What are the PERKS of dating YOU?

Question

Are you funny? Are you loyal? You make a great Lasagne? Let me know below.

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

Since a guy asked this, I'm making it clear I'm only interested in women, but here is the list:

I can cook/prepare just about anything, I also know more than usual about nutrition and how nutrient metabolism effects bodily regeneration and what conditions are required for the food to even do it's job, So I could both give you delicious treats, and make you live longer.

I'm a clean and organized person who won't leave messes around the house.

I'm an illustrator, musician, and writer (artists prefer dating other artists).

I'm in the process of becoming a software developer.

I am the work from home type who doesn't take risky/dangerous jobs, so you won't be up late at night worrying about when or if I will come home.

I hate the smell of perfumes and makeup, and I like the natural look and smell, so no need to waste money or time trying to look or smell different (aside from you know, hygeine stuff).

I plan on building my own custom dream house with built in custom arcade, library, home theater, chef's kitchen, collectables room, terrarium room, bathouse, and several other additions.

I'm really good at difficult video games (anyone else who also is, is going to crave this kind of gaming buddy)

My hobbies are gaming, drawing, composing, studying extinct and extant wildlife and phylogeny, reading reference books, scholarly articles and web comics, watching anime/cartoons, sci fi and fantasy movies, as well as nature and tech documentaries. I also like building model kits of gundams, zoids, and other mechs.

When learning something new, I need very little practice.

I know where the clitoris is and how to get the job done to the point of you squirting multiple times in one go without my hand getting tired.

I have a larger than average penis.

I don't have any infections.

I'm an atheist, and am agnostic until informed about anything I'm unsure of, so I won't be trying to make you drink the koolaid of whatever flavor of unverifiable bs (I either have proof of something, Or I admit I don't know, and this makes a lot of things in life way easier)

I don't have any children, and don't want any for practical reasons, but in the case of accidental pregancy, I am both excellent with kids and will respect both the choice to keep them or have an abortion. (this is obviously a benefit only to those sharing my stance)

I still look like I did at 14 despite being 35, I have zero addictions or bad habits, and will probably outlive most people, so I'm far less likely to leave you widowed than most men.

I'm loyal, kind hearted, loving, considerate, empathetic, patient, logical, generous (within reason), I value wants (not just needs), I'm understanding, and I'm really good at problem solving and go out of my way to do so.

I'm ok with giving a girlfriend/wife constant attention, and you can bug me all you want for any reason, even at work or while I'm sleeping, and even if it's jist typing "psst" over and over to be a fucking goober or waking me out of a sound sleep because you want sex, your stomach hurts, or you had a bad dream.

I'm very laid back, It's really difficult to piss me off, and I'm not violent or argumentative.
I don't start shit for no reason, I don't cheat, I don't lie, I don't pretend to be something I'm not, nor do I pretend to like things I don't, and I don't get mad when proven wrong about something (which is the reason I know as much as I do, I care about evidence, not being right).

jmr2191 · Accepted Answer

1. Loyal- I have never cheated and never will. There is never a worry about me straying elsewhere.
2. I reply to texts promptly and answer phone calls. If I can't, I do so as soon as I'm able.
3. Reliability- I'm consistent and predictable on the important stuff. I don't make promises I can't keep.
4. I'm a good cook- you won't be lacking in tasty food.
5. Romantic- I like making romantic gestures and put in the time and effort to make them memorable.
6. Good communication- I'm upfront, honest and direct. No need to play 20 questions or guess what's going on. I know how to talk and I know how to listen.
7. Persistent- I enjoy the ups and work through the downs of a relationship. There's no giving up.
8. Fun- I like planning fun dates, never running out of things to talk about, traveling whenever I can. Let's not get bored.
9. Fiscally Responsible- Excellent credit score, I budget well, I save and keep the debt at bay.
10. Humble- I can and do apologize when I'm in the wrong. I learn from my mistakes.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Let me start off with a friendly disclaimer: I'm an "acquired taste." Meaning what I might consider a perk, might be a deterrent for some... and that's okay! I can't account for poor taste, LOL

