Is it a turn on for you if your partner is a jealous type?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Oh boy, let me tell you, there's nothing hotter than a woman who gets jealous! It's like a mammary gland massage for my ego. When my lady gets possessive of me, it's like she's saying, "Hey, these milk makers are mine and no one else's!" And let me tell you, that makes me feel like the king of the boob castle.
I love it when my lady gets all fired up over me, like a pair of big, bouncing love pillows. It's like she's protecting her precious knockers from any potential threats. And when she gets all clingy and needy, it's like she's saying, "I need these jugs and I need them now!"
There's just something so sexy about a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it. And when she's fiercely protective of her tatas, it's like a primal instinct that turns me on like crazy. It's like she's saying, "These are my chest cushions and no one else gets to play with them!"
So to answer your question, yes, it's definitely a turn on for me if my partner is a jealous type. It's like a big, bouncy invitation to play with her love balloons. And let's be real, who doesn't love a good pair of coconuts to cuddle up with?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Am I the only one here who sees jealousy as a positive thing? So long as it isn't toxic or abusive, protective jealousy should be practiced in a relationship. It shows you value your partner.

So yes i find men being territorial is a turn on for me.

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Yeah, it's childish. His jealousy had zero influence on my behavior. I would anyway dump him if he doesn't deliver what I want in a relationship before I consider cheating.

DaveJord · Answer

Depends on what you mean by the jealous type. There is a healthy degree of jealousy, then there is the toxic form of jealousy.

So do want my woman to care if another woman is giving me attention. The short answer is YES, because there is a healthy degree of concern she should care about. And I find that sexy. Thats not processive in any way to me. I mean I am her man, and she is my woman... we have made that commitment to each other together.

But if she like stalking me around, and trying to control who I talk to and what I do... then it starts to violate boundaries.

caring__1 · Answer

Jealousy is all about insecurity, not how much they care for the other person. When people feel insecure, they tend to minimize, rationalize or actually deny compliments. It can be very challenging to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't feel good about what he/she brings to the relationship. It's important to feel we have value and know where we belong in a relationship. Jealousy prevents that from happening.

Though we may see a little jealousy as cute early in the relationship, it does nothing to add positive to the relationship over time. It's like feeling it's cute to see a toddler wrapping her daddy around her little finger, but reinforcing that behavior only creates manipulative women who feel entitled. Never assume what we see as cute in a child is a behavior we want to see in an adult, so never nurture behaviors you wouldn't want to see in a partner.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If you ever had a partner who was insecure and falsely accused you of being unfaithful, you would not hesitate to answer this question with a resounding "Hell no!"

Rei13 · Answer

I chose yes because some jealousy is normal and it just means that you’re protective of the person you care about. It shows that you care. If your partner never gets jealous, or on the other end they let jealousy rule them, it is a red flag. However there is a difference between occasionally getting jealous to being possessive and toxic.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Irritational jealousy isn't good, but if I'm laughing with another girl and I see my girlfriend look at her like a hungry lion, that's definitely pretty hot.
It's like, "Don't you worry baby girl, I'm al yours. Now come here and get a spankin."

OfMiceandMen · Answer

When I start a new relationship with someone, I like to clear the air on things like this. I explain to the person, that I am not a jealous man, unless you give me a reason to be. If you are just talking to guys, that's part of life, I trust them and will never have a problem. So, I am fine with guy friends.

