How to know if someone is dishonest in a LDR?

[Anonymous]

I mean we never speak on the phone but we text all the time. Sometimes we won’t talk for a few hours. I get worried that he’s hiding something from me.

[Anonymous]

It's a LDR! Beggars can't be choosers. If you want dedication you have to be there and present. If you can't or won't do that that, then you kind of just got to accept what happens.

[BarryLiverstone]

He’s hiding

[Asker]

How?

[BarryLiverstone]

By not talking on the phone

[BarryLiverstone]

When will you see him irl?

[Asker]

He says he’s busy but we always text. Should I talk on the phone more

[Asker]

I don’t know when I will see him

[BarryLiverstone]

Yea call him

[Asker]

Ok and you think if he avoids it there’s something wrong?

[BarryLiverstone]

Most likely. It will confirm you are single

[Asker]

He says I’m his girlfriend though?

[BarryLiverstone]

He doesn’t call you, has no plans to see you. He can say wherever he wants.. but actions speak louder than words.

I’m just being honest. Assume you also have thought all this?