Girls, Would you marry a man that wants a prenup 📝?

[Anonymous]

He also puts all his assets in a trust. He doesn’t like to own anything in his personal name.

(This means you’ll never be able to get financial leverage over him in a divorce).

I would still marry him if I like him

No I wouldn’t marry him

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[Anonymous]

Absolutely not and any woman who does is either dumb and naive, richer than him or in her masculine go getter energy who will make your life a living hell if you expect any sort of femininity in your wife. So, if you want to marry a dumb and naive woman that you can manipulate - yes, suggest this, it’s great at finding those women, and contemplate what kind of person you are if you’re only comfortable marrying someone stupid and clueless who’ll believe anything you say. If you want to marry a richer woman than you who’ll eventually divorce you because she has no respect for you or feel better than you then go ahead or if you want to marry a masculine career woman who nags about everything then also go ahead and be prepared to do exactly 50% of everything at home and with the children - that is if you’ll have any, or have all hell break lose because she did 1 more load of laundry than you did this week. And you’ll hear about it until the day one of you dies or leaves.

A sane person with good values will never sign or suggest a prenup. The marriage is supposed to last forever and a prenup not be needed. The option of divorce shouldn’t be a thing. If you get married then that’s it, you both work to make it work. If it happens anyway for some reason then the lack of prenup is to protect the financially weaker part of the marriage and prevent one of you from being thrown broke on the streets. If that’s what you want for your wife after she’s spent her fertile years on you, maybe cleaning up your shit and sacrificing her body and income carrying and raising your children, then what kind of person does that make you? Certainly not someone who should ever get married, or even be in a relationship at all to be honest. Instead of being pranoid about women being after your money (they’re not unless you’re super rich and they know about it, even then it’s perfectly possible to find women who want you for you) focus on finding a good woman. Good meaning her having good and strong values, honest and respectful behavior and a personality that makes her pleasant to be around. Her having people (family, friends and coworkers if she work) around her that values marriage, family, faithfullness, honesty and loyalty and who preferably are married or in longterm stable relationships themselves is a big plus as we are influnced by people around us and the whole ”show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are” thing. A feminazi who hates men and declare everything toxic masculinity or mysogynistic and marriage and kids as going backwards won’t exactly be encouraging your wife to stay and solve things in a mature way when you’re having a though time in your marriage. A wild party girl who likes to get drunk and sleep around and cheat won’t be encouraging your wife to be a responsible loyal wife who should focus on the family. A shallow status seeking person who spends more time on looks, plastic surgeries, makeup or social media than anything else won’t encourage your wife to be a down to earth person who’s happy with the simple and small things in life. And so on.

[Asker]

I’d prefer to get nagged than have my hard work destroyed. I’d prefer to get nagged than be constantly worried about the future and whether she’ll hate me one day for m reason..

I’ve got money so we have a maid that comes.

[Asker]

I think the bigger question is why men are only loved for their money.

Why is it wrong for men to want to be sovereign individuals but fine for women? Why do women always want to corner us and put us in vulnerable hands to control us perhaps?

[WonderBell99]

I’d prefer a prenup. I’d like a contract that protects both our assets. I wouldn’t merge our finances either. 3 accounts should be fine - one for me, one for him and one should be joint (which has both our savings and we use it for running the household, paying the mortgage, planning holidays etc). My mom always tells me that I should be smart with my money and earn everything myself.

[Anonymous]

No not if he doesn’t own it himself. If he own it himself then yes, sure I’d sign it. On the condition that he’s willing to also put in the prenup that if he ever cheats (and that doesn only mean having sex with someone else it also included things like for example flirting with someone online or setting up dating profile), becomes abusive (emotionally or physically), leaves me or tries to kill me then I get EVERYTHING and if he kills me then my family gets everything and if he kills my whole family then a charity that I have chosen gets everything. Then yeah, I’d marry him with a prenup.

[Reaadss]

You are a big red flag. You’re just trying to get leverage over a man. Women lie about abuse all the time.

He’s not going to sign that.

Die alone bitch. You clearly just want to destroy a man

[e232bm]

Why are you automatically thinking about what you get if you get divorced? It’s his money and if he wants you to sign a prenup I think yeah you should.

[Wild_princess]

Well yeah why not my money is my money, his money is his... i don't have any problem with this

[Nikki1989]

No, I will ASK HIM for a prenup It works both ways you know.

[Anonymous]

Yes I would. Tbh I think it's a good idea for guys to require a prenup these days.