Is it normal for my boyfriend for wanting me to be jealous of other girls? Why does he like when I'm jealous and intimidating? What does this mean?

[jlove0234]

[elew4too]

He wants to feel desired. He needs external validation in order to feel wanted. He’s a big softie 😉

[jlove0234]

Well how do I stop the behaviour? Can I just act like I'm not intimidated by any girl?

[elew4too]

You can't change his behavior about wanting you to be jealous, in the same way he can't change your tendencies and mindsets about not being jealous. What you can do, however, is stroke his ego a bit; so he's not yearning for it to be stroked in the context of getting jealous about other women. I hate that he's putting that on you in the first place though. It's like he's micromanaging the way he wants to be appreciated.

I know it sounds wild and out of the blue, but you should consider a threesome with another girl (if that's something you're open to). It would get him to think about the benefits of having a girl who doesn't get jealous. If you went down that route and discovered you were feeling some jealousy, then you would've just turned him on (by being jealous), and you wouldn't need to go through with the threesome making you uneasy. It's a win-win

[itsalyssaagain]

Means he likes the attention

[Wise4myage]

No that’s very childish and pathetic.