In a sexual relationship, who generally takes the lead? the male? the female?

[LitanyofFears]

[EmmaMary]

Variety is the spice of life within our marriage.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the AI BC.

[Anonymous]

No one needs to lead. Two mature adults discuss and come to an agreement on decisions.

[Anonymous]

Most women (and men) prefer the man to lead and be the aggressor. It's natural.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the couple.

[Anonymous]

The man, obviously.

[EmmaMary]

It's not obvious at all, and shouldn't be either.

[Opinion Owner]

@EmmaMary Hey, you do you. If that's what you're into then there's nothing wrong with it. But you are the exception to the rule.

[DextroShade]

The man must lead.

[EmmaMary]

@DextroShade

Why?

[DextroShade]

@EmmaMary that's the way it's supposed to work, men are designed to lead and women aren't. Leadership requires masculine qualities.

[EmmaMary]

@DextroShade

This is now the 21st. Times and traditions have thankfully change dramatically for the better.

[DextroShade]

@EmmaMary it has not been a change for the better at all. The family unit is broken and the value of labor has declined. More women are expected to die alone than any time in history.

[EmmaMary]

@DextroShade

I think it's best that we agree to differ and leave it at that.