The mother of all questions! Which sex... male or female... is struggling the most in life?

[glennos89]

Hate comments and disrespectfull comments are not tolerated!!!

[emeraldsaphire]

I think it depends. I know all the struggles of women all to well, but I'm not as familiar with the struggles of men. Personally I'd hate to be a man. I mean the extra strength and respect would be nice, but I don't think it's worth the cost.

[glennos89]

Good answer. Good thinking aswell! What makes you think its so hard to be a man exactly? Im just curious because I think life isn't that easy for woman aswell tbh... 🤔

[Lauliss]

I think men are, but it depends on the country. In Muslim countries, women are.

[glennos89]

Interesting thinking on your behalf ❤️
I agree that being muslim woman in some countries where woman have no rights is very very hard indeed. I think I can agree with that altough Im not 100% sure ofcourse because I will never be able to experience the difficulties of life being a woman as a men. But good thinking 💪

[DarkWinterNights]

No one can really get the full experience of both, so it’ll always be up for interpretation. But there was a woman a while back that pretended, (fairly successfully) to be a man years back for a social experiment and had to end it early because it was such a bad experience. I believe she ended up taking her own life more recently.

[glennos89]

It's almost impossible to answer because nobody can have the full understanding of whats it's like to be to other sex. So your right about that.

The outcome of the experiment is debatable ofcourse but I can understand that she killed herself at some point because the loneliness of being a man is very difficult if not impossible for a woman to go through. It's a burden designed for men to be able to handle but not for woman. But woman have their own problems which men aren't able to endure their entire life if they tried so I think this goes both ways

[Frosst14]

You can’t really say because both seem to have their own fair share of struggles, but those struggles are unique to their respective sexes.

[glennos89]

I agree 100%

[annabananna]

Both have their own struggles.

[glennos89]

Definitely

[DawnCoyote]

Both are Equal.

[glennos89]

Personally I dont believe that both are equal. I believe both men and woman have their own sets of difficulties so I couldn't make a choice which one is harder because I will never know how hard life is for female because I'm a male. I only know out of my own experience how hard life can be being a male but I unless I fully understand what it's like being a female I can't give a answer to this question. We both have our own sets of difficulties but I wouldn't call them equal. That's a safe answer but not the real reality of it

[DawnCoyote]

Women have to go through Pregnancy (The 4th most painful pain humans can go through) But males have the highest suicide rates. We both go through discrimination in society (in different ways) Both feel like they have to look a certain way, etc. In the end we are all equal.

[glennos89]

If we where equal like to say, why aren't suicide rates equal then? Because being equal means that we both endure the same level of pain so then suicide rates should show the same results aswell then?

Im not saying that men have more difficulties in life and therefore have higher suicide rates but I also can't see how you can see them equal.

Giving birth is definitely a very painfull experience for woman and I'm glad I will never have to go through that but with that pain also comes the birth of a child which is probably the most beautiful feeling a woman can experience aswell. So that's pain turns into something beautiful.

The high suicide rates of men is most likely caused by loneliness which is a pain that is there and never will turn into something positive like giving birth is.

I respect your answer and your way of thinking altough I dont understand how you can see them as being the same or equal. That makes no sense to me🤷‍♂️

[FunkyMonkee]

Male, of course!!

[glennos89]

Why? Its easy to say but I don't believe you fully understand the burdens of being a woman are so what makes you believes so? 🤔

[FunkyMonkee]

Being a guy means you have to be tough as nails, you have to be the bread-winner, the supplier, the protector, you have to bust as to get anywhere in life, people (especially women of the female persuasion) turn to you for all kinds of things and, if you have a family and suddenly find yourself without a job for any reason, it could mean you lose ALL of that! The bulk of life's burdens are on YOUR shoulders and, you can't even wear whatever you want to wear!!
Being a girl means you get to cruise through life!! Everything is handed to you, you're treated like a princess, all you HAVE to work on is staying pretty so you can find a guy that'll marry you and support you and, if you DO get married and it turns out things didn't work out and you divorce him, you get half his shit!! If you wanna wear his clothes, go right ahead! Nobody cares! You have WAY more sexual freedom AND CONTROL (guys only get to fuck when YOU wanna fuck!), you get half the money and ALL the pussy!! You get a beautiful and wonderful body to play with anytime you want, you can get a line of potential boyfriends just by going out in public, you get to pick and choose who to fuck and when you wanna fuck, and a day's work for you could simply be, let somebody take pictures of your tits while you lounge around naked. Guys do things FOR you without you even having to ask! YOU know how to cook and take care of kids. You don't really have to bust ass at work and most often, guys will do anything they can to see to it your work is as easy as it can be so you don''t HAVE to bust ass. YOU GOT IT MADE!! About all you have to worry about is periods, getting knocked up hen you don't want it and guys taking advantage of you, sexually.

[FunkyMonkee]

And, another thing, men have such a hard time finding friends!! Women have trouble NOT finding friends!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQGWa-aSTUk

[glennos89]

Okay I understand what you say because I experience the same difficulties as you do being a guy. But do you know what it's like to be a girl?

[FunkyMonkee]

Not 100%, do you?

[glennos89]

No I don't thats why I couldn't say that males have a more difficult time, simply because i have no clue what it's like to be a woman 🤷‍♂️

[FunkyMonkee]

We REALLY need a Brainstorm machine so we can FINALLY each find out what it's like to be the other half!

[gothbxtch]

female

[glennos89]

Can you explain why you feel this way? I don't think you can truly understand what it is like being a male because you are female. So im interested in knowing what makes you believe being female is harder? 🤔

[gothbxtch]

that’s true, i can’t understand fully! it’s just because of misogyny. i know men have issues to deal with as well, ofc, but misogyny is built into modern society

[glennos89]

I understand that you don't like misogyny and there shouldn't be. Im against it to but you are not old enough to understand how this happened because this is something that has developed the last 10 years but the problems started 20-30 years ago. The problem that men have these days is the fact that the media encouraged woman to build careers instead of taking care of the children. The media trapped woman into Thinking that working on their careers is the right to do while in reality this is the exact opposite. Woman are the only sex who can create new life in this world which is a very special power that is amazingly wonderfull to have. Woman aren't suppose to work on their careers until they become at a age that they are no longer able to have children anymore.

[glennos89]

Ofcourse every woman has the right to make her own choices wether they want children or not but many woman don't understand the disaster that will happen once they get older and realise they ruined their chances of being able to find a guy and have a family together. Many woman are let to believe that building careers is what will make them happy which isn't going to happen and many woman who make their own money feel that they dont need men anymore aswell. They are mislead by the media and they will start to suffer when they will reach the age of 40-50. Men are starting to feel useless because of this which will make them feel more lonely then they already naturally are which will cause suïcides rates to go up for sure the next decades to come.
The problem that both males and females should understand is that they are tricked and mind fucked into a world where they both will suffer severely in the coming years to come and a disaster is waiting to happen right now. Men should understand that woman are not to blame although its mainly because of the group of woman who supporting feminism that are instigating this hate towards woman. Woman should stop listening to the media because they are privileged to build new lifeforms and building careers is the wrong way to to go. Everyone should start to point their frustrations towards the media and governments who are actually to blame for this shit that going on right now. People are brainwashed on a massive scale. That's the real problem for all of this shit that is going right now