I’m 32(F) is my life over? Would a man still want me at this age?

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RavVid · Accepted Answer

Want in what way is the real question?

Body wise you can still be quite comely at 32. So wanted for sex, yes that is on the table.

Want in a relationship sense is an entirely different matter. I am speaking for myself here but I am distrustful of women wanting marriage in their 30s. Likely they are wanting a guy to father children. That's not so bad in itself.

BUT I am very conscious that divorces are 70-80% are initiated by women and the median duration is 8 years. About 20% of marriages are jointly initiated but possibly that is because the wife did something unacceptable such as infidelity and both parties want divorce. Some husbands will commit infidelity sure but because divorce is more damaging to men it is less likely. So I would weight that 20% joint initiation as being mostly female initiated as well. Lets best guess this as 80-95% female initiated divorce by 8 years. Best case 80-90% female initiated.

So there is no way I will put my head in this noose. I don't think any sensible man would but doubtless some will. If they were a friend I'd be telling them these stats and dissuading them.

If you want relationship, marriage and children I think you will struggle. Not impossible but difficult.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not! At 32 years old, your life is far from over, and you still have plenty of time to experience love and form meaningful relationships. Many men are attracted to women in their 30s and beyond, as maturity and life experience can be seen as attractive qualities. It's important to remember that age is just a number, and there are individuals of all ages seeking love and companionship. Focus on being confident in yourself, pursuing your interests, and engaging in activities that bring you joy. When the time is right, you'll have the opportunity to meet someone who appreciates you for who you are.

silvermoon84 · Accepted Answer

Fertility goes down in our thirties so if you want to start a family it might be a little harder but at 32, you still have a pretty good chance. Just make sure you prioritize connection and falling in love over having a child though. I know a woman who conceived at 40, so it’s definitely tougher but still possible. If you don’t conceive or if you meet your husband later like many of my married friends did, there’s nothing wrong with that either. Adoption is also a great option. It sucks, but unfortunately Mother Nature didn’t give us the same leeway that she gave the men when it comes to having kids (so we can blame that bitch! J/K... well, okay not really kidding but hopefully that got you to laugh 😂). Seriously though, having kids comes with a biological clock but luckily falling in love doesn’t have any time limits, so it’s never too late for that to happen. Yes there are men who won’t date you because of your age. Let them be. They aren’t options for you anyway so you’re really not missing out. Good luck and don’t give up.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

Keep yourself in shape and looking your best self, and you will attract them even at 45.

Anonymous · Answer

The problem is when you ask women this question, they will give you an answer that does not distinguish between sex and relationships. In general, commitment is more valuable to women in the long-term. Thus women bragging that they can get men is meaningless. The reality is that at age 32, your fertility is much lower, competition is much higher, and time is not on your side but that depends on what you're looking for. Thus men will still want sex, but commitment... that's a whole different ballgame.

Anemone978 · Answer

Don't let this dumb ass community put you down because your age.. I can still pick up guys 10 years younger than me if I really wanted. The ones who say chicks in their 30s can't get men are just jealous because they can't pussy at all 🤣🤣

richardcory · Answer

Of course. 32 is young. Many people don't get into permanent relationships until much later. As men get older, the women they find attractive are older as well. You may not find may 20 year old's who are interested in dating someone in their 30s, buy you wouldn't want to date a 20 year old.

Men around your age will still be interested in you until you are at least 60 (really)

ohsheeT · Answer

WHAT? AT 32? what are you talking about. Just yesterday you went through
Puberty you don't hit your Prime until you're 50 something
Come on man. Snap out if it. Wake up smile for damn sakes. You make the rules. Not social media are what they've been saying since the 40s this is 2023 this is your world your life get what you put into it and never stop geez. Zest

DextroShade · Answer

As long as you are not fat or a baby momma you can still get a guy at that age, although he may not be your first choice. Just stay in shape, be feminine and friendly, and avoid doing stupid things like racking up a high body count, getting tattoos, piercings, danger hair or becoming a woke feminist. If you are looking for a rich guy to take care of you and give you a luxury lifestyle you are out of luck.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and no. It depends. If you’re looking for someone younger, assuming he doesn’t want kids you have a better chance. But if he’s looking to have a family, that may knock you out a time or two until you meet someone younger who doesn’t want kids. Maybe he already has kids, doesn’t want more, or he can’t have kids. If you’re descent looking enough at an older age chances are you can meet someone, but is it for something serious or just a sexual thing. Don’t know. A lot of men like younger women, a lot of the older women are bitter. A lot of women say oh I can get men all the time. Sure that may be true but how many of them are looking to just fuck as opposed to a real relationship? There’s a lot to older women that I’d fuck but would never get in a relationship w. I’m not saying your chances are over, just a little more challenging.

JesseP1nk · Answer

It depends really what you want. If you want someone to start a family at age 32 ... First it takes few years to know a person. At age 35 it might have some complications getting pregnant or it comes with risks.

If you want casual hookups, sure you find someone to fuck you. Like they say "hole is a hole"

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

I know how and why you may feel this way. And I'm sure young men might feel the same. Men and women face different narratives and insecurities in life, generally speaking. But I believe most singles are interested in people closer to their age.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Sure AF. You're still young! Just don't let it become an issue and own your age. If you are okay with your age, guys won't even think about it.

Berethor · Answer

Your looks and fertility has seen better days, but it you are not too old to have children yet.

najekim · Answer

Hell yes! First stumbled across my current wife in her late 30's.

Anonymous · Answer

You are joking, right? I know women twice your age that are always dating.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

So you think your life is over if you don’t find a man? That’s your problem

AaronKrieger · Answer

My mother got remarried at 39, which led to her being in a better marriage than the last one she was in. I imagine you'll be fine.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I'm more concerned about the fact that you lied than the fact that you're 32. 32 year olds are Hot!

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I don't see why not! But, it depends on if the two of you gel well and are interested in each other that way..

Z1pTD · Answer

32 is young! And that's coming from someone who isn't even 20 yet lol

SunnyRS · Answer

I don't think your life is over.  As for for for finding a man that depends on what you are looking for and what kind of a man you want it your life?

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Your age isn't going to negatively impact your dating life.

RHK36 · Answer

32 is still fairly young. Just build your confidence up, so this doesn't cross your mind.

In_Trance · Answer

Simple

kakaling · Answer

The biggest problem is what is the man you want.

shades777 · Answer

Your not out of the game at 32, you'll need to get better red flags for that

MementoMori777 · Answer

do you have children?

Apple1996 · Answer

32 is still young you'll find someone

gothbxtch · Answer

32 is still very young!

Anonymous · Answer

😆😆😆

Kleber_01 · Answer

Things happen, age is just a detail

Wise4myage · Answer

Come on now, stop being so dramatic.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Probably the really desperate one's.

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely yes

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes.

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