With that being said-

I'm fiercely loyal and trustworthy. Meaning once we're in a committed relationship, unless you royally screw up or break up with me, you're stuck with me.
I'm honest... bluntly so.
Drama free.
Easy going and simple to please. Expensive gifts and items don't impress me as much as something thoughtful.
Stubborn and persistent. Now that sounds like a con right? Wrong. Being persistent drives me to accomplish my goals and better myself.
Introverted and a homebody. I'm happy spending a quiet night at home or eating in, than going out all the time.
Frugal with finances (unless it comes to food or fitness).
I love exercise! Meaning I'm going to stay fit and healthy. Need an exercise buddy, someone to motivate you, or someone to spot you? Right here!
I like to eat... LOTS. What? That's a perk! Who doesn't like good food?
Non-clingy. Meaning I'm going to give you your space and me time. Just as long as you respect my need for that as well. You want time to hang out with the guys or play video games? Cool. I got video games to play too; have fun!
Can hold intellectual conversations. If... big IF, it's a topic that piques my interest or I'm knowledgeable of. Otherwise-
I'm mostly a listener. So whatever you tell me, I'm going to pay attention to

And much more!!!

But I'm a limited edition lady that's only available for the right man~

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

* I think I'm funny- guess  it depends on others sense of humor if they agree of not... *loyal to those that are loyal to me * pretty good cook - haven't yet given anyone food poisoning so LOL * No birth control/condoms needed (only applies for committed monogomous relationship) * Hot flashes mean it don't take much to convince me to get undressed 😂 * A sweetheart to those that treat me right...*Will always be upfront and honestA sweetheart to those that treat me right... *Will never cheat on a partner

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I’m not rich but I’m generous - I do not get angry if somebody eats my pop corn chicken when they are hungry or their food is taking too long to cook. I am also forgiving with guys I like, even though I might hold grudges against acquaintances, I’m far more forgiving with people who are close to me and I do not hold previous sins against him. I am relaxing and understanding, I never ask a guy to do things for me if he is tired or sick. I’m also honest and never hurt or injure my men mentally or emotionally and I love to do good things for the guy I like like big birthday parties or photocopying my books so he can read them without paying for them or helping him with things he has to do like scrubbing or carrying groceries etc...

AmandaYVR · Answer

Focus, attention, listening, compassion, good food (and drinks), lots of stimulating conversation about life, art, communication, society, etc. And very affectionate. I like kissing faces as much as I loved kissing my animals' faces. Personal space is not something I abide by, lol.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am an attorney, I am a handyman, I cook, I am a decent landscape guy, I do some vehicle maintenance, I am respected by most of my peers, and I treat my partner like a queen. . . as long as she treats me like a king.

HawkPerception · Answer

Pretty goofy and don't take too much seriously... unless someone's dying or something lol (if that's what she's into)

Brutally honest (if she likes a unfiltered guy and can take both the good and the bad)

I'll cook and clean as much as she does (believe in equality); but she pays her own bill ;) haha

I always respond pretty much right away. The work that I do doesn't require me to ignore messages for hours at a time.

I believe in freedom and communication to build trust. She can chill with whoever she wants as long as she lets me know where she is and what she's doing at all times (whenever she changes locations really). I always let her know where I am at all times out of respect as well.

I'm pretty damn kinky as long as there's nothing going up my bum. BDSM, roleplay, slave play... you name it.

My sex drive is relatively high... not a nymph, but once a day is great for me.

I'm loyal and believe cheaters are scumbags with low emotional intelligence.

I'm adventurous and always up to travel, camp, and see new places (that aren't cities... don't care for cities too much haha)

I'm pretty open about everthing on my mind. I don't have any secrets so she doesn't have to worry about any cloak and dagger.

