Girls, would you sign a prenup with a guy if you were planning to get married?

[Anonymous]

Personally, I want to get a prenup because i don't trust women nowadays of what she will do in the future, i've always wanted to be one step ahead because i think women focus solely on money and i have a few million dollars under my name.

[Bethany22]

I don't think it's fair to take a guy's money just because he broke my heart. My heart would still be broken even if the courts forced him to give me money. Therefore, I would sign the prenup. Even if I hadn't been working all that time and had no money to start out with afterwards, I'd probably just make sure I had a job lined up first before divorcing. I would choose a job that didn't require much mental ability, so that I could have space in my head to grieve for my loss of my best friend for a little while.

[Altheavas]

I will sign it, but I ’ll have to ask my attorney to review it first. Not every mate is about love, we might be together because of certain social and financial advantages. I better make sure I’m not gonna be screwed over. Still husband and wife, or the main bread winner is obligated to provide and give a weekly/monthly allowance. Whatever the Union is based on there is still possibilities of children, planned and unplanned, no birth control is 100% effective lol. Being secured, double secured and supper secured, is also fair, for self, potential children, and new and old assets get different regulations within the marriage, so!. Not gonna cut myself short and signed blindly. You’re a businessman/woman if asked the partner to sign prenup/contract before marriage, you better be ready that I (hypothetically partner here), agreement will also have a business approach to it.

[jennifer_bloom]

I would sign a partial prenup - meaning I don’t get 50% of his wealth, but if I’m too sick to work, I get enough for food and shelter.

[AlexisTerror]

I'd be a bit sad about it, it'd just feel bad so yeah.

It's complicated, but yeah I'd guess it'd be what it is.

It'd be great if the pre-nup was pretty good, like least 100k to a max of a few 100k, prob make you feel more loved/safe/valuable/precious/etc.

This is usually a good part of your core self, your sense of self worth.

But I totally get this also, a guy shouldn't be totally bankrupt cause he broke up with you, or even lose a lot of his money.

I'd pretty much just do no cash settlements with poor men as they got it hard enough, and just a little if some rich guy is just hoarding it anyway.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would. He would have to be okay with me putting my career at the forefront of my priorities, though, same as he does. In the event that our partnership ends.. I can’t have wasted my time and energy only pouring into him achieving his career goals, ending up desolate. I think both partners bring certain assets to the table and it’s okay to acknowledge them for what they are. Men traditionally bring resources of sort and women traditionally, the ability to provide children and home. If I provide my time and energy to care for our home and our children, he needs to make sure I’m financially able to recover if we were to split. I don’t need half of all his stuff for that recovery but I would need something to get on my feet. I’d basically be willing to do right by him, and sign an agreement to that, as long as he would do the same by me.

[Asker]

if he was a multi millionaire making good money off stocks and investments and lets say you had 4 kids and you separated him due to indifferences in the marriage and he provided you i don't know, and his solution is give her a few million dollars while he is still making good money, be honest would you be the type to say no i want more money or be fine with a few million.

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn’t need a million dollars to recover financially. Not even close lol. No one needs that amount of money. just wouldn’t want to end up homeless or something, because I would have been out of work for possibly a long time.. providing a home for him and the kids. As long as he kept looking out for our children, I personally, would need just enough to get back on my feet. You know what I mean? I prefer not to owe anyone. So taking half of all his assets wouldn’t be fair and I would feel I owe him in that case, I don’t want that. I’d need him to do the right thing by me as I would him.

[Anonymous]

In my opinion prenup is planning for it not to work out... I find it offensive to do a prenuptial because I see it as the partner expecting or planning on it not working so in my opinion if that is how they view the relationship then we definitely shouldn't be married. I've never had a prenup and never will. I have no desire to take someone else's stuff including money. Heck in my divorce from a previous spouse I signed over everything even stuff I had before marriage and being together. He got the house I paid off, the vehicles I paid off, and the fun toys I paid off, I left with the 1 vehicle that was still on payments, my dog, and whatever I could get to fit in my little vehicle.

