Deeper conversation?

[onezipp]

What do women mean by deeper conversation? When I asked what do you mean she says I don't know or just on depth conversation!! But can never offer examples of what she means

[Freshairx]

When we say convos with depth, we don’t mean giving us superficial answers.
For instance:
Him “hey how was your day?”
Her “ugh so stressful”
Him“ oh that sucks”
Ok you just kept it superficial.
Let’s rework that
Guy: “hey how was your day?”
Her “ugh so stressful”
Him “why what happened”
Her “my boss …. And I hate being under pressure like that it makes me anxious”
Him” so … happened and it makes you feel anxious. Hey I get anxious too when that happens to be at work”
That has death to it. In scenario 2 both guy and girl now know each other can get anxiety at work because of whatever hypothetical situation.


Girls want depth because it helps us get to know guys. So if she wants that, try asking more questions and giving more thoughtful responses.

[Freshairx]

Sorry for typos won’t let me edit but you get the point

[onezipp]

Thank you

Now that was an in-depth answer and appreciate this. Just 1. Question why is it the man job to start the conversation.

But very good answer thank you

[Freshairx]

Oh, I don’t think it is the man’s job. She should doing this as well. There should be a 50/50 balance of that.

[kylee2437]

Probably conversation that overall exercises our intelligences. Honestly she sounds like a very not deep person herself, because if she was, she wouldn’t be asking you to offer up deep conversation.

[onezipp]

Honestly why I am confused? She says deeper convoy or says I don't ask the right questions... Mmm how do I know what questions to ask to get you to open up

[kylee2437]

She sounds very immature. If she has questions that she wants answers to , vice versa. that’s her job to ask. Honestly tell her that she’s being immature and if she wants conversations , she should be willing to start them too

[onezipp]

Understood!!

[Anonymous]

They want to get to know you better and learn more about your past.