I love DIY stuff. I'd rather do things myself than hire professionals and save tons of money and be creative with builds on things that I can get away with it like furniture and renovation. If it's something like electrical, I wouldn't be dumb to do it myself though.

Anonymous · Answer

You'll probably be pretty entertained, if your idea of entertainment is more than drinking/doing drugs. I'm an entertainer. I'm funny, sarcastic, and I usually have something funny to say. I can be serious, but I know how to bring in a sense of fun to most things. Studying for five hours? Ok, you need a good break. Or I'll provide you with an awesome music mix.

I know some great pizza restaurants.

I'm a supportive person. I'm going to be supportive with your dreams, as long as I can realistically do that. You want to be a singer and you're good at it? Great, I will try to help you. You want to do murals? Great, I will let you paint the kids rooms or our room, or I will get you huge dry erase boards or canvases. Even though I'm realistic (like... "you may have to have this crappy job until you can save up to quit" or "just be aware that it will probably be a LOT of work..." I still end with... "go for it."), as long as it's doable, I will support your talent. And if I DO think this isn't your skill, I'm not going to make fun of you for it, and I'm not going to crap on your dreams. There's honesty, and there's cruelty. I will probably be pretty honest... but I won't be cruel. And who knows? I could be wrong.

I'm great at saving. While I don't have a LOT of money, I try to be intelligent about it. I don't overuse my credit cards. I don't buy stuff I can't afford. I work hard to get the money. Now, I'm not a penny pincher, and I'm not insane about every nickel and dime, but I'm decent at knowing the value and cost of things (outside of money). If you need counseling, or a gym membership because it keeps you "balanced", I'm going to work to pay for it. It's worth it to you, then we'll work on it because it will help us be better people.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

That makes me sound so arrogant, just like when I posted my online dating profile way back in my 20s

1. great quality woman with high value
2. easy going, adventurous
3. light hearted, playful
4. witty
5 healthy, smart, smart with money
6 understanding, loyal, loving, caring, giving
7. Open minded, friendly,
8. great in the bedroom and outside the bedroom
9. confident
10. I bring good luck to the man in my life
alright enough...

Reasons why the few I dated seriously wanted marriage.

HOAAH · Answer

Perks... Hot curvy body!! Hahaha... Just kidding.

I will save and invest most of the money. My husband calls me too cheap.

I schedule quality time.

I do massages. Neck massages while he drives. My husband loves this.

I do cook. It is simple but healthy.

I do lots of chores!!

I am 100% faithful and i do have an honesty is the best policy.

I take care of everything so he can just work!! Nice huh?

I make good choices! I am considerate and very thoughtful in gift giving and quality time.

I can't think of anything else. My husband loves me so... I guess he would know!! You should ask what are the perks of dating your so.

Paolaa988 · Answer

Im loyal, empathetic, quirky, funny, affectionate, caring person and i love to go on adventures and try new things. I wanna be someones shoulder to lean on, his motivator, best friend, supporter, and soulmate. I wanna make sure his mind, body, and soul is content and happy with me. I wanna please him each and every single day;) dating me is a wild ride because Ill shower you everyday with love and tenderness and i may just take you on some spicy adventures in and outside the bedroom. Im quiet but once you get to know me and take me out of my shell i love to have lots of fun and i wanna grow with someone doing all this.

little_rose · Answer

I'm caring: I never let my partners go through a rough time alone and I always make sure they're happy and fine.

creative and kinky: I'm creative in bed, in relationships and in general. The other day I showed my date website and he was mindblown. I'm also always baking or painting or gardening so most of the time I have something (that I made) to give to the other person.

honest: I always come clean whenever I make mistakes

flexible: I give a lot of space to my partners

I always try to understand people and not judge them and I'm very forgiving/tolerant.

