Relationship troubles - are we over?

[Anonymous]

I've been going on a date with this girl for a little over a month now. She has never texted me first, but has been responsive to my initiatives whenever I messaged her. The first time we cuddled she didn't shave her legs and apologized for it. I told her I like her stubby leg hair. The next time we cuddled she had her legs shaved. Fast forward, I messaged her something on the lines of "wake up stubby, I miss you!" - this was the first time I teased her over text and she didn't respond. Then a few days later, she didn't respond when I asked if she was available this weekend.

I dont plan on sending a third message - is this her way of telling me to move on?

[Anonymous]

Nooooo! Wake up stubby?😭 Like I get wanting to be playful, but you should use someone’s insecurity as your gateway. For instance if she was a bit self-conscious of her weight, then you said you like thicker women, it would be fine to leave it there, but if you texted her like “wake up chunky!”, lol it’s just unflattering. If anything I’d say you could shoot her a quick text apologizing about the whole thing and how you didn’t realize it was a sensitive thing to joke about, but I think it would
Be salt in the wound at this point. This could
Be her making an exit but I’d say to just wait it out and see.

[Thatpearl26]

The message. I understand that you were trying to tease her but it did seem a bit mean. If she was insecure about it you shouldn’t have brought it up.

If she doesn’t accept an apology from you then you most likely are over.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. You didn't have a relationship. You dated a few times.

2. Is there another option?

[Anonymous]

Yeah, Id wait for her to contact you, and move on if she doesn't.