Why am I turned on and happy if my boyfriend gets possessive or jealous of me? Is something wrong with me to like this?

[Anonymous]

[Smiling_Baby21]

Personally, I think it's cute when a man is possessive and able to claim you as his 🤣🤣. On the other side, if he starts to limit me because of his jealousy, I won't stand that. Cause I always want to make my partner feel like he is the only man I see 🙈

[Truthatanycost]

When you have a spiritual void that you do not fill with God, then you will try to fill it with something else (of a worldly nature). And often that something else is not of God...

[Asker]

I’m not very religious sorry…

[Truthatanycost]

Neither am I...

[Asker]

So I don’t wanna do that

[Truthatanycost]

What don't you want to do?

[Asker]

I don’t really think it’d work even becoming more religious because even God himself knows how much I love my boyfriend.

[Billlewis]

Jealousy can be a powerful turn on for both men and women... you like to make us jealous and we love it when you do!

[Asker]

What about if I like him being possessive or controlling or getting upset? Like I’m not bothered by it. It makes me feel special. Most girls would run from a guy like that.

[Billlewis]

That's the best part of it -- that you enjoy making him jealous! I think there is a long standing myth about jealousy, that says if a guy gets jealous of the attention you're receiving from other men, he'll become a loose cannon and go off the rails, but I don't think that happens very often. I believe that most guys secretly love it when you make them jealous, and the fact you want to do this to him makes him a very lucky guy, in my opinion.

[SnowedIn]

If you're okay with it it's not wrong. As long as him being a little possessive and a little jealous doesn't become controlling.

[MementoMori777]

it shows care to a certain point, as long as its not toxic, then you chillin

[DextroShade]

Being territorial over a woman is a masculine trait, and women are wired to be attracted to masculinity.

[Anonymous]

Yeah a little bit. But you're young. You'll figure it out eventually.