What is the worst trait a person could have?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Disloyal

Selfish

Cruel

Indifferent

Dishonest

Uncontrolled

Cowardice

[DizzyDesii]

Cruelty is the worse for me. It changes how I look at a person altogether. I’d begin to question if they do anything out of generosity or if they just wanna see others in misery. The lack of control is also quite concerning because they seem unstable. —Sometimes its okay to be selfish. Sometimes we are dishonest with good reason. We all have moments of fear and cowardice. I dont expect anyone to be loyal. And thats not even trust issues. I can trust you and still not expect total loyalty and dedication because why should we owe others that? Mmm nah. Be faithful in a relationship, yes. But have undying loyalty for family, friends, and significant others? Mmm nah.

[Siri137]

Cruelty is the worst, although the others aren't good either. Disloyalty and dishonesty are almost as bad.

[BCA6010]

Dishonesty and disloyalty pretty much go hand-in-hand, and both of those are acts of selfishness. I picked dishonesty because it's implicit that you don't recognize it until the damage is done, while the rest of these are traits that can be recognized on the spot, and it's much easier to deal with someone when you know who they really are.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Apathy is the opposite of Love

there is moral, immoral and amoral

indifference is aware of right and wrong but does not care either way

in order for us to do anything we need to care just a little bit

indifference is the worst it’s actually inhumane

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Being cruel is absolutely disgusting, but a dishonest person is the worst.

People that are deceptive can lead to them luring their victims into cruelty.

It's far better to know the devil you know upfront than a devil posing as an angel.

[lolasmayona]

When someone treats someone else disrespectfully and then is suddenly offended when that person treats them the exact same way. It’s like someone slaps you and when you slap them back, they get mad

[blueonblack22]

Well you just perfectly described radical feminists.

[nastyb]

@blueonblack22

it describes most of the misogynists on here. they can dish things out but can't take it

[blueonblack22]

@nastyb there is a difference between arguing to BE right vs. arguing to figure out WHAT is right.

[nastyb]

@blueonblack22

No. Its the ability to criticize women. But they throw tantrums when anyone criticize men

[blueonblack22]

@nastyb when I debate with women I often (not always but often) find they mix emotion with logic. For example I can criticize a personality quirk, physical issue someone can improve (e. g. being overweight), fallacious ideology, etc. yet not mean it as a personal insult/diatribe.

I too can take constructive criticism or engage in a fair debate over ideologies/political debates without taking it as an insult. But the moment someone starts throwing out names/labels I shut down. I never open a debate with insults either.

I do have one picture perfect example of how women generally handle debate/criticism much worse than men do. It’s about political ideology and what really matters. But I hesitate to give the example because I wonder how you would take it.

[nastyb]

@blueonblack22

you don't debate women. you just look to excuses to shit on others. then when someone shits on you, you start throwing a tantrum.

nobody who is fair would dedicate his life to bullying women over the internet.

[blueonblack22]

@nastyb your response just proved me exactly right and you are just too stupid to realize it. But you know what the best of luck.

[nastyb]

anyone that intentionally harms other people without a conscience.

and often times such people come off as nice friendly and considerate.

the sickest people i've ever met had the best disguises.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Wise for your age. 🙌

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Hyper-feminine and compassionate. The difference to me is that a masculine compassionate person gives money out of their own pocket to homeless people. Hyper-feminine types don't and demand someone else gives them money.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

So to me, being feminine is the worst thing a person can ever be. They scream for help when a building is on fire without helping anyone to the exit. They just expect everyone else, usually men, to come to save the day. Feminine people suck.

[Andres77]

Anyone that actively seeks to do harm to others, that’s a despicable person then I want nothing to do with

[Malwi93]

Yeah that includes gaslighting people

[Malwi93]

Or manipulating

[Pyrofox]

To me it would be cowardice I dump people like a hot potato if they can't be 100% honest with me even if it hurts.

[Anonymous]

A person who is disloyal is, in a way, cruel. I can get over someone whom I think is a big cruella from the beginning, but I simply cannot tolerate unfaithful people.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Cruel slightly over disloyal. Cruel is blowing someones brains out without giving any remorse. Disloyalty, while I consider not a trait could lead someone to unleash their cruel.

[KostasKouvalis]

Victim mentality. To the point where they lie and make false allegations against others, just to get people to side with them

[AngryCarl2]

Cruelty, disloyalty and dishonesty, in that order. If you're a coward there's not much you can do about it.

[Nikki1989]

Heartlessness, rudeness, et cetera.

[johnsmith1985]

I don't think there is anyone who can accept even one of these options from her/his other side, even in a friendly relationship.
All of them are unacceptable and unfavorable.

[clampfan101]

Disloyal because it’s multiple other options combined.

[zagor]

Wow, just about everything on this list describes our last President...

[AngryCarl2]

Yes but he's also vindictive, which isn't on the list.

[boobliker]

breaking promises, eg I do it later and they never do

[kakaling]

A dishonest person lies to himself and pick the wrong option in the poll.

[Grimraed]

in my opinion selfishness leads to cruelty. How can someone be cruel unless they are selfish.

[whereismyjohnny]

All of these are really bad traits.

[gothbxtch]

i would say cruelty.

[Aphrodite01]

All the above but cruelty is by far the worst.