and clean as much as she does (believe in equality); but she pays her own bill ;) haha

I always respond pretty much right away. The work that I do doesn't require me to ignore messages for hours at a time.

I believe in freedom and communication to build trust. She can chill with whoever she wants as long as she lets me know where she is and what she's doing at all times (whenever she changes locations really). I always let her know where I am at all times out of respect as well.

I'm pretty damn kinky as long as there's nothing going up my bum. BDSM, roleplay, slave play... you name it.

My sex drive is relatively high... not a nymph, but once a day is great for me.

I'm loyal and believe cheaters are scumbags with low emotional intelligence.

I'm adventurous and always up to travel, camp, and see new places (that aren't cities... don't care for cities too much haha)

I'm pretty open about everthing on my mind. I don't have any secrets so she doesn't have to worry about any cloak and dagger.

I love DIY stuff. I'd rather do things myself than hire professionals and save tons of money and be creative with builds on things that I can get away with it like furniture and renovation. If it's something like electrical, I wouldn't be dumb to do it myself though.

Anonymous · Answer

You'll probably be pretty entertained, if your idea of entertainment is more than drinking/doing drugs. I'm an entertainer. I'm funny, sarcastic, and I usually have something funny to say. I can be serious, but I know how to bring in a sense of fun to most things. Studying for five hours? Ok, you need a good break. Or I'll provide you with an awesome music mix.

I know some great pizza restaurants.

I'm a supportive person. I'm going to be supportive with your dreams, as long as I can realistically do that. You want to be a singer and you're good at it? Great, I will try to help you. You want to do murals? Great, I will let you paint the kids rooms or our room, or I will get you huge dry erase boards or canvases. Even though I'm realistic (like... "you may have to have this crappy job until you can save up to quit" or "just be aware that it will probably be a LOT of work..." I still end with... "go for it."), as long as it's doable, I will support your talent. And if I DO think this isn't your skill, I'm not going to make fun of you for it, and I'm not going to crap on your dreams. There's honesty, and there's cruelty. I will probably be pretty honest... but I won't be cruel. And who knows? I could be wrong.

I'm great at saving. While I don't have a LOT of money, I try to be intelligent about it. I don't overuse my credit cards. I don't buy stuff I can't afford. I work hard to get the money. Now, I'm not a penny pincher, and I'm not insane about every nickel and dime, but I'm decent at knowing the value and cost of things (outside of money). If you need counseling, or a gym membership because it keeps you "balanced", I'm going to work to pay for it. It's worth it to you, then we'll work on it because it will help us be better people.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

That makes me sound so arrogant, just like when I posted my online dating profile way back in my 20s

1. great quality woman with high value
2. easy going, adventurous
3. light hearted, playful
4. witty
5 healthy, smart, smart with money
6 understanding, loyal, loving, caring, giving
7. Open minded, friendly,
8. great in the bedroom and outside the bedroom
9. confident
10. I bring good luck to the man in my life
alright enough...

Reasons why the few I dated seriously wanted marriage.

HOAAH · Answer

Perks... Hot curvy body!! Hahaha... Just kidding.

I will save and invest most of the money. My husband calls me too cheap.

I schedule quality time.

I do massages. Neck massages while he drives. My husband loves this.

I do cook. It is simple but healthy.

I do lots of chores!!

I am 100% faithful and i do have an honesty is the best policy.

I take care of everything so he can just work!! Nice huh?

I make good choices! I am considerate and very thoughtful in gift giving and quality time.

I can't think of anything else. My husband loves me so... I guess he would know!! You should ask what are the perks of dating your so.

Paolaa988 · Answer

Im loyal, empathetic, quirky, funny, affectionate, caring person and i love to go on adventures and try new things. I wanna be someones shoulder to lean on, his motivator, best friend, supporter, and soulmate. I wanna make sure his mind, body, and soul is content and happy with me. I wanna please him each and every single day;) dating me is a wild ride because Ill shower you everyday with love and tenderness and i may just take you on some spicy adventures in and outside the bedroom. Im quiet but once you get to know me and take me out of my shell i love to have lots of fun and i wanna grow with someone doing all this.

little_rose · Answer

I'm caring: I never let my partners go through a rough time alone and I always make sure they're happy and fine.

creative and kinky: I'm creative in bed, in relationships and in general. The other day I showed my date website and he was mindblown. I'm also always baking or painting or gardening so most of the time I have something (that I made) to give to the other person.

honest: I always come clean whenever I make mistakes

flexible: I give a lot of space to my partners

I always try to understand people and not judge them and I'm very forgiving/tolerant.

DollAlone · Answer

Im honest and loyal. Im understanding and non judgmental. Im the type that wouldn't bitch about my man and his friends watching football at my house all the time, instead id be wearing a cheerleader outfit (of the rival team of course, just for shits and gigs) and serving them their beers and snack trays in front of the TV. Its better than them being out late at the sports bar all the time with other "waitresses". I am open minded and forgiving. Sometimes too forgiving. I can be submissive or a bitch with control it all depends on the situation. I make my own money so i dont need a mans. I am opinionated which makes for great debates or conversation. I can get along with anyone ages 5 to 500... people love my personality. Plus, im a great cook. Im happy serving my man after he has worked all day whether its for the family around the table or just for me and my man in front of a huge screen TV watching Nascar. It may help that im cute.

