Does it bother you that your partner's is friends with her / his ex?

[Anonymous]

Do you trust your partner's ex?

[EricSummer]

It's ok for me. I trust my girlfriend. She is completely loyal, and she did not cheat on this ex, either, at the time they were together.

I would not really trust him, but that's irrelevant, of course. I mea, I trust he's not a rapist or anything. He would likely still want to have sex with her, but he can't.

[Enlightenme21]

This depends person to person. What others feel or do doesn't dictate the relationship you want and what affects your security and vulnerability.

If its something you do not want its something you communicate with your partner and find out if its something you can respect or something you feel is not something you can be okay with.

Never just deal with it. Respect your boundaries and understand your feelings may not change what your partner decides to do about how you feel.

[Pinay_ako]

yes it would. Lemme call my ex so we all can hang out as friends 🙄

[glennos89]

The real question is...

Do you thrust your partner enough to know that nothing will happen between them?

It really shouldn't mather wether you thrust your partners ex or not. If you thrust your partners loyalty, then you know you have nothing to fear from the ex

[MannMitAntworten]

It is odd to me if they are. Done is done in my world. No ex of mine and me keep in touch let alone call one another, “friends”. Simply put, I would not invest in someone who keeps their exes around. Too often I have heard of such friends scratching each other’s itch even while involved with another. Definitely a no for me.

[NathanDavis]

been there, done that for years... they were friends with an ex, and so was I... and it was never ever any kind of problem

friendships are just friendships, that's my own experience, though

[provokeesmokee]

I'm queer, most of us are friends with our exes.

As long as they're both mature adults about it, it's fine.

[EmmaMary]

Both my husband and I are still on good speaking terms and friends with our ex's, and in fact have attended some of each other's weddings.

[Anonymous]

My husband's ex was a proffessional model, miss America contestant, has a masters in biology, is a former college field athlete who nearly went to the Olympics, comes from money and is 6ft tall. Meanwhile I'm 4ft6 and mone of those other things

[Spade_01]

I'm convinced that can't be friends with their ex so I won't be with anyone who's still in touch with their ex.

[dudeinohio]

My fiancees exes live out of town and are in relationships. She communicates with. them periodically, but doesn't consider them friends. I'm ok with their arrangement.

[TacosRAwesome]

I'm not bothered if it's a casual friendship where they wish each other happy holidays and maybe occasionslly help one another with something.

[exitseven]

It would definitely bother me especially if they had sex before.

[Nikki1989]

No, not at all. We have socialized with our exes many times.

[SolitarySolace]

It would bother me immensely yes.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, that would definitely bother me.

[KrakenAttackin]

Who would tolerate this?

[Hazelxoxx]

yesssss ;(

[In_Trance]

dealbreaker