Why do some men like to wait until they’re established to date seriously? (Page 2)
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more often now, women dont want to wait as he builds up but instead want him to already have it. which is a part of why some say they want the wife title without putting in the work to earn it. which in turn is a part of why more men dont take women as seriously anymore.
I’m doing that right now. I know I have the ability to make any girl feel special, and I even broke some hearts. But how can I make any girl happy, if I’m not happy? I want to make it so I have baggage. I want the girl I meet to know I did everything to make myself better for them, so they can enjoy the best life possible.😭
Don’t have baggage*
A lot of men realize that they have nothing to offer except money, and will not be able to attract the women they want without that money. I'm not saying that is true for all men, but it is certainly true for men with that mentality.
Because a lot of guys feel like they don't get taken seriously by the woman if they're not established. So putting a lot of effort into dating when nothing is going to come back is a big waste.
Dating seriously means potential marriage and kids, starting a family and being able to provide a decent lifestyle cost a good amount of money.
Last thing a man needs is to be struggling financially to try to support a family unit.
Women are fertile, one encounter and boom twins and you can't take care of kids or the woman without financial support, you see I like such men. Get into serious relationship when you are fully ready
Since relationships seem to be short lived today I would probably do the same thing. Why help someone in their quest today when he could be out of your life tomorrow?
Because they don't believe they can get the girl they actually want as they currently are. Also, they want to be fully ready for everything like kids. Mostly the first part though.
Well, just like myself, I would want to be stable and you here all the time these women go after these men because they don’t have money and all of this well, once they’re establish, that’s that it is attractive. This is what my cousin has told me.
I don’t want someone to commit to me unless we have a plan for success. If I’m going to provide, I want to make sure I can make that happen. If she wants to provide…… I haven’t met someone yet who would consider weighing that option with me.
Because I want to be able to support my end of the relationship and give her the best experience I can't do that living in my parents place and being broke.
I would think that it's because those men don't believe they have anything serious to offer until they themselves feel secure
They want to be their best self, or closer to it. They can delay gratification. They don't want to deal with a woman constantly telling him to do better when he already has a plan to do better (which doesn't involve nagging.)
Nature and evolution designed men to provide and protect. And that is what attracts women (womens' natural instinct). So a man feels he can be more attractive to women once he establishes a career and has some money.
Every woman wants to be a noble.
No woman wants to earn the merits befitting of nobility.
In other words they want to win the game without actually playing. It’s up to us play the game so the women can enjoy the victory.
most mothers in this country work full time jobs. just saying... the notion of a single "breadwinner" is long gone
Conservative women still exist?
@Fuentes
its more of the fact that most men dont make enough money to support their families anymore. 100k doesn't stretch as far as it used to
Most men should not be making families or getting married if they can't afford it in this Biden Clown world economy.
@Fuentes
its only gonna get worse. things are only going to become more expensive in the future.
I blame the liberals and stupid Biden supporters all of them
@Fuentes
it has nothing to do with liberals. people work cuz they don't want their kids to suffer.
They vote in retards into office to destroy the US. Liberals are the reason people have to work so HARD today because Buden is destroying America.
Biden**
@Fuentes
voting has nothing to do with it. it all has to do with economics. wages aren't keeping up pace with costs.
So throwing billions to Ukraine while Americans are broke is due too?
@Fuentes
same as borrowing money from other countries to pay for medicare
I don't think we ever threw billions at another country in one year passed our own military budget lol infact nit even our largest full scale war beat this budget lol yet we're already passed it in one year, the US is going bankrupt no matter what now and that is all LIBERALSA FAULT FOR VOTING in that old dumb bag of bones Joe.
@Fuentes I dont think voting makes any difference, just a distraction. Just like elon musk's neuralink is a distraction when they can just make you inhale the nano particles, why need any hard implants?
"They live"... and it's not about voting.
@RoosterBreast but is it not the liberals fault The IS is broke down like this?
@Fuentes
military budget is not even the core problem. we have been in a budget deficit even prior to the Ukraine war. we were trillions in debt before biden
So food was high before Biden? Gas Prices were high before Biden? Homelessness was high before Biden? No it wasn't. Take a look at today's Bidens America he fucked it all up.
@Fuentes
of course prices were high before biden. prices increased during covid before biden was president
Um no, Gas prices were not high during covid before Biden lol huh? I didn't start paying 6 dollars a gallon until Biden came into office, where were you sleeping?
@Fuentes
it was covid that made things more expensive. increases in prices for most things came from the trump presidency. this is not our first time where our government talked about going bankrupt either. this happened in all other presidencies too.
Nah not this bad, this time we're going into the great depression, not even Bush's Era were we this bad off. The whole thing is Biden and liberals fault, and if your a liberal it's on you as well. For voting that way.
Because its expected of us. Especially now considering 80 percent of women are only going after 20 percent of men. They only want to be with high earning men.
Because a lot of women will not look at a guy as a good candidate for a serious relationship if he doesn't have his shit together. They want a guy who can support them financially.
Women don't want to "build". Women are huge consumers of resources to include time, money, mental bandwidth, etc. When a man is building most women are a gigantic speed chute to him.
One thing men need to date successfully is money. Women are generally intolerant of men that have little or no money unless they are extremely good looking and tall.