Why do men pursue relationships or say they want something long term when they aren’t ready?

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[ohsheeT]

Your so right. In a guy head he might say that he's ready. But in his heart no he will never be ready. Because 9 out of 10 guys are scared to death that they're going to fail that they don't know how to love.
And they don't because they're not raised that way. They have to learn it on their own. But they don't even do that

And if they do they don't do it. They have a girlfriend for a month 2 to 6 months then all they do is copy the girl with the girl dead. They don't know how to love.

Next time you have a boyfriend and the next time that he says he's ready watch his eyes listen to his voice. Listen to his words.
He will tell you that he is so freaking scared. He doesn't know he's gonna shit his pants

Or pass out.

[HawkPerception]

A lot of men will say what they think will get you into bed with them then leave. Not all men are like that. You need to filter the players from the genuinely serious guys.

But for serious guys, you need to be wifey material, otherwise they wouldn't want to stay in a relationship with you.

[Unap0logetic_]

Most of the time, the “with you” is silent. I feel like it’s uncommon for them to truly not be ready to commit.. If their favorite celebrity crush wanted a commitment how likely do you think it would be that they would turn her down?

[Nikki1989]

I was convinced a long time ago that most men are clueless over what they want. They will say one thing and go for the total opposite.

[Zack-Bann]

Because if they say no then you say no thanks and leave


And they want sex.


So they use this revolutionary technique called: lying.


That’s the only reason no need to read more into it

[Anonymous]

For the same reason some women flirt with men, they have zero interest in.

Both genders have their respective processes. And some pursue those processes with less regard for the sake of others than some other people.

[Alex-Snow]

They may not know what they want but think they do. Or some may say it so they can have mire sex! Ur thoughts?

[BarryLiverstone]

Some want it but don’t wanna put in the work. Others say it to manipulate.


It’s like girls who say the same

[Anonymous]

It depends on the guy, but they might be using you as a stop gap or just for fun.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Because they just want to get laid and think that is just what you want to hear.

[Fireguy17]

they probably think they are ready.

[jahaims]

They still want the validation

[Anonymous]

Ready in what way?

[In_Trance]

They are ready. They're just not ready with you