PurSeduction · Answer

My perk is simple:

I can ask anyone for a date!

If they agree or not is a different question.

I deny playing any of those "social games" that we kinda get brainwashed with on the internet or any media in general the past years.

I have been single for the past 4 years and the main reason is because I didn't want to engage anything serious.

So looking back at my past self, I would say:

I am able to make almost anyone laugh, feel entertained, or comfortable.

Just being my self: a mix of chaotism, crazyness, spontan, energy driven.

All those aspects wouldn't be any I would want to represent when dating anyone in future. Goals and seriousness have created something different.

Anon621 · Answer

I'm loyal, intelligent, and hard working. I don't make a lot of money, but I still work my heart out since my life depends on it even though I know I'm not rich but I don't need money to change my lifestyle. More money for me equals more investments to make myself better off in the future instead of trying to make money for the moment and also using my resources to full capacity regardless of how much money I have. I'm honest too, I'll admit to anybody face to face or virtually that I'm just not interested in dating right now since I'm trying to figure out who I am and I personally consider it unethical to go into a relationship without a stable self concept.

tdm209 · Answer

-I'm loyal if you behave well and have manner, common sense.
-Not the funniest guy in the room but i can crack some jokes here and there.
-I don't talk much but more of a listener
-I can cook at least 10 different dishes since i work out 5 times a week and into eating healthy food. I can make some junk food for cheat day as well ;)
- Not the richest man in the world but financially stable for a family with 2 children.
- I'm kinda kinky and offer great sex experience according to my last 3 ex girlfriends. They usually cum around 5~6 times on average during a 20 mins session (not including foreplay).

But it doesn't mean i don't have weaknesses.

AiriTakaichi · Answer

> I’m very soft and caring when I wanna be
> I have a nice and dark sense of humour
> Killer music taste
> I’ll make write songs, make art, give special gifts, etc for the special person
> I get worried and check up a lot
> I don’t only want sex like many people do
> I’m very competitive and have similar hobbies to most guys meaning we get along well
> I’m protective and can beat someone’s ass if they mess with the person I love
> I’m sassy
> I put my all into the relationship

Anonymous · Answer

I consider myself caring and filled with tons of love that I'd love to share with someone one day! I'm super into art, music and nerdy stuff, I love learning about the world around me. I really want to find a loving partner that I can share my life with and start a family with one day. I'm a good person to talk to about plenty of stuff so there's always something to talk about. I don't have the best judgment of myself because usually people suck at being able to genuinely see themselves from the side to tell what they really are but I do believe that I'm an overall nice average woman.

whatdoyouwantt · Answer

1. Loyal
2. Honest
3. Direct
4. Funny
5. Very available
6. Down for whatever
7. Want your attention
8. Modest
9. Understanding
10. Kind
11. Trying to help you out
12. I can also get mad if you make me, I don’t let people treat me bad
13. Can be jealous lol I would love a jealous partner myself too cause it’s so sexy, it means he actually cares and is scared to lose me!! (Only jealous people understand this)

MelissaMarie9614 · Answer

I'm loving, affectionate, respectful, supportive, caring, kind, loyal, honest, trustworthy, understanding, patient, creative, hard working, forgiving, and I have a good heart and a good personality. I'll be faithful to my partner. I can bake and cook, I'm really good at it. I love kids and want kids someday. I love to have fun and be adventurous. I like to be outgoing, but sometimes it's nice to stay in once in a while. I guess I can be funny sometimes. I would stay with my partner through the ups and downs no matter what. I will be committed to my future husband one day. I like to make memories with him (as well as with my kids in the future). I'll love him for him and for his personality.

Anonymous · Answer

I have dark/sarkastic jokes/mood

I am very romantic and good with surprising someone i like

My appearance is pretty ok

I am hardworking ( perssimistc and deterministic), i have goals and dreams i want to achieve

I am helpful

I am good at cooking and baking

I am kind to everyone, unless those who provok me in a bad way

I forgive easly, but i don't forget

I am very good with taking care of kids ( so i might be a great wife and mother in the future )

I am not so bad in bed either, so i can please my man.

Anonymous · Answer

1. funny
2. witty/well educated
3. outgoing/well liked/social
4. conventionally attractive and so guys usually like to show me off (without sounding too arrogant)
5. I’m picky with guys so whoever I’m dating it’s because I really like them so I am loyal to a fault. I never date just to date
6. I’m pretty damn good at cooking 💪🏻
7. I am pretty ambitious but also wanna build a future with someone
8. I have a good balance of all interests in life. Like I like to go out and have fun, but I also have many other hobbies and love having deep conversations if people are up for it

Cathy7734 · Answer

I'm a good listener
I'm understanding - I'm able to wear your shoes and understand what you are going through.
I'm not a dependent - I'm a partner
I have a pleasant appearance
I'm the type of person you would want to introduce your parents to.
I'm willing to see a relationship therapist to work things out.

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