DollAlone · Answer

Im honest and loyal. Im understanding and non judgmental. Im the type that wouldn't bitch about my man and his friends watching football at my house all the time, instead id be wearing a cheerleader outfit (of the rival team of course, just for shits and gigs) and serving them their beers and snack trays in front of the TV. Its better than them being out late at the sports bar all the time with other "waitresses". I am open minded and forgiving. Sometimes too forgiving. I can be submissive or a bitch with control it all depends on the situation. I make my own money so i dont need a mans. I am opinionated which makes for great debates or conversation. I can get along with anyone ages 5 to 500... people love my personality. Plus, im a great cook. Im happy serving my man after he has worked all day whether its for the family around the table or just for me and my man in front of a huge screen TV watching Nascar. It may help that im cute.

PurSeduction · Answer

My perk is simple:

I can ask anyone for a date!

If they agree or not is a different question.

I deny playing any of those "social games" that we kinda get brainwashed with on the internet or any media in general the past years.

I have been single for the past 4 years and the main reason is because I didn't want to engage anything serious.

So looking back at my past self, I would say:

I am able to make almost anyone laugh, feel entertained, or comfortable.

Just being my self: a mix of chaotism, crazyness, spontan, energy driven.

All those aspects wouldn't be any I would want to represent when dating anyone in future. Goals and seriousness have created something different.

Anon621 · Answer

I'm loyal, intelligent, and hard working. I don't make a lot of money, but I still work my heart out since my life depends on it even though I know I'm not rich but I don't need money to change my lifestyle. More money for me equals more investments to make myself better off in the future instead of trying to make money for the moment and also using my resources to full capacity regardless of how much money I have. I'm honest too, I'll admit to anybody face to face or virtually that I'm just not interested in dating right now since I'm trying to figure out who I am and I personally consider it unethical to go into a relationship without a stable self concept.

tdm209 · Answer

-I'm loyal if you behave well and have manner, common sense.
-Not the funniest guy in the room but i can crack some jokes here and there.
-I don't talk much but more of a listener
-I can cook at least 10 different dishes since i work out 5 times a week and into eating healthy food. I can make some junk food for cheat day as well ;)
- Not the richest man in the world but financially stable for a family with 2 children.
- I'm kinda kinky and offer great sex experience according to my last 3 ex girlfriends. They usually cum around 5~6 times on average during a 20 mins session (not including foreplay).

But it doesn't mean i don't have weaknesses.

AiriTakaichi · Answer

> I’m very soft and caring when I wanna be
> I have a nice and dark sense of humour
> Killer music taste
> I’ll make write songs, make art, give special gifts, etc for the special person
> I get worried and check up a lot
> I don’t only want sex like many people do
> I’m very competitive and have similar hobbies to most guys meaning we get along well
> I’m protective and can beat someone’s ass if they mess with the person I love
> I’m sassy
> I put my all into the relationship

Anonymous · Answer

I consider myself caring and filled with tons of love that I'd love to share with someone one day! I'm super into art, music and nerdy stuff, I love learning about the world around me. I really want to find a loving partner that I can share my life with and start a family with one day. I'm a good person to talk to about plenty of stuff so there's always something to talk about. I don't have the best judgment of myself because usually people suck at being able to genuinely see themselves from the side to tell what they really are but I do believe that I'm an overall nice average woman.

whatdoyouwantt · Answer

1. Loyal
2. Honest
3. Direct
4. Funny
5. Very available
6. Down for whatever
7. Want your attention
8. Modest
9. Understanding
10. Kind
11. Trying to help you out
12. I can also get mad if you make me, I don’t let people treat me bad
13. Can be jealous lol I would love a jealous partner myself too cause it’s so sexy, it means he actually cares and is scared to lose me!! (Only jealous people understand this)

MelissaMarie9614 · Answer

I'm loving, affectionate, respectful, supportive, caring, kind, loyal, honest, trustworthy, understanding, patient, creative, hard working, forgiving, and I have a good heart and a good personality. I'll be faithful to my partner. I can bake and cook, I'm really good at it. I love kids and want kids someday. I love to have fun and be adventurous. I like to be outgoing, but sometimes it's nice to stay in once in a while. I guess I can be funny sometimes. I would stay with my partner through the ups and downs no matter what. I will be committed to my future husband one day. I like to make memories with him (as well as with my kids in the future). I'll love him for him and for his personality.

