he told me last time " when u finish talk to me if u want" and after that we had a small chat , but right when that ended he hasn't texted me back (it's almost 2 days) , so im asking this bc some guys want to see if the girl texts first to see if she's interested
Over a year ago me and this female friend started texting each other and I always let her be the first one to text her because I'm shy and don't want to come off as pushy I guess I like to come off as a Gentlemen and not a guy who is pushy to text message her and there are times that we go without texting each other, but I've never let her go more than 2 days and not text her, but our friendship is wonderful, and I totally respect her, and she is like age 25, and I'm age 55, but there is total respect with each other. Best wishes with this situation.
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After we talked first I would wait a bit before texting first, but not longer than a day. It's not good to appear too eager.
This also gives her time to text first if she likes, but I do not expect that. Most women will not text first. It will be enough if she answers and then soon agrees to meet again.
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Some guys probably do and some don't. I don't. That's a childish game. Smh. Be genuine: text him if you want. Encourage him to be genuine and not be part of these games.
You can't forge relationships with texting. Complete waste of time.
Sure, lots of guys will do that.
Eventually, yes. I will test this out.
Yeah.
Yeah I think so
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