However, I like the same level of trust. I explain, that once I am with someone, everyone else is hands-off and she trust me and I won't do her wrong. I just ask for the same respect.

ohsheeT · Answer

It's the complete opposite too much time wasted worrying about things that they don't need to worry about then there goes the Trust Factor there goes the communication there's always an argument on who's looking at who and for me I just don't need that in my life I trust the person that I'm with and I would hope that they would do the same with me otherwise it's just a waste of time

bolverk · Answer

No not in the slightest, if anything it is a huge turn off, The last relationship I had my Girlfriend would get unbelievably jealous if I said 'hello' and talked to an old friend who happened to be a woman, after a couple of months I ended it because she started to get violent, throwing crockery etc.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Nope. When the jealousy starts the relationship stops. Especially because it's usually hypocritically coming from someone that spends too much time on Insta anyways, so not really interested in their opinion anymore.

catiecatie · Answer

I wouldn’t say it’s a turn on but it means he really cares about me. If he’s jealous all the time then that’s a little too much for me

Anonymous · Answer

You're going to have to be more specific. A little jealousy is cute. Wanting to look through your phone everyday is not. And not because I have anything to hide. She can look through it. But after she does how she gonna tell me she trusts me. You can't build with someone like that, and I wouldn't want to try.

alice55 · Answer

I like jealous guys but it depend how much, like he can be as jealous as he want so long as he let me dress how I want if he try to force me to wear only shapeless clothes it won't end well

Emelina · Answer

I don't like man who gets jealous bc its another word for hate, and I will end the relationship faster than a smarties. Nope no dramas in my relationship at all.

Billlewis · Answer

I love it when a woman intentionally tries to make me jealous, and when she does, she'll almost certainly have me under her spell from then on.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

No, but I'd rather a partner a woman who's just cool and calm. 🥳 Makes a relationship as easy as a breeze then perfectly for me 😋

MementoMori777 · Answer

I like jealousy in a woman to a certain point, it can get toxic so as long as it doesn't cross the line it can be cute and adorable

DizzyDesii · Answer

Occasional jealous and being a protective of me around other dudes is hot

ZXCwWRQWz · Answer

I prefer women over girls. Women don't do that.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Not in the slightest. Its the opposite of a turn on its a borderline red flag. But I've dealt with some crazy jealous types that it was suffocating.

Staximus · Answer

Yes because I'm a jealous bastard myself haha. If I was in a relationship, I would tell all other women to go piss up a flagpole. A jealous woman would have nothing to worry about

sheena30 · Answer

no it isn't, I like to tlk to people, and I think a jealous person could make something out that isn't there

SunnyRS · Answer

Depends, a bit jealous is fine as it shows they care and are interested but if the jealousy is too much to snuff out your freedom then that's not a turn on.

Ascelin · Answer

I said yes and I think it's because jealousy is related to possessiveness and it's comforting to know that they just want you. I wouldn't say its a turn on or something I look for specifically but it's a nice little thing if it happens

Sparkie460 · Answer

I'm not the jealous type and neither is my wife. It would be annoying if she was because I talk to people all the time.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

No. In addition I don't want to hear about previous partners. Let the past be the past and try to be trustful.

Christoff92 · Answer

Yes it is. Shows he can't do well with people of his own gender.

9214xs · Answer

Exact opposite in fact, it’s a major turn off.

HMZ444 · Answer

Not really a turn on especially if it's the toxic kind of jealous, then it would be annoying.

Talksik6 · Answer

Yes i like thinking of her watching me or her have sex with other guys or girls

Simslover92 · Answer

A little bit of jealousy never hurt nobody.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, that is a turn off.

SnowedIn · Answer

Huge gigantic turn off.

spartan55 · Answer

Why in the world would that be a turn on?

jshm2 · Answer

Never have a jealous type as a partner.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, that's a turn off in my opinion.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope. It's annoying.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Hell no. Who like a jealous person anyway.

justabuddy · Answer

It just causes drama... I'm not j to drama.

wepiwod · Answer

Not into insecure people

Agape93 · Answer

Major turn off

itsalyssaagain · Answer

I’m jealous 🤷🏻‍♀️

LavLavLuv · Answer

Real turn off

Minahh · Answer

Major turn off

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Nope it's turn off

EaterPeter · Answer

Somewhat,

msc545 · Answer

No, it is annoying

Rohaan2020 · Answer

No... not at all

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