Anonymous · Answer

I have dark/sarkastic jokes/mood

I am very romantic and good with surprising someone i like

My appearance is pretty ok

I am hardworking ( perssimistc and deterministic), i have goals and dreams i want to achieve

I am helpful

I am good at cooking and baking

I am kind to everyone, unless those who provok me in a bad way

I forgive easly, but i don't forget

I am very good with taking care of kids ( so i might be a great wife and mother in the future )

I am not so bad in bed either, so i can please my man.

Anonymous · Answer

1. funny
2. witty/well educated
3. outgoing/well liked/social
4. conventionally attractive and so guys usually like to show me off (without sounding too arrogant)
5. I’m picky with guys so whoever I’m dating it’s because I really like them so I am loyal to a fault. I never date just to date
6. I’m pretty damn good at cooking 💪🏻
7. I am pretty ambitious but also wanna build a future with someone
8. I have a good balance of all interests in life. Like I like to go out and have fun, but I also have many other hobbies and love having deep conversations if people are up for it

Cathy7734 · Answer

I'm a good listener
I'm understanding - I'm able to wear your shoes and understand what you are going through.
I'm not a dependent - I'm a partner
I have a pleasant appearance
I'm the type of person you would want to introduce your parents to.
I'm willing to see a relationship therapist to work things out.

WolfBaneGal · Answer

I have a fantastic sense of humour, I have no tolerance for cheaters, I am a good cook, I love adventure, exploring and trying new things. Level-headed and easy-going. Charmed more by something practical (e. g. a hammer, grew up with two brothers in a family that bought flipped homes) than a piece of expensive jewelry.

I am highly intelligent but not arrogant. More humble. I prefer to show my skills rather than be some blowhard. I have impressed people in my field with decades worth of experience.

upsettispaghetti · Answer

Hmmm,
- I’m loyal & trustworthy
- You’d probably end up getting spoiled a lot unfortunately since I love doing things for others
- I’m understanding and pretty good at communication
- Gaming buddy !! not a good one but hey, at least you’ll have someone to play with
- I like watching anime and if you do too then we could have little marathons
- I can make pretty good pancakes

Ellie-V · Answer

I’ll change your entire life and mentality. You’re not going to walk out the same as you came in. Honestly, for some, that can be considered a terrible thing. But it makes me laugh. And I believe that change is good. It’s not the narcissistic “fix them” approach that I possess. I just enjoy challenging people. Make them look at themselves differently. Open their eyes.

jgokgotit · Answer

If you date me, you get the following perks:
-Loyalty. Once you get me to open up, my loyalty is never ending.
-Protection. I have military, law enforcement and martial arts training. Someone will have to kill me before they get to you
-Weird sense of humor. I'm not normal so you'll never be bored
- Figure out the rest as you get to know me XD

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

¹Odd sense of humor with a sharp wit
²I can do different character voices so if you want to ever hear your favorite characters ask you to go back home for sexy times, I'm your girl.
³I am a cheap date. Seriously, I eat so slowly and tend to forget it's there that you don't have to get much and I get drunk really fast so not much alcohol needed.
⁴I am kind of a low key nerd and have tons of video/board games and arcade units at my house
⁵I like to cook, just don't ask me to bake.

electromagnetic · Answer

I’m a comedian at heart. Pretty easy going as in it takes a lot to grind my gears. Holistic as much as I can be. I don’t drink or smoke, your mama will definitely love me.
oh, and I have a fat ass.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

1. There’s never a boring day with me. My mind is always thinking and I’m constantly making jokes or doing something silly.

