This message is for increasing experience in improving relationships and has an educational aspect, dear girls, please do not hesitate to answer.
Not every girl has the same answers.
For me, I'm looking for:
* Make-or-Break things: political alignment (I'm non-American but I still won't date current conservatives out of self-respect), occupation (must have a job they support themselves with), childfree status (I am, they must be too - I also tell them I'm sterilized), and weed friendlyness.
* Humour - do we get each other's jokes
* Common interests - how much do we share and could we feasibly do one or two things together regularly?
* Do I like you?
Some other things I'm gonna try on my next first date:
* Touch - how do they do? My last ex was very not touchy, I am, and discovered it's much more important to me that they be touchy than I expected.
* Smarts - I like to play board games. I like to be a smidge competitive. I'll test how they are, because I would enjoy (I think) someone capable of being competitive yet compassionate to others' fun.
* Smoke - I am a regular stoner, and have greatly enjoyed dating another. I want to try having a hike and toke date. I want to know what they're like high - could we be fun, or are they gonna harsh my vibe?
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When I went on my first date with my now boyfriend I was just so happy to be present and be with him. I didn’t expect anything, I was just happy to be near him. We went to a buffet so I ate good food and then we went for a walk and held hands and I couldn’t even believe a boy would like me. It was so nice.
One thing girls observe (among many) is how you treat others. Are you polite to the person serving food at a restaurant? Are you kind in an unexpected situation? Are you observant of those around you? Many times girls have gotten to know you one on one leading up to a date but now they want to see how you interact with your environment.
They pay attention to whether or not you are really listening to them.
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