How many have had sexual feelings for your opposite gender friends?

[Anonymous]

I think men and woman can be just friends and many don't agree with me. Let's settle this? Lmk your opinion

Yes! definitely would if they let me

No way, I could never see them like that

[king34]

Trust me, I have never in my life had a female friend that I wasn't attracted to, there was one but she was just very unattractive to me, but even with her I thought sexually about once or twice on days when I was horny.

I legit try but it always ends with me wanting a slice of that cake, the only exception is if she's like the girlfriend of one of my Boyz, because that's a respect thing, that would be messed up. Outside of that it's impossible for me.

You have to understand men and women are different, men aren't as picky as women, if your if your a decent girl why wouldn't we want you, you gotta realize the vast majority of men get very little attention from women, the guys you see out here drowning in bitches, are an exceptional minority, mean while most women are showered with attention from the opposite sex every day, so we value your companionship more than you realize, to a guy that doesn't get much female attention to meat a girl that's friendly to him, similar intrest and you 2 get close, in his mind why wouldn't he want you, it's like making a starving grizly bear be friends with a salmon that's dipped in honey, the grizly can only hold back those urges for so long,

Women on the other hand see men as expendable, they see us as a dime a dozen, y'all don't ever say hey here's a good guy we have stuff in common, he makes me laugh, enjoys my company and he looks decent why wouldn't I be with this guy? I should go for it, nope y'all often think your too good for us and think that your options are infinite forever, so you don't have any care to not freindzone a guy. y'all think good men are disposable, and don't respect us beyond being your simps.

I think also it just benefits women more, like to a lot of women having a male freind is just a simp on speed dial, because a lot of the time they will receive a lot of the benefits of being a girlfriend while just being a friend, like having a guy fix her car, or if I'm with my female friend I'm supposed to protect them from another guy, but the same doesn't work in reverse, I don't get a free blow job once a year or something, it's just unbalanced in the girls favor and y'all lead guys on that y'all know like you but you freindzoned for that reason

And the last reason I think men can't be just friends with a woman, is boners, horniness for men is different, it takes over our, mind, I've had female friends I could be ok with but when I'm horny it changes, everything, the reason for that is our blood flows away from our brains and toward our meat to erect it, making us a bit dumber, that's why we have post nut clarity because the things were doing seems like a better idea when we're horny. It sounds dumb but I'm dead serious. My theory is that women don't have these same biological things or at least not to the same extent, so y'all are less likely to want to cross that line with one of your friends, mean while a guy that's horny will cross be considering all options that aren't blood related or under age.

So those are the main reasons men and women can't be platonic friends 99% of the time

[king34]

Oh Also it's not always instant or obvious me I usually hold out for a while but sooner or later at some point 9 out of 10 straight guys will want you as more than a friend eventually at some point, many of us hold it in and dont make a move because we already know how the story ends. I've only ever came clean to 4 or 5 female friends and was either rejected or led on. I dont deal with female friends anymore. Most I do is a hi and bye, and thats all you get if I'm not busting any nuts

[DaveJord]

I never met a woman that I would totally want to be freinds with, that did not involve totally fucking her if she was into it.

[DaveJord]

If was not into fucking, then being freinds really didn't do anything for me. Because I would just invest my time into woman that I have real chance of sex with.

[Anonymous]

I imagine any guy who I am acquainted with in a sexual way. Feelings... meh. It's more mental. Any guy is a potential sexual partner so it will cross my mind. My imagination is huge. I have had guy friend's but none of them hid the fact they were waiting for me to sleep/date/be with them. Men and women friends purely platonic. No. Not biologically and not in reality.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I never had sexual feelings for any of my guy friends.

[Asker]

I feel like there is a total disconnect between why some men and women want to be friends with each other after reading the comments 🙃

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I'm friends with them because we share similar interests and hobbies.

[king34]

So they're good enough to be friends with, thier decent men, yet you don't want any of them? Sounds like your kinda a crappy person (if your straight that is)

[PBandJ_Nerd]

@king34 Most of them have girlfriends or like me as just a friend so I don't see what's wrong with it. I'm sure if I wanted to date any of them or if they wanted to date me something would've been said. But we're all just besties. And it's not crappy to have friendships with the opposite sex/gender by the way.

[ChiTown33]

Feelings like how?

Do I think many of them are attractive? Yes.

Do I think many of them are terrific women? Yes.

Do I think I think we are right for eachother? Most definitely Not! Which is why we are just friends.

[NamerOfStars]

Being attracted to someone doesn't mean you can't be friends, or even just be friends, with them.

[Fireguy17]

Kind of more the first answer.
Yes, but not all of them.

[clampfan101]

I know we can have purely casual friendships, even if they’re attractive. People who can’t simply lack discipline or something.

[mommymommymommy]

There's no such thing as "just friends", as soon as you realize this, you'll be lost

[KrakenAttackin]

"Just friends", you mean you are building your simp/friend zone bench.

[DaveJord]

LOL!!!

[Anonymous]

some of them i do but wouldn't act on it complicated situation

[slatyb]

That's are acquaintances I want to kiss.

[MementoMori777]

most and if i didn't, it was the other way around

[BlackJeep]

Only the good looking ones

[jjj101010]

Yeah I have