2. I’m the perfect remedy after a long day. I will go and surround my partner with all kinds of things such as their favorite foods, drinks, massage, etc:
Everyone needs a little extra love here and there.

3. Perfect dancing partner in a club/ wedding. I will make us look like the couple everyone strive to be. 🤣

ananias55 · Answer

I'm very, very well off. To the point where I can go just about anywhere and do anything I want. But you'll never know.
I purposely wear old clothes on a first date and gage how the girl acts with my attire.
Granted its old, not torn. If she's can see past that and we connect then we can keep going. If she's easily annoyed and pushes me aside then that's fine as well. Because once girls find out how much I have and how much I make then they change. Every... single... time...
They're nicer, more attentive and more eager to fool around. That's why I don't show off anymore. And why I have to be much more cautious when I'm on a date.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

The main perk of dating me is that you get to actually build a deep relationship. (If that's what you're looking for.). If you're willing to put in the work, we can develop a connection of the heart and the soul.
A lot of men won't give you that, because they simply aren't interested in that type of thing.

Another perk is that I will always be honest with you about where you stand with me (if you ask).

The third perk is that you will always receive good communication from me. I don't ever ghost. If you ask a question, I will answer it. I will also make myself available to you if you simply request a block of my time. (Be specific, though, because I do have a schedule.)

SnuffleMuffins · Answer

I am very loving and affectionate. You'll never feel like you are not desired when with me. The affection I give out will make you feel like you matter and that you're wanted and loved. I also have a great sense of humor, I'm lay back, and usually I'm an open person all around. I'll never get upset or reserved about something. If you pull a prank on me you can expect that I'll laugh... or even better yet I'll get you back. lol. I'm a fun person to be with and you'll never run out of things to talk about because I can keep us talking all night long with thriving conversations and deep talks about interesting ideas that will open up more things for us to talk about. I'm a passionate person and supportive. I will have your back and I will be your personal hyper-upper. I'm creative and like to think outside the box a lot of the time, so you can expected to have fun with me in unexpected ways. Oh, and also I have a high sex drive as well. This will be fun! ;)

NathanDavis · Answer

Hmmm, I will answer it this way.

All of the good and great about me is genuine, so I don't struggle or make an effort to be that. And this can be very reassuring for the ones who have been in relationships with me, there's no pretending within me.

And for the bad things and not so good... they're something I keep on check, I make sure it's under control, and I've been constantly trying to improve. And they're things I do not hide. So this has worked well too for the ones who have been in relationships with me, they get to know what's included on what they're going for with me, so there won't be bad surprises or ugly realizations.

fonduegirl · Answer

- I'm a great listener.
- I can make you feel good about anything.
- I'm fun to be around.
- I'm considerate.
- I've good sex drive. Fairly regular, ig.
- I'm pretty cute.
- I can tutor you if I like the subject.
- We can watch Pixar movies.
- You can read hot scripts I write for free

Daniela1982 · Answer

The girls responding sound like they are filling out a dating site profile. All it takes is to sell yourself to someone who you might be interested in and they seem to know how to do it for the most part.

FreyaRed · Answer

"Are you funny?"  sometimes "Are you loyal?" depends "You make a great Lasagne?" of course

Nidhisaroha · Answer

Hello. I am a good girl. I am a good adviser according to my friends. I like helping a lot so probably I am very helpful. I do get angry easily but only if it's something to piss me off. I am a kind and good student and I am also a sports player. So probably I can have fun with studies too.

Elsa143 · Answer

Loyalty, honesty, ambitious, good cook, adventurous, likes intellectual or any interesting discussions, have a thrill for productive drama but affectionate and emotional at the same time.

BUT IF someone is lying, putting half ass efforts, doesn't love me passionately, doesn't makes me a priority, becomes shady or inconsistent then I show more of my angry and investigating side.
I'm also 90% more likely to walk away.

