I feel like I need to do something different to meet someone, but not sure what?

[Anonymous]

I mean I was 30 when the pandemic started, and now that number is 4 higher... I'm really starting to get concerned. I don't want to wake up in another 3 years and still be alone, and I don't know what I need to do.

[EricSummer]

Start activities that women also like. A course in pair dancing is a classic. You can also join a runners' club, go hiking or play badminton.
I enjoy language exchanges which are meetings in a pub in which we simply chat in different languages.

If you are religious, your community may have activities. They are known to nudge their members a bit for great matchmaking.

If none of this helps, you likely lack skills at pleasant conversation. There are courses for that, too.

[Asker]

I mean, I’m not doing everything that I should be doing to maximize my opportunity. So yeah need to get out more

[provokeesmokee]

Lmao, based on your replies you need to do EVERYTHING different, bruh.

Start by seeing a therapist and talking about how you feel. Talk to your friends if you feel safe with them, even.

You gotta get social and make connections if you want a girlfriend.

[jennifer_bloom]

I'm single too and the way I see it, is I invest in my career, cause if I have money and power, then I can find friends and dates very easily but most important, I have a back up plan if a guy dumps me or divorces me after years of marriage.

[far2gud4u]

It isn't about finding a relationship, it's about finding the right relationship.
Put yourself out there, be social and you never know when you will meet the right one!
I was in a sauna when I met my forever guy... sweaty and looking horrendous and for him was love at first sight (weirdo lol) but he saw me at my worst and still adored me... It will happen but you need to be open to new experiences...

[Asker]

Well, it looks like your someone who doesn’t like me, so I don’t really value your opinion. Not sure what I did to you, but apparently something.

[far2gud4u]

How do you work that out? I never said anything bad about you?

[Anonymous]

yeah. we all get stuck sometimes. not sure what to tell you, because i'm also stuck. i'm taken, but i'm still stuck... no marriage, no kid, no house... everything fucking sucks, man.

[Asker]

Why are you stuck then. ?

[Opinion Owner]

have you seen how much stuff costs?

[Asker]

I mean, I don’t even have a person so there’s that. Other stuff can be done in a different way. I mean I could afford to pay for my own wedding. But I don’t have any people to invite so I don’t want anything big

[Anonymous]

Have patience. Get help from your family and friends. Ask them to search, maybe through them you will meet someone. Go to events and make friends. Try dating apps.

[itsalyssaagain]

I feel like a lot more people meet online nowadays. Especially post pandemic.