If you’re 39 yo man, will you date a 22 yo?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sure why not. If there’s good chemistry. We get along. I wouldn’t mind. I dated a girl when I was 25, she was 40. There was nothing wrong w that. She eventually moved back to the east coast to care for her mother. I on the other hand did not want to move to the east coast. I guess the way I look at it too, being older, I’d know how to treat a woman much better than when I was younger. I’m not saying I’m out looking for girls in their 20s, but if that happened I’d know more than I did in my 20s. I’m more financially stable, so I could provide a better life, being able to take her to more places as opposed to when I was younger where I really couldn’t do that when I was dating. I think she would appreciate it more than a lady who’s older who thinks men are garbage. No it’s not about manipulation either.

abc3643 · Accepted Answer

I would have.
When I was 36, I was very into a girl who was 20, but she was with another guy who was a profound loser that I knew that she would one day leave. And she did leave him, but that was after I moved on from that group of friends who, all they did eventually was play EverQuest, the MMORPG and I just sat around. I really liked that girl too and could have helped her greatly in life and would have loved her. She was the one who would have gotten me over my profound heartbreak. I realize the age diff might have been a problem since I was almost 16 years older than her. I would have been like a quasi-father to her. But, still, I would have been happy with her I think.

God had other plans... which always seem to be a bait-and-switch on my happiness.

catiecatie · Accepted Answer

As a girl that was in a relationship with a guy that was 14 years older than me, I’m going to say run! If he’s been recently divorced do not go it and has a young child. But maybe after a couple years it would be okay, but that was probably my worst heartache after he broke up with me. It sucked! But I pulled through and thank god I dodged a bullet. Lying piece of shit he was.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

That's weird since he'd be old enough to be her dad

God_of_Thunder · Answer

I'll be 39 in a couple of months, and I would not date someone that young, no. I have nothing against someone of that age; it's just that the difference would make me feel like a creepy old man.

ohsheeT · Answer

Is she happy is she confident is she smart is she wise does she have common sense can she smile does she have a beautiful heart is she kind is she a good kisser and she talk with her eyes I probably would yes

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I only did that once and we weren't together in a conventional sense. I doubt I would date someone that young if I was 39/40.

They really wouldn't have much in common. Kind of awkward when they hang out with each others friends, too.

slatyb · Answer

Very possibly. I was single at that age. If she wanted to start a family, I would not have been interested as I was already a single parent and that was enough for me.

Anemone978 · Answer

I would only go 10 years younger any more is like pedo status lol

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

She'd have to be some kind of special for me to do that.

Twalli · Answer

I won't date someone who isn't within 10 years of my age

Vegasrunner · Answer

Most probably will. Personally I've never been a fan of the 18-24 range I like them better 28-32 range.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

I dated a 19 year old when i was 33. Younger women like to date older men, and what straight man doesn't want young pussy? Win-win situation.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I probably would not date a 22-year-old now and I am not even 28 yet, so very doubtful.

In_Trance · Answer

Date, yes Just to be clear; dating does not = commitment.

Anonymous · Answer

When I was 44 I did date a 29 year old. I don't think I'd ever do that again.

Boblazar · Answer

I'm 37. Would I? Depends of the girls maturity level and types of interests

Anonymous · Answer

... why wouldn't they?

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Why not? Age is a number. Love is love.

hbg84 · Answer

As long as she's mature and not bat shit crazy

Sparkie460 · Answer

She's of legal age so why not

DextroShade · Answer

Yes, the man should always be older.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Ya he like the cat that got the cream

karekaaaa · Answer

I don't know If she is hot maybe yes

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I would sure why not

es20490446e · Answer

Yeap.

EaterPeter · Answer

If she want to

If you’re 39 yo man, will you date a 22 yo?

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