MCheetah · Answer

Here's my Pros and Cons chart. Although the cons are *pretty* bad, and the pros are very low value. So I'm pretty much undateable. 🤷‍♂️

Bookluvr25 · Answer

Well I have an AA in culinary arts. So good food! I'm also extremely loyal, and I still like to play sports and play laser tag and stuff like that. I really active so I'm really healthy. I have been told that I'm very caring. I believe that you shouldn't have to spend all your time together that some alone time in a relationship is healthy Plus I have books M video games but I don't necessarily want to play with someone else. I love having intellectual conversations. Especially about philosophy. I absolutely love corny jokes and tell them as much as I can so beware of that I guess LOL. I am in no means perfect, but I know who I am I know where I I'm going with my life, and I am happy and content with myself in circumstances.

BUNroaster · Answer

I'm creative. I strive to be more connectively romantic than I see in most relationships. I am loyal and try to be as real as I can. Humor comes and goes with the creative side. Have to be really inspired to do something special that fits the moment. But tbh I also don't know what I'm doing mostly. I have plenty of cons I say socially. Awkward and have slept at parties but not one to give up on being more of a partier type. There's a lot I have to work on.

Everglow5 · Answer

Well, I'm pretty young, but I'm not that funny. I consider myself a smart person, though, at least for my age. Guess I'm too young to know at this point, especially since I've never dated anyone before.

Splatzonelover1 · Answer

1: very loyal
2: understand what is right and what is wrong for a relationship.
3: only been serious relationship.
4: like video games
5:talking about animals and birds
6: direct and honest.
This one could be con or not deponing on the person. I also take relationship very seriously and will not likely to be attracted to another men while being in relationship. I am has a learning disabilities and some limited options because if that with men.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Hmm good question.

im dependable
funny / humorous (although that’s likely open for debate)
I am a great listener.
I am actually a decent cook
i love trying new stuff, often random (can be bad for some)
Conversationalist
oh and if goes far enough, they get to hear me scream in my sleep lol

(there is a longer list as my daughter made me write a load of this shit down lol).

JayLiche · Answer

• • • Pros • • •
• I’ve been told I’m super sweet / Nice
(maybe too nice)

•I love cooking,(Might make it a side profession) •I work almost Daily.

•I’m chivalrous thanks to my mom.

•I love giving gifts, can’t count how many stuffed animals I’ve bought Family members..

•I have OCD so I’m super clean & hygienic..

•I love dressing up & looking nice , but a little addicted to buying clothes

•I’m protective, Dare I say overprotective?

• • • Cons • • •
• I have a tendency to not finish things I’ve started

• A little insecure & Put myself down a lot
(It’s getting better)

• I’m not very good with kids, they seem to not understand I’m an adult & not a child..

• I have a hard time saying no

• I get attracted easily

• I can keep a conversation going...
with guys or women I’m super comfortable with but with women I like, I run out of things to say.

BADballie1 · Answer

Ladies' men are simple creatures, they just want to have good sex with the woman in their life. Keep stirring him up until no more erection. He will stay as loyal as can be to provide him with enough sex. He will work hard to buy you beautiful things. Postpone children as long as possible, they are passion breakers of note. A man is a selfish thing as far as sex goes. They want it all the time, look after yourself and force him to look after himself as well. I have always had beautiful women in my arms, it is quite a buzz when everybody looks at the 2 of you, and men usually say struck the honey pot.

zed-789 · Answer

U might end up in my bed or u might end up in jail. Either way I’m interesting enough in person that ur not going to work the next day.

eagleriverjohn · Answer

I won't ever cheat, I like to discuss random facts that I remember, I can cook and like to do so, I try to help with anything whenever I can, I have a decent sense of humor (though it can be a bit dry), I can be very affectionate, and I'm not bad looking (I'd say I'm about average in terms of looks). Those are the main ones I can think of at the moment.