[SolsticeSnow]

Then don't get married.

Listen to what you've just said:

You don't trust women

You think women only care about money (if that's soo... then why wpuld you marry someone who doesn't care about you?).

You always want to be one step ahead. (Umm it's a partnership, not a competition).

And the use of 'women' as if we're a homogeneous species who are all the same.

Face it - you do not like women.

So don't marry us.

Thank you.

[Simslover92]

I would happily sign one. I'm not with my guy for his money but for who he is.

[Anonymous]

For me, it depends on the type of dynamic you want in the marriage. If you want me to continue working, then it’s not a problem. But if you want me to become a stay at home, where I am financially dependent on you, I would not want to sign.

[Anonymous]

I just simply wouldn’t get married. I’m not marrying a selfish clown, an undesirable one to top it all off. 😆😆😆😆 what kind of joke is that?

[Asker]

How is that a selfish clown? What guarantee is it that you will stay with the guy? a lot of girls nowadays 1) don't know what they want, 2) a lot of girls after a few years of marriage want to get a divorce and find someone else. If you think its such a joke why would GAG select my question as great and post it for others to respond to. I think women think its okay to destroy a man's world financially and maybe you are young and ignorant which it seems like you are. The court systems will favour a woman over a man even if she cheated and makes false allegations he cheated just to divorce him and get half or more than half. End of the day, it's smart thinking. Why is it that women or girls think its okay to test a guy or man for months just to finally agree to be with him. Are girls that broken they can't tell who's a liar and who's authentic but just label all guys as all bad because that's the stigma a lot of broken girls in the modern era act and face today.

[Opinion Owner]

Women divorce men, because men are the cheaters.

Men have a higher sex drive and are the main consumer of porn. This means men are cheating. Or are the 10x likely to cheat.

Therefore women should take the animals profit for making us ladies look stupid af.

Or keep your Pennie’s. Keep your paper and die a virgin. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ which is what majority of men deserve anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ that shit DNA DONT deserve to be passed down 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

So you’re going to give a blanket statement and act like women don’t cheat? I have never cheated before and why would I would rather be loyal and faithful.

[Opinion Owner]

Women that deal with undesirables / ugly / weak / average.

Those women cheat. If my man makes my walls wet just by his presence, he’s not getting cheated on.

If you have money and women date you for your money. They’ll cheat on you. Because they’re not attracted to you

[Anonymous]

absolutely. he's fucking awful with money. my money is my money. his money is his. i don't need his and he absolutely shouldn't get mine.

[sheikalana]

Been there done that and I believe it was a good decision.

[Minahh]

Yes. It's a smart choice. Especially if you own properties before getting married.

[Nikki1989]

You know prenups are easily broken, right?

[Asker]

you can't if there is a full detailed description legally concerning health, sexual affairs, everything, when I say detailed I mean it, signed by lawyers and myself and her.

[Anonymous]

If you don't trust her, then why are you marrying her?

[Apple1996]

Nah I ain't about that

[Brandi555]

No. Because he’s planning on it not working then.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't mind.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'll sign it.

[Asker]

Why are some girls or women cool with it while others aren’t? And the thing with me is if we did divorce under circumstances where it was my fault I would give her financial support especially if kids are involved.

[Asker]

@Sasha0426 I don’t have a divorce plan ready but a girl would have to assure me she’s loyal, will be there through thick and thin, that’s a marriage. Men can love a woman unconditionally while a woman may love a guy or man conditionally.

[Asker]

@Sasha0426 reported.

[Sasha0426]

@Asker You only reported me because I called you out on your lie 😂

[Sasha0426]

@Asker For real, dude. I’ve seen lies better than that. Do better next time 😂

[Ms_Facesitter]

Because some look at it differently.
Emmy calls it selfish, but has yet to address that point and just called you men cheaters.

I'll sign it because I want a partner for life and after signing that prenup, nothing really changes. We're both just more protected if things still for some reason don't work out.

[helva]

I would

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Opinion Owner]

I answered your question.

[Tigerress]

Yeah it's fair