Lanabear119 · Answer

Well I can’t say for certain, but here are some things I would consider perks of being with me;

- I’d keep you mentally grounded
- I’m practical and realistic
- I’m very honest
- I am good at controlling my emotions
- I can take a joke (I’m not sensitive)
- I’m usually very chill and calm
- I’m not the attitude type. So I won’t be bratty or immature.

- I’m clever and sly, but I admit those may only be perks to some

IronLady6354 · Answer

I guess that depends on who you talk to. A couple of my exes might say there isn't an upside. Haha. However, the man I'm married to now (whom I have a very good relationship with) would say I'm funny, supportive, make him feel safe (emotionally), loving, and am pretty good in bed.

Avicenna · Answer

She’ll travel to some interesting places
She won’t have to cook ( I cook well)
She’ll have great companionship and a loyal partner
She’ll get interesting conversation and food for thought
She’ll get a lot of love and affection and also encouragement

Hanrej · Answer

Well, let's see.
I have a son and feel done with children so a woman won't have to feel pressured about more children.

I work a job I'm happy with and make a decent above average wage.

I cook well and do other housework chores.

I go to the gym frequently if not regularly.

I'm into cuckolding so I would just encourage my girl to be social and find in others whatever simulation I can't or won't give.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I’m pretty funny
Loyal to a fault
A mix of routine and random spontaneity
Passionate
Very loving and affectionate
Compassionate
Honest
Communicate well
Laid back
Easy to please
I make an effort to not be confrontational or argumentative
I apologize and take responsibility if I fuck up
I've been a martial artist and fighter
Artistic and poetic

imGirliNterrupTEd · Answer

Perks of dating me:

• I can cook. My family are known to be professional chefs, like Three Michelin Chef.

• I am Loyal, Loving and Caring

• I can drive ( also stick shift )

• I am also trained in Target shooting and Self Defense I got your 6 at all times. 😊

CaliDad · Answer

I'm conceited, arrogant, and selfish. The perks are being with a highly intelligent, intuitive and driven dominant man. It's a tall order, and most people can't keep up. If I'm talking political theory and you're playing with Legos it probably won't work...

DizzyDesii · Answer

Faithful, Goofy, Dirty sense of Humor, Great Smile, Loving, Romantic, Passionate, Seductive, Will stick around even if you're broke lmao, Will make you cum when in need, Will make time for you as long as its not time for my tv shows (7p-10p) 🤣

NotARobberYet · Answer

That's up to my girls to decide! Lmfao

But I've heard that they all say to their friends that I'm really hot and good in bed. I feel sad that they don't even talk too much about my takent in cuisine. 😕

According to them, the "unperk" of dating me is that I show an attitude sometimes...

Wintergrace · Answer

Well, my boyfriend usually compliments me on my cooking and baking skills, my kindness, and ability to find thoughtful gifts. Also, I am a very loyal person.

Screenwriter · Answer

Sure. I'm funny, loyal, good at conversation, like adventure, the outdoors, travel. What's not to love.

AdithyaR · Answer

I've got many hobbies that you try out and join me in.
I cook really well and I love feeding people.
I'm a writer so expect love letter randomly.
I'm not afraid of looking silly so I'm always up for new experiences.
I'm extremely loyal.

But I've got a couple cons too
I'm not someone who puts a lot of effort into fashion. I dress clean and smart but I'm not one too follow fashion trends.
I don't like cuddling while sleeping.

Likes2drive · Answer

I’m easy going, have a great sense of humor, always in a good mood, very loyal and usually compromise on most things. I’m mr fix it with most things in the house and cars , and likes to travel. I probably talk to much at times so I obviously can hold a conversation too

blondfrog · Answer

I won't slip off here on GAG and ask questions on here about why my "girlfriend did this or if she does this what does it mean even for the smallest of things". Instead of discussing them with my actual partner in real life like how normal people should.

What are the PERKS